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1st letter:
Dear Shelly,
So here I am sitting alone in my new flat, getting used to living alone
after being married to you for 11 years. It is a shame that we are part
of the statistics that half the marriages do no work.
We had a bitter divorce. I know you did not want it. I have tried
explaining to you why I needed a divorce. I could no longer see the
woman that I married. You were once the nicest woman I ever knew. You
were a saint and always placed people's well-being first. You always had
empathy and compassion and wanted to help. When we were married, no
better wife could be found. You considered us as a unit that loved and
supported each other. I really did love you and looked forward to every
moment we were together.
We were so lucky that Samuel was born. I remember that you were sure he
would be born as a girl. We were blessed with a healthy boy. This was
the first crises in our marriage, where you had a depression after
Samuel was born. This was so hard, as I did not know what to do. At
least you came out of it, convincing yourself that we could have more
children. You wanted a princess.
Things never were the same again. You become so bitter, that your
personality changed. Year by year went by and it was becoming hard to
live with you. I did not want to come home to you. Besides being bitter
to life, you were jealous at many that had a perfect family and you in
many ways became evil, gossiping about others and ever so happy when
others were unhappy.
I think I had enough when Mrs. Stein's daughter had a bike accident, and
you said that she had an unfit mom.
Why did you become so bitter and so mean? We could have had the happiest
family on earth. However, this was not good enough for you. We have a 7-
year-old son that is healthy and happy.
The divorce was hard, as I could see you thought it was my entire fault.
You seemed very bitter at the last court meeting and I was surprised at
your outburst that I would regret this someday.
I love the woman that I once knew. Maybe someday when we get used to the
divorce and our new life that we could meet and talk. After all, we
still have Samuel. I am so happy he is still in my life. I am so proud
of my son. Maybe he will be a sports star or even a president one day.
We have an extra responsibility now. We have to show him that even
though we are divorced, that we still love him and both want the best
for him.
I will finish now and send my best regards.
Allan.
2nd letter:
Dear Shelly,
I was hoping you would reply to my last letter, but understand that you
are not ready for it.
It was so lovely having Samuel visit me last weekend. I was a bit
surprised when he was standing at my door with purple sandals. Things
must have changed, as I remember when I was a child, that sandals were
considered feminine. I suppose fashion changes and Samuel said you
thought they were pretty, and so does he.
Despite the troubles we have gone though, it was lovely to see that he
was smiling and happy. We watched football on TV as well as wrestling.
Then we looked at some spiderman comics that he had with him. In a way,
it was a huge change being a divorced dad, as even though it was only a
weekend, we spent some quality time together.
One bad point in the weekend was when I was tucking him in bed. He asked
me what revenge meant. I, of course, explained as best as I could and
told him it was not good. It was time-consuming and it was primitive. He
explained that he heard you tell your aunt that you were so mad that I
left you, and you hated me. He did not understand when you said that you
would hurt me so much by changing the one thing I loved. I explained to
Samuel that you were stressed and did not mean it. This, however,
concerns me. I know we have had a bad divorce, and it was overall a bad
atmosphere. Is it not wise that we do not put Samuel in the middle of
it? I will never say anything bad about you or destroy Samuels's good
image of you. He should not be a pawn and used as revenge.
One thing that I noticed is Samuels' hair. It has not been cut in about
a year. I know we have been busy in courts, and you most likely did not
think it was a priority. It is down to his shoulder! I know that was
very popular in the 1970's. I had the same hair when I was a boy.
Everyone thought I was a girl. I think boys should have short and tidy
hair. If you do have time to get his hair cut, I could do it the next
time he visits me.
Yours sincerely,
Adam
3rd letter
Dear Shelly
I have tried ringing to you but you seem to hang up the phone when you
hear my voice. I must admit I have tried many times. I think you know it
wasn't some scammer. I got the messages; you are still not ready for me.
That is ok.
Once again, I had a great weekend with Samuel. I must admit I got a
shock when I saw him holding a doll. I recognized it as your raggy doll
that you had a child. At first, I thought he may have found it, but when
I asked why he had a doll, he said that you gave it to him. I did not
know what to say. I sat and looked at him holding the doll and thought
of what my friends that I knew as a boy would have said if they saw me
holding a doll. Times must have changed.
He watched TV when I cooked, but this time he was watching a Disney film
of Cinderella. I asked him if he would rather see wrestling and he gave
me a strange look and said that he wanted to watch this. It was at this
time I noticed you did cut his hair. You just cut his fringe. Something
did not look right about it.
