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The Birth of Lesley Renee
by: Lesley Renee Charles
Part One - The Early Years
I was born on Sunday, September 26, 1965 in Somerville, New Jersey. I
was named Ernest for my father and Charles for his paternal grandfather.
My mother says I was a prissy child from day one and had to be treated
just right or I would be moody. My father always told me that I was a
very good baby, and that they only had to tell me no and tap my hand and
I would stop misbehaving. The first three years of my life were
uneventful. Around the age of three, I realized that I should have been
born a female. I had no idea of the different plumbing of the sexes at
the time so I just knew I would grow up to be a woman. It felt odd and
wrong to me when the adults around me insisted that I would grow up to
be a man. When my mother was expecting me she would have liked to have
had a daughter. For a while growing up I always felt guilty that I was
not born a girl, just had a female mind. She would tell me over and over
again that she didn't care about the sex of the child just as long as I
was born healthy.
I wanted to play with dolls and fell in love with the Dawn doll series.
My godmother also gave me a Colorforms set of cut out Dawn dolls that
were similar to paper dolls in that you could change the outfits on the
dolls. This became another favorite toy of mine. I refused to play with
my matchbox cars and trucks. My older half brother would force me to
play with them. Also, around that time I would walk on my toes emulating
walking in high heel shoes. This also freaked my family out. My
preferred playmates were girls. I always got along better with them than
with boys.
I was also in my first and only year of nursery school at the time. My
mother later told me that I was picked on by the boys and taken under
the wing of the nursery school owner's older daughter. I was an
extremely good-natured and sweet child. I usually did what I was told.
When playing house I would always be a daughter. I felt more comfortable
in the feminine role. I would almost always act effeminate. Around this
time, I was called a fag and fairy by some of the teen-age boys in my
neighborhood.
I would play dress up in my mother's and my friends' mothers' clothes. I
especially liked to wear the high heel shoes. I had many girl friends
and very few boy friends. I just did not feel comfortable around boys,
even though I was told that I should hang out with them. I preferred
playing with the girls because they suited my quiet nature. They also
played with the toys that I really wanted to play with. I also liked
being around girls because I understood them and felt more comfortable
with them. Being with boys always felt strange for me. I just did not
understand them nor did I want to. They also had to tolerate being with
a very effeminate boy, which they were very uncomfortable with. I did
not like to play sports or do any of the other things that boys like to
do. I was just too prissy for them.
Around the time I was five or so, I received Raggedy Andy as a gift,
either for my birthday or Christmas. I remember being so disappointed
because I really wanted the Raggedy Ann doll. That Halloween, I went out
as Raggedy Ann. That was the only time I was able to go out as a girl.
Luckily there is a photograph of me in that costume. Evidently my older
brother didn't get to it and destroy it.
Luckily I wasn't beat up growing up, but I was mostly ignored because of
my gender issues. I felt very isolated around people and most of them
viewed as being very strange because of my girlish tendencies, which I
did not bother to hide. Eventually I try to behave as much as a male so
that the other kids did not bother me, but still be true to my desire to
be me. My mother in her own way partially encouraged this behavior. She
would have me stay with her among her woman friends, so from a very
early age I would hear girl talk.
Part 2 - Family Background
First I will begin with my mother. She was born on March 3, 1922 to
Italian immigrants. My Grandfather came over sometime in 1919. I suspect
that he wanted to get away before Mussolini came into power, but I don't
really know his reasons for coming to America. Maybe like most
immigrants he wanted a better life. My Grandmother and two uncles came
over in 1920. My mother married her first husband in the mid-forties. He
was an alcoholic and was abusive to my mother and older half-brother. He
died in 1962 and about a year or so later my mother met my father. They
married on January 4, 1964 and I was conceived about a year later. My
mother later said that I was an accident, because she was told that she
wouldn't be able to have more children. She was forty-three the year I
was born. She told me that during the pregnancy she almost lost me. She
started to spot blood. The doctor made her stay off her feet. She also
said that one of her friends wanted her to have a girl. I also think
that my mother wanted a daughter. Little did she know that she had a
daughter that was born with a penis. My mother decided to leave the
factory where she worked since World War II. By doing this she lost out
on her pension, a fact that I was reminded of all through my life.
I was spoiled by all of her friends. I was doted and fussed over. My
mother spoiled me rotten. As a result of this I was not walking by the
age of one. According to my mother one day, my Aunt Connie (my mother's
younger sister) was over and had some keys. My mother said that I wanted
the keys and my aunt refused to give them to me so I walked over and got
them. I guess I was strong willed even back then. My mother also said
that when I was being potty trained I would only follow her into the
bathroom. I have a vague recollection of learning to pee sitting down.
