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As you know, it is not just the SSC that exists.
BASES: SSC, RACK, PRICK, RISSCK, PCRM (included by me in the text), CCC, SSS
In the 1980s, with the growth of the internet, in online forums, many discussions and debates were taking place in search of a balance and definition of "rules" to prevent people from being abused and to "standardize" and make the community a more diverse group. concise and cohesive, the creation of the first BDSM Base began.
In 1983, David Stein, a New Jersey slave, aiming to distinguish the type of S / M that he liked at the time of the vision of "abusive or neurotic and self-destructive behavior" that was normally associated with the term sadomasochism, decided to appropriate a a very common term and widely used at events at the time, (healthy and safe) aiming for everyone to have fun in a healthy and safe way, and added another word that became the keyword of all BDSM: Consensual.
SSC - Safe, sane, consensual. Safe, healthy, consensual.
Safe: Guaranteed, prudent, CAREFUL. Attempts should be made to identify and prevent health risks.
They are: Healthy, healthy, SENSATE. Activities should be done in a sensible and healthy state of mind.
Consensual: Authorization, permission, AGREEMENT. All activities must involve the full consent of all involved. (This does not exempt anyone from responding criminally for damages caused by the Brazilian Legislation)
Over time, the term "SSC" became famous, and the Community Engagement Committee (political arm of the GMSMA), even though the acronym did not define what they practiced, decided, in an open meeting to plan an event S / M, use these words in the hope that they would be taken as a starting point in S / M and that they would be useful in reducing the predatory and abusive image that S / M had.
Therefore, they decided to use it in March 1993 as the main slogan of an event - even being carried on a 6 meter wide strip in a march for the rights of gays and lesbians in Washington. This slogan had been appearing on shirts since the event in 1987 and its popularization spread in a way never imagined by the committee or its creator, and, with time, this started to generate a commotion for the confusion generated with the association of "insurance" with "risk free", weakening the message.
In 1999, Gary Switch proposed, in an online forum, a new term, aiming to portray, more precisely, the type of "game" practiced by many. Pointing to the fact that nothing is 100% safe - not even crossing the street - Switch compared BDSM to mountain climbing. In both, risk is an essential part of the fun, and in both, that risk is minimized through study, training, technique and practice.
In addition, Switch criticizes the fact of the subjectivity of what would be healthy or insane, as well as the lack of definition about what security, sanity and consensual are about:
"The 'perversion' part came into the term to make it a more 'smart' acronym * and because SSC doesn't say what it is about. Is it trout fishing Safe, healthy and consensual?"
* N.T. - Rack is a slang term for breasts, besides being the name of some pieces of furniture used both as a shelf or material display, as well as for bondage and body support in spanking scenes.
The purpose of this new nomenclature is education and awareness. Efforts must be made to know as much as possible of what will be / is being done. Be aware of the risks. Did you consent or have someone's consent, and are you aware of the risks and still consent? Move forward. This is the "spirit" of RACK. There is no "this is safe and this is not", but "this is less safe than that".
RACK - Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. Consensual Perversion Aware of Risks
Risk: DANGER.
Aware: Knowing a fact, cautious, ATTENTIVE.
Aware of Risks: All participants are well informed and aware of all risks involving practices.
Consensual: Authorization, permission, AGREEMENT. All activities must involve the full consent of all involved. (This does not exempt anyone from responding criminally for damages caused by the Brazilian Legislation)
Perversion: Depravity, DEVIATION OF BEHAVIOR CONSIDERED NORMAL.
In 2002, in BDSM Overdrive, a new term was coined, not yet so embraced by the BDSM community. This new term emerged as a joke in a class during the event, where the speaker was talking about consent versus personal responsibility, thanks to a concern with the SSC, since security would not be absolute. The term raises the question that knowing the risks is not enough and, contrary to popular belief, BOTH participants must be willing to take responsibility when making the choice to run them.
This term started as Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink and was added from "Informed" by someone unknown. It began to reach greater popularity in 2009, and its critics suggest that it is an excellent term in theory, but that, besides being impossible to be really - and fully - informed about new practices, emotional responses cannot be taken into account until now. in which the practices actually occur, and this would make the real acceptance of responsibility for the acts performed unviable.
PRICK - Personal Responsibility, Informed Consensual Kink. Consensual Perversion (of Risks) Informed (based on) Personal Responsibility
Responsibility: Obligation to answer for the actions, whether owned by others or by someone entrusted to you.