That night when I was asleep, I was thinking about the doll. Then it hit
me. You gave him a doll to keep him company during the divorce. It is a
way to tell him that he is not alone. An iPod would have done the same
or a football, but I have to respect that this was the way.
We went out eating the next day. He took his doll with him. I was
telling him it would be a fun dad and son activity if we made a go-cart
and entered a race. We have discussed this before. but he did not seem
so enthusiastic. I was a bit surprised at this. Eating out was a strange
event. When I told Samuel that I had to go the toilet, he said had to as
well. I had to smile when he nearly walked into the woman's room. I
reminded him he should come in the man's room with me. Things got
hysterical when an old woman said she would take care of my daughter. I
looked at Samuel holding the doll and his long hair and smiled and said
thank you, but Samuel could come with me. For some reason, Samuel was
mad.
It seems like Samuel is getting a mind of his own. I can understand that
you have a growing boy most of the time, please let me know if you need
help
Yours sincerely
Adam
4th letter
Dear Shelly
Just a few notes to let you know how the weekend with Samuel went. To be
quite honest, I am getting worried about him. I hope you can find some
time to speak with me about him. I picked him up from school today and
could see his face teary as he sat in the car. I listened to the other
children tease him. They were calling him a sissy! I was so mad that I
wanted to get out and put them across my knees.
I asked Samuel what was happening. The only thing he said was that he
did not want to go back to school. I did not know what to say, except
that it was a weekend, so we didn't have to think about school.
Then I looked at him and figured that it was no wonder they called him a
sissy. He had a hair clip in his hair that looked like a ladybug. Is
this one of the hair accessories you had as a child? I advised him to
take it out but he refused because it suited him. As he done this he
reached into his bag and took out his raggy doll.
When we were back at my apartment, I noticed he had these plastic rain
boots on. They were pink and had flowers on them! No wonder why they
called him a sissy! What was happening with my boy?
That is not the worse. Just before I put him to bed, he was going for a
pee. Being a 7-year-old he left the bedroom door open. I got a shock
when I saw that he was sitting on the toilet seat like a girl. When he
finished, he pulled up his panties. I had to look twice. They were not
boy briefs; they were pink panties with a heart in front of them.
I tucked him in bed and did my best to explain I was not mad at him. I
explained that he was being called a sissy because he acted like a girl
and was looking for a girl. He shrugged his shoulder and said he was
happy the way he looked. As I walked out he told me he had a secret. He
whispered that he wanted to marry me when he was older. I told him he
would find a pretty girl. Samuel had a worried look on his face and
asked me did I not think he was pretty?
The fact is, you will not cut his hair and you are allowing him to be
more and more like a girl. We need to speak!
Adam.
5th letter
Dear Shelly
Thank you for your one line e-mail saying you do not want to meet and
you feel no need to discuss anything about Samuel.
Then maybe you will explain to me why he was wearing shorts with white
tights under them when he visited today. The pink sandals did not make
our son look any better.
What is worse is that you allowed him to get his ears pierced. You
allowed both his ears to be pierced. I know what boys at school will
think this means, especially as the earrings were angels. I wanted to
pull them out and get my son back, but he was so proud when he was
showing me. Later I was surprised that he was still in girl panties.
I was trying to think of something to say when we were playing with
Lego. Samul broke the silence and asked could he keep his dollhouse at
my house as he did not like the toys I had for him. Any boy would love
the toys! What the hell is going on? This could be a phase, so I agreed
with his request to have his dollhouse here.
At night, when I cuddled him in, he asked me why I never call him
princess? I remained calm and told him he was a prince. Tears came to
his face and he shouted in a tantrum that he was a princess; even his
mother called him that! I hugged him and said goodnight.
He did apologize next day for his tantrum and asked if I still loved him
because he was a princess. I said of course. Then he whispered that
sometimes his mom was weird.
What is happening with our son? Maybe he needs to start playing football
or some other boy activity. I think it's my fault, as he has no daily
male image and being a single mom cannot be easy. Let's hope this is a
phase.
6th letter
Dear Shelly
Poor Samuel...
When he came this weekend he was so silent and so distant. He must have
seen my face when I first saw him. I could see his hair in a ponytail
and he had that cute Barbie t-shirt on. It was very hard to see that he
was actually a boy. The first few hours went on with him playing at his
doll house. He did not say anything except he was still teased at
school, but you talked to him at home that it was their problem and not
his.
I tried in my own way. I bought a Spiderman costume. Remember how he
always loved Spiderman? Well, he does not like them anymore as he
totally refused to put it on, saying it was not pretty.