Around the time I was 2 and a half my mother had to take in her parents
and blind and deaf mute brother. My Grandmother's doctor did not want
her taking care of her house at eighty-seven. They stayed with us for
about a year before they died. My Grandfather died first on January 1,
1968. About six months later, my Grandmother fell and broke her hip.
This started her downfall. She then had several mini-strokes. I was the
only person she remembered so I was taken every day to the nursing home
where she was so that she could see me. I was looked after by the nurses
there, who found me sweet-tempered and easy to look after since I stayed
where, I was told to stay. My Grandmother died in October of 1968. I
took their deaths hard. I remember being at a train station with my
father and younger brother and my dad telling me that I was making
enough noise to wake the dead and I said that was good because then
Grandma and Grandpa could come back.
Next comes my father. I really don't know too much of his background. He
hardly talked about his childhood. The only things I know were his
parents were divorced and he was raised in several foster homes. I wish
I could say a lot of nice things about my father but he is not a very
nice person. When I was younger I thought the world of him, but I was a
disappointment to him, since I was quiet and gentle. He was happy when
my younger brother was born so he could teach him all his rotten tricks.
My father was a sneak drinker. He would buy the beer and hide it in the
trunk of his car. He liked it when I was old enough, say about six, so I
could go up to the movie teller and buy the movie tickets and take my
younger brother into the theater, so that he could stay in the car and
drink.
My Uncle Patsy was a smart and brilliant man. Although he was blind and
deaf, he could do many things to take care of himself. He caned chairs,
he walked our dog, he shaved himself. He was kind and always remembered
birthdays. He knew what day of the week it was. He was also great at
woodworking. Anything he built could last a long time.
My older half-brother was born on April 30, 1944. He joined the navy in
1963 and two years later he left because they would not send him to
Vietnam. He was just out of the navy when I was born. He always would
comment on anything that I did that was not masculine. For example he
disliked when I wanted to play with dolls and toy stoves. He would force
me to play with my matchbox cars. I rarely played with them, that is why
they were in good condition until my younger brother played with them.
My younger brother was born on May 22, 1969. I helped my mother take
care of him. There are many pictures of us together where I am hovering
over him and/or holding him so tight. I guess I was an over-protective
older sibling. He was the one that was hard on toys. He would like to
take things apart to see how they worked. I on the other hand tried to
keep my things as new looking as possible.
Part 3 - The School Years
I lived in Middlesex, New Jersey until I was eight. My family then moved
to Lawrenceville, New Jersey. My dad did not want to commute to work
anymore was the reason that we moved. I thought that my dad would spend
more time with us but it didn't work out that way. I was extremely shy
as a child so it was hard for me to lose my friends. Once in the new
house my preferred friends were two girls who lived across the street.
This was great because I could play girl roles and play with dolls
without asking my parents for them. I still did not have many male
friends, I was not comfortable being with them. It did not help that I
was not interested in playing sports or any other typical male behavior.
My favorite past time was to read a book somewhere quiet.
My mother would always let me stay around her and her friends when I was
growing up and so as a result of this I picked up feminine behaviors. I
also go a good dose of how rotten men can be. My mother would also
criticize me if I used a lot of typical male behaviors, especially
butting into conversations. I would get a lecture for a half-hour or so
on how this was rude and inconsiderate.
I primarily chose to play with girls, I liked to play imagination-based
games. Also, by playing with the girls I was able to play with their
dolls and doll houses. Around the time I was seven or eight my parents
decided that I needed to learn self-defense so I was enrolled in Judo
classes. This did not last long as I was not very comfortable there. I
was also made to join the Cub Scouts, which I did until we moved to
Lawrence Township. I later had to join the Boy Scouts, but as this
interfered with my watching the Donny and Marie show, I bitched and
moaned until my mother let me drop out. Also I was not very comfortable
hanging out with boys, I didn't understand them and they most certainly
didn't understand me.
Around the time I was ten, my mother told me that if I didn't keep my
privates washed they would fall off. I stopped washing them because I
didn't like the funny way they felt. I guess I was trying to see if my
mother was right, but no they stayed on. Pity. To this day I very seldom
touch them.
I started puberty when I was twelve. But I was closer to thirteen when I
mentioned to my doctor that I was feeling a stiffness between my legs. I
thought I was dying. He tried to explain to me about sex and the
differences between boys and girls. I guess I must have looked confused
because he recommended a book for me to read. When I started to develop
body hair, I really hated my body and very rarely exposed it.
When I was fourteen, I went to a summer camp for two weeks. It was at
the camp that I started to become depressed with suicidal tendencies.
When I came home I told my doctor and he had me go see a psychiatrist. I
was in single and group therapy for two years. The depression seemed to
ease a little. My one regret now is that I never mentioned by gender
issues with him. Maybe I could have started transitioning earlier.
Around this time, I prayed to God every night to make me a girl so that
I could be happy.
Around my teen years I liked to sneak into my mother's closet and wear
her shoes and costume jewelry. I would imagine that I was Scarlett
O'Hara. Gone with the Wind was and still is my favorite book and movie.
I couldn't wear her dresses though because my mother was a lot shorter
than me.
By the time I started High School, I was practically a social outcast. I
remember walking past groups of kids and hearing them laugh. High School
was something I tolerated.