Personal: Individual, private, OWN.
Informed: AWARE.
Consensual: Authorization, permission, AGREEMENT. All activities must involve the full consent of all involved. (This does not exempt anyone from responding criminally for damages caused by the Brazilian Legislation)
Perversion: Depravity, DEVIATION OF BEHAVIOR CONSIDERED NORMAL.
In response to RACK, Lady Nichola suggested, in 2006, a new nomenclature, criticizing the fact that the previous terms - RACK and SSC - did not occupy the same niche in relation to BDSM. One term describes what is practiced and the other describes the philosophy under which practices occur.
"As such, I engage in Risk-Consensual Consensual Perversion - and try to keep it as safe, sound and consensual as possible."
Then, he criticizes the fact that RACK does not imply the responsibility of the participants, and that the science of risks is as subjective as the question of health in SSC, since one cannot measure the science of each one about the risks.
Lady Nichola slightly redefines the notion of some terms, captures, it seems, inadvertently a PRICK term, and unites them in a new acronym.
RISSCK - Risk Informed, Safe, Sane, Consensual Kink. Consensual Perversion Healthy, Safe and Informed Risk.
Risk: DANGER.
Informed: AWARE.
Informed Risk: All participants are well informed and aware of all risks involving practices, through reputable sources.
Safe: Guaranteed, prudent, CAREFUL. Attempts to identify and prevent risks must be directly proportional to the risk levels.
They are: Healthy, healthy, SENSATE. Activities should be done in a sensible and healthy state of mind, where the participants define what is healthy, and focusing on ensuring that psychological safety is involved.
Consensual: Authorization, permission, AGREEMENT. All activities must involve the full consent of all involved. (This does not exempt anyone from responding criminally for damages caused by the Brazilian Legislation)
Perversion: Depravity, DEVIATION OF BEHAVIOR CONSIDERED NORMAL.
In his 2002 article "Safe Sane Consensual: The Making of a Shibboleth", David Stein mentions that he received an email from a Leather Master called SARRAS, which informs about the existence of another base, in some circles of the "old" guard ", but that he (Stein) was not aware of the truth of this fact. However, even in 2000, in a "draft" article from the 2002 text, the explanation about this term and its origin comes a little better explained.
I will transcribe the text here for better understanding.
"Safe and Consensual Insurance then, is an attempt to give the would-be dominants of the world a user guide for the management of sexual strength they are dealing with, and the would-be submissives a" philosophical "framework for trust and the limitations of permanent harm. what it is, as an ideal for those who are actually using it, I can say from experience and observation that Safe and Consensual does a reasonable job as a widely held belief. However, for me, it is not a real code for life, nor a structure or set of wisdom protocols capable of effectively producing the results that those who use it think they are aiming for - for example, the creation, through sexual practice, of a Leatherman practicing S / M, all- powerful and emotionally resonant "
I grew up among Leather under the predecessor - the Three C's. You'll find several translations of this around the world, wherever you find remnants of Old Guard Leather S / M thinking (incarnations of the old Gay Biker Clubs - like the Chicago Hellfire, for example), although that is said in whispers today. day, if that is said. Anyway, the code under which I was born in Leather S / M is Committed, Compassionate, Consensual - or the Three C's. To understand this, you should almost come from the opposite point of view of insurance, healthy, consensual. For example, like many of my "dominant" brothers, I know about anger - the god of war in our lives. It's an emotion and a powerful spirit and it makes us human naturally powerful, although initially delivered in a crude form, for better or worse, and the Three C's function as a management tool or a philosophy of sexual potency to shape and use that terrible rage that lives in most humans. It is a code for the intelligent use of this anger - the modeling of it in sexual potency. "
The origin of the acronym is uncertain. Many say it is quite recent, but it had already been cited around the same time as RACK as "Old Guard".
Many consider it to be an adequate basis for 24/7 TPE relationships, as it gives all the responsibility and security of the bottom to the care and complacency of the Top.
PCRM, which means Consensual Practice (P) (C) with Minimized Risks (RM), was yet another attempt to create a more precise basis to guide BDSM. The concept of Insurance (S) is rejected, stating that nothing is 100% safe and everything has risks, and the concepts of Risk Awareness (AR) and Informed Risks (IR), establishing that risks exist and should be minimized ( not just informed or accepted).