Then he started crying and he looked so sad asking me did I no longer
love him anymore? Would I really make him cut his hair? The only thing I
could think of was that he was afraid I could not accept him. I hugged
him and explained it was because he looked like a girl, but no matter
what he looked like I would love him. He whispered that he could not
please everyone. I just sat and hugged him.
I suppose I should not have been shocked when we went swimming and had a
one piece swimming suit, the type any girl would have been happy to
wear. I decided that I would not comment it, as I promised to accept him
no matter what he looked like. The good thing is that he started smiling
again when we swam.
Yours sincerely
Adam
7th letter
Dear Shelly
I know that I usually write after Samuel has visited me. However, we
must both agree that Samuel has changed a lot. He is now thinking,
acting and looking more like a girl. I want to say he is a sissy, but
that seems like a negative word. The problem as I see it, does it help
when you buy him all the girl clothes and even call him a princess?
I remember when he said that he could not please everyone. Is this phase
something he does not want, but he wants to please someone?
I suggest you throw all the girl things out and replace them with normal
boy things. This may sound a bit harsh and I am willing to pay for it if
that troubles you.
There is also a possibility that he is confused with his gender
identity, and he could consider himself a girl. In that case, he needs
help and we need help to know how to accept how he feels
Yours sincerely
Adam
8th letter
Dear Shelly
I was so shocked that I got a short letter from you. You seem so bitter
when you said he has no real man to look up to. He has me! It is right
what you say that I always wanted a boy and I was so proud of Samuel. It
also shocks me when you write that I must be so sad and hurt that he is
now a girl. I have contemplated over this since I read your letter, and
in a way.., it is true. I was sad and hurt as I noticed him becoming
more a girl and less of a boy. These feelings do not mean I do not love
him. They mean I am confused. I want us to do the right thing as
parents. I do not want us to judge him; I want us to support him. I will
always worry as we know that he is being teased
I cannot get the thought of my head what my mother told me, that you are
doing this as revenge!
Why do you call him Sammy in your letter?
Otherwise, our son now wears pigtails I noticed with cute ribbons, and
he told me that he has started ballet. He showed me how he practices for
it. I offered you money before for boy's clothes, but notice you have
enough to buy a leotard and tutu. I must admit, he looked very graceful
when he practiced ballet. I asked him did he like it but got no answer.
Adam
9th letter
Dear Shelly
Today he was wearing a dress! This must mean that we now have a
daughter. I did not comment it. I just did things as we normally do.
When I asked him if he wanted to practice ballet, he said no.
At one stage I called him Sammy. His reaction was strange as he started
crying and ran to his bedroom. I followed him and decided not to say
anything, just to let him have a good cry. He then asked me if he was a
boy or girl. I must have looked pale as I did not know what to answer.
He then explained what happened after the divorce. You started treating
him like a girl. At first, you explained that he wore panties because
you had no money and the sandals and hair accessories were given to you.
He did not complain as he did not want to upset you. You slowly
convinced him that he was a better girl than a boy and he believed you
when you said that was a girl on the inside, just with the wrong body.
He thought you would not love him as a boy!
You are his mother, he believed everything you said. He even put up with
the teasing at school thinking it was part of his life. The problem is
that lately, he knows he is a boy and misses being a boy.
You used our son as a pawn to get revenge at me!
I have called my lawyer, as we have to look at what you did and I am now
demanding full custody of Samuel.
Adam.
10th letter
Dear Shelly
The court case is over and it was hard demanding custody of our child.
As expected, I got custody and you can no longer see Sammy. The judge
could not see that you had remorse, and could not understand that the
divorce screwed your head so much, that you did this with our child. I
could see your remorse, as I do know you. At the court, I did not know
if I could forgive you.
Sammy was very confused after as to if he was a boy or girl. I could not
help him so I took him to a specialist. At the end, both Sammy and I
understood that it was important he was happy. He could be a boy... he
could be a girl... he could be a feminine boy... the main thing is that
he accepts and is comfortable with who he is.
I moved him to a private school that has a few transgenders and are very
professional and understanding. You will be happy to know that Sammy is
very happy. He is a boy when he goes there.
For the most, he is a boy. However, sometimes he wants to be Sammy and
not Samuel. This is why I write Sammy, as he has been a girl the last
week or so. It no longer confuses him anymore. He just tells me that
Sammy wants to visit.
He got a new party dress from his grandmother. He was so happy to get it
but cried saying that he missed you. This got me thinking again. Is it
also revenge if I do not allow you to be part of his life?
I would like to ask you if you want to be part of Sammy's life. At the
beginning, I do not think it's wise you are alone with him so my mother
agreed to visit you with Sammy. Please let me know what you want
Adam
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