Criticizes RISSCK when stating that no one is extremely qualified enough to analyze all the risks involved in a particular practice or interaction (considering the IR) or to express some health certificate (in contrast to one of the S's). In addition, it aims to eliminate the term Perversão (K), which has a pejorative and discriminatory connotation ('alternative' sexual activity) in the Portuguese language.
CCC - Committed, Compassionate, Consensual. Committed, Compassionate, Consensual.
Committed: Connected to something or someone, RESPONSIBLE. It means that both are committed to each other and that the Top is responsible for the bottom.
Compassionate: Compassionate, PIEDOUS. Top does whatever it likes with the bottom, which is at the mercy of Top's common sense and piety.
Consensual: Authorization, permission, AGREEMENT. All activities must involve the full consent of all involved. (This does not exempt anyone from responding criminally for damages caused by the Brazilian Legislation)
This next base was a criticism of the apparent situation of "politically correct" predicted by the creator. This base was created by Klaus, a Brazilian Top, at the time belonging to one of the first (if not the first) BDSMers groups here in Brazil, more precisely, in the SP-RJ region. I was unable to find the exact time of creation of this database, but SOMOS existed from the mid-1990s to the mid-2000s, and the only reproduction of the text is on Mestre JB's blog dating from 2008.
Klaus argues that "Consensual" was distorting the issue of domination, where the submissive had the right to express an opinion and stipulate the rules of the game, saying what he liked or disliked and the Dominator accepted, or that the Dominator said what he wanted and the submissive " authorized, "or even that slaves prevented their owners from taking over other slaves, as this was not consensual and this would be equivalent to transforming BDSM into marriage. Klaus envisioned this angle of consensus as a way to "bend" the Top to the bottom's wishes.
It brings up the question of the sensual, not in the erotic, sexy sense, but with the intention of expressing the senses: touch, smell, taste, vision, hearing. In order to express the idea that BDSM should be something that stimulates and sharpens the senses, originating in what is good for both partners and being guided by common sense and the broad sense of Sensuality.
SSS - Healthy, Safe and Sexy.
They are: Healthy, healthy, SENSATE. Activities should be done in a sensible and healthy state of mind.
Safe: Guaranteed, prudent, CAREFUL. Attempts should be made to identify and prevent health risks.
Sensual: Concerning the SENSES. The whole situation involving the partners must be sensual and good for the partners.
BASES: SSC, RACK, PRICK, RISSCK, PCRM (included by me in the text), CCC, SSS
In the 1980s, with the growth of the internet, in online forums, many discussions and debates were taking place in search of a balance and definition of "rules" to prevent people from being abused and to "standardize" and make the community a more diverse group. concise and cohesive, the creation of the first BDSM Base began.
In 1983, David Stein, a New Jersey slave, aiming to distinguish the type of S / M that he liked at the time of the vision of "abusive or neurotic and self-destructive behavior" that was normally associated with the term sadomasochism, decided to appropriate a a very common term and widely used at events at the time, (healthy and safe) aiming for everyone to have fun in a healthy and safe way, and added another word that became the keyword of all BDSM: Consensual.
SSC - Safe, sane, consensual. Safe, healthy, consensual.
Safe: Guaranteed, prudent, CAREFUL. Attempts should be made to identify and prevent health risks.
They are: Healthy, healthy, SENSATE. Activities should be done in a sensible and healthy state of mind.
Consensual: Authorization, permission, AGREEMENT. All activities must involve the full consent of all involved. (This does not exempt anyone from responding criminally for damages caused by the Brazilian Legislation)
Over time, the term "SSC" became famous, and the Community Engagement Committee (political arm of the GMSMA), even though the acronym did not define what they practiced, decided, in an open meeting to plan an event S / M, use these words in the hope that they would be taken as a starting point in S / M and that they would be useful in reducing the predatory and abusive image that S / M had.
Therefore, they decided to use it in March 1993 as the main slogan of an event - even being carried on a 6 meter wide strip in a march for the rights of gays and lesbians in Washington. This slogan had been appearing on shirts since the event in 1987 and its popularization spread in a way never imagined by the committee or its creator, and, with time, this started to generate a commotion for the confusion generated with the association of "insurance" with "risk free", weakening the message.
In 1999, Gary Switch proposed, in an online forum, a new term, aiming to portray, more precisely, the type of "game" practiced by many. Pointing to the fact that nothing is 100% safe - not even crossing the street - Switch compared BDSM to mountain climbing. In both, risk is an essential part of the fun, and in both, that risk is minimized through study, training, technique and practice.
In addition, Switch criticizes the fact of the subjectivity of what would be healthy or insane, as well as the lack of definition about what security, sanity and consensual are about:
"The 'perversion' part came into the term to make it a more 'smart' acronym * and because SSC doesn't say what it is about. Is it trout fishing Safe, healthy and consensual?"
* N.T. - Rack is a slang term for breasts, besides being the name of some pieces of furniture used both as a shelf or material display, as well as for bondage and body support in spanking scenes.
The purpose of this new nomenclature is education and awareness. Efforts must be made to know as much as possible of what will be / is being done. Be aware of the risks. Did you consent or have someone's consent, and are you aware of the risks and still consent? Move forward. This is the "spirit" of RACK. There is no "this is safe and this is not", but "this is less safe than that".
RACK - Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. Consensual Perversion Aware of Risks
Risk: DANGER.
Aware: Knowing a fact, cautious, ATTENTIVE.
Aware of Risks: All participants are well informed and aware of all risks involving practices.
Consensual: Authorization, permission, AGREEMENT. All activities must involve the full consent of all involved. (This does not exempt anyone from responding criminally for damages caused by the Brazilian Legislation)
Perversion: Depravity, DEVIATION OF BEHAVIOR CONSIDERED NORMAL.
In 2002, in BDSM Overdrive, a new term was coined, not yet so embraced by the BDSM community. This new term emerged as a joke in a class during the event, where the speaker was talking about consent versus personal responsibility, thanks to a concern with the SSC, since security would not be absolute. The term raises the question that knowing the risks is not enough and, contrary to popular belief, BOTH participants must be willing to take responsibility when making the choice to run them.
This term started as Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink and was added from "Informed" by someone unknown. It began to reach greater popularity in 2009, and its critics suggest that it is an excellent term in theory, but that, besides being impossible to be really - and fully - informed about new practices, emotional responses cannot be taken into account until now. in which the practices actually occur, and this would make the real acceptance of responsibility for the acts performed unviable.
PRICK - Personal Responsibility, Informed Consensual Kink. Consensual Perversion (of Risks) Informed (based on) Personal Responsibility
Responsibility: Obligation to answer for the actions, whether owned by others or by someone entrusted to you.
Personal: Individual, private, OWN.
Informed: AWARE.
Consensual: Authorization, permission, AGREEMENT. All activities must involve the full consent of all involved. (This does not exempt anyone from responding criminally for damages caused by the Brazilian Legislation)
Perversion: Depravity, DEVIATION OF BEHAVIOR CONSIDERED NORMAL.
In response to RACK, Lady Nichola suggested, in 2006, a new nomenclature, criticizing the fact that the previous terms - RACK and SSC - did not occupy the same niche in relation to BDSM. One term describes what is practiced and the other describes the philosophy under which practices occur.
"As such, I engage in Risk-Consensual Consensual Perversion - and try to keep it as safe, sound and consensual as possible."
Then, he criticizes the fact that RACK does not imply the responsibility of the participants, and that the science of risks is as subjective as the question of health in SSC, since one cannot measure the science of each one about the risks.
Lady Nichola slightly redefines the notion of some terms, captures, it seems, inadvertently a PRICK term, and unites them in a new acronym.
RISSCK - Risk Informed, Safe, Sane, Consensual Kink. Consensual Perversion Healthy, Safe and Informed Risk.
Risk: DANGER.
Informed: AWARE.
Informed Risk: All participants are well informed and aware of all risks involving practices, through reputable sources.
Safe: Guaranteed, prudent, CAREFUL. Attempts to identify and prevent risks must be directly proportional to the risk levels.
They are: Healthy, healthy, SENSATE. Activities should be done in a sensible and healthy state of mind, where the participants define what is healthy, and focusing on ensuring that psychological safety is involved.
Consensual: Authorization, permission, AGREEMENT. All activities must involve the full consent of all involved. (This does not exempt anyone from responding criminally for damages caused by the Brazilian Legislation)
Perversion: Depravity, DEVIATION OF BEHAVIOR CONSIDERED NORMAL.
In his 2002 article "Safe Sane Consensual: The Making of a Shibboleth", David Stein mentions that he received an email from a Leather Master called SARRAS, which informs about the existence of another base, in some circles of the "old" guard ", but that he (Stein) was not aware of the truth of this fact. However, even in 2000, in a "draft" article from the 2002 text, the explanation about this term and its origin comes a little better explained.
I will transcribe the text here for better understanding.
"Safe and Consensual Insurance then, is an attempt to give the would-be dominants of the world a user guide for the management of sexual strength they are dealing with, and the would-be submissives a" philosophical "framework for trust and the limitations of permanent harm. what it is, as an ideal for those who are actually using it, I can say from experience and observation that Safe and Consensual does a reasonable job as a widely held belief. However, for me, it is not a real code for life, nor a structure or set of wisdom protocols capable of effectively producing the results that those who use it think they are aiming for - for example, the creation, through sexual practice, of a Leatherman practicing S / M, all- powerful and emotionally resonant "
I grew up among Leather under the predecessor - the Three C's. You'll find several translations of this around the world, wherever you find remnants of Old Guard Leather S / M thinking (incarnations of the old Gay Biker Clubs - like the Chicago Hellfire, for example), although that is said in whispers today. day, if that is said. Anyway, the code under which I was born in Leather S / M is Committed, Compassionate, Consensual - or the Three C's. To understand this, you should almost come from the opposite point of view of insurance, healthy, consensual. For example, like many of my "dominant" brothers, I know about anger - the god of war in our lives. It's an emotion and a powerful spirit and it makes us human naturally powerful, although initially delivered in a crude form, for better or worse, and the Three C's function as a management tool or a philosophy of sexual potency to shape and use that terrible rage that lives in most humans. It is a code for the intelligent use of this anger - the modeling of it in sexual potency. "
The origin of the acronym is uncertain. Many say it is quite recent, but it had already been cited around the same time as RACK as "Old Guard".
Many consider it to be an adequate basis for 24/7 TPE relationships, as it gives all the responsibility and security of the bottom to the care and complacency of the Top.
PCRM, which means Consensual Practice (P) (C) with Minimized Risks (RM), was yet another attempt to create a more precise basis to guide BDSM. The concept of Insurance (S) is rejected, stating that nothing is 100% safe and everything has risks, and the concepts of Risk Awareness (AR) and Informed Risks (IR), establishing that risks exist and should be minimized ( not just informed or accepted).
Criticizes RISSCK when stating that no one is extremely qualified enough to analyze all the risks involved in a particular practice or interaction (considering the IR) or to express some health certificate (in contrast to one of the S's). In addition, it aims to eliminate the term Perversão (K), which has a pejorative and discriminatory connotation ('alternative' sexual activity) in the Portuguese language.
CCC - Committed, Compassionate, Consensual. Committed, Compassionate, Consensual.
Committed: Connected to something or someone, RESPONSIBLE. It means that both are committed to each other and that the Top is responsible for the bottom.
Compassionate: Compassionate, PIEDOUS. Top does whatever it likes with the bottom, which is at the mercy of Top's common sense and piety.
Consensual: Authorization, permission, AGREEMENT. All activities must involve the full consent of all involved. (This does not exempt anyone from responding criminally for damages caused by the Brazilian Legislation)
This next base was a criticism of the apparent situation of "politically correct" predicted by the creator. This base was created by Klaus, a Brazilian Top, at the time belonging to one of the first (if not the first) BDSMers groups here in Brazil, more precisely, in the SP-RJ region. I was unable to find the exact time of creation of this database, but SOMOS existed from the mid-1990s to the mid-2000s, and the only reproduction of the text is on Mestre JB's blog dating from 2008.
Klaus argues that "Consensual" was distorting the issue of domination, where the submissive had the right to express an opinion and stipulate the rules of the game, saying what he liked or disliked and the Dominator accepted, or that the Dominator said what he wanted and the submissive " authorized, "or even that slaves prevented their owners from taking over other slaves, as this was not consensual and this would be equivalent to transforming BDSM into marriage. Klaus envisioned this angle of consensus as a way to "bend" the Top to the bottom's wishes.
It brings up the question of the sensual, not in the erotic, sexy sense, but with the intention of expressing the senses: touch, smell, taste, vision, hearing. In order to express the idea that BDSM should be something that stimulates and sharpens the senses, originating in what is good for both partners and being guided by common sense and the broad sense of Sensuality.
SSS - Healthy, Safe and Sexy.
They are: Healthy, healthy, SENSATE. Activities should be done in a sensible and healthy state of mind.
Safe: Guaranteed, prudent, CAREFUL. Attempts should be made to identify and prevent health risks.
Sensual: Concerning the SENSES. The whole situation involving the partners must be sensual and good for the partners.
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