There was one incident that happened to me when I was in tenth grade. I
had to go to the bathroom real bad. I saw a door that I knew was a
bathroom, but no sign as to whether it was a girls' room or a boys'
room. I went in, did not pay attention to the fact that there were no
urinals, since I always used a stall. While I was doing my business I
heard voices, as a group entered the restroom. I was still not paying
attention to what sex the voices were. I finished what I was doing and
left the stall that was when I noticed that I was in the girls' room.
There was a bunch of girls there, boy, was I red-faced. I know that they
must have kidded me some. I thought I was going to be in a whole mess of
trouble, but it was never reported.
During High School, I became interested in painting and drawing and
became quite good at them. During my Senior year, my mother had a heart
attack around Christmas. I had to take over the cooking of meals for a
little while. I was always good in the home economics classes. It was
wood shop that was my cross. It would take me six weeks to barely get
one wood shop project done. It was during this time that my mother and I
found out that my dad had a mistress. He even tried to buy a house for
her from the inheritance he received after his mother died. He didn't
have enough on his own and tried to get my mother to help finance it by
taking a second mortgage on our house. She refused and he lost the other
house. It was around this time that my feelings for my father changed.
That summer also proved to be very eventful. I was accepted into Trenton
State College as an art major. My whole Senior year of high school was
spent in trying to get me to live on campus. The school was fighting me
over the ten-mile radius. I credit my Guidance Counselor for encouraging
me to stick with the fight. I was soon allowed to live on campus. My
Uncle Patsy was diagnosed with a cancerous tumor on his spine. The
doctors opened him up to see if they could remove it. They couldn't so
my uncle was scheduled for radiation treatments. It was while he was
having this therapy that I found out about Art Therapy. The treatments
worked, they shrunk the tumor. But about two months later, we found that
the cancer had moved to his liver. My bedroom was next to his, so I
could hear him moaning through the night. I started my Freshman year of
college and had a difficult time of adjusting at first. Around the
beginning of October my uncle went into the hospital for the last time.
He died about two weeks later. To this day I still miss him. He was a
truly remarkable person.
Around the time I was nineteen, I was feeling that I should have been
born a girl. Then, I thought that if God wanted me to be a girl, I would
have been born a girl. I felt that I had to accept being born a male.
This started me on a period that would be my longest form of denial.
Part 4 - The Later Years
When I was nineteen, I thought that being male was a mistake. Then one
night I thought that if God wanted me a female I would have been born a
female. This thought cost me many years of suffering. I then tried to
act more like a male, but I wasn't very successful. In my mind's eye I
would still think of myself as a female.
When I was around twenty or twenty-one, an incident occurred which would
scar me for a little while. I was working in the college library over
the summer. It was during the lunch hour and I was alone in the shelves
when I noticed a guy leaving. I did not like the expression in his eyes
and I was glad that he was leaving. About five minutes later, he came
back and went into the shelves ahead of me. A few minutes later I heard
a rustling sound, but I paid it no mind. I went back to the table with
an armful of books that I was putting the new checkout labels on when
this guy called me over. I went over to him thinking that he wanted me
to help him find something.
He asked me if I wanted to get together, I was a little na?ve at the
time, so he pointed down to his crotch. His erect penis was sticking
out. I remember saying no and left. He waited around for a few minutes
and tried to get me interested. When this failed he turned around and
left.
A few minutes later, reaction set in and I started to feel sick and
dirty. I told one of my supervisors about it. She told me to contact the
campus police. I did not do this because I felt that they would say I
asked for it because of my effeminate demeanor. For the next week, I had
to force myself to return to that area of shelving. I would remember
this incident for a long time. I regret now, not reporting the incident
to the police.
I graduated college in 1988. I then proceeded to get a hourly position
for the New Jersey Department of Personnel. I started out in the
clerical field.
I was kept in the hourly position for five years when I was made
permanent. I stayed with the Department of Personnel for 11 years.
Last year several events came together and I had to make a life changing
decision. A few years ago my dad started to have health problems. It was
later found out that he had Alzheimer's Disease. We had to put him in a
nursing home, since he would wander off. My mother then lost his pension
check. I was not making enough to keep the house going in New Jersey. I
was also becoming dissatisfied with my job. I tried to get my department
to switch me to another unit. They refused. In August, we put our house
on the market. In September, we took the highest offer. I decided on
South Carolina.
I visited two of my friends from college there and fell in love with the
Upstate. As luck would have it I bought a house on the same street where
my friends live.
It took me a while to find a job. I finally took a job in Pizza Hut as a
cook. I enjoy working there. It is also great to keep up with people
half my age.
During this time I chanced upon a web site dealing with Transsexuality.
On this web site there is a test called the COGIATI. It deals primarily
with males dealing with transgender issues. I scored as a probable
transsexual. But I was not ready to accept this so I looked at printed
form so that I could answer more like a male. By doing this I moved up
through Androgyne and Feminine Male. I thought I could live with being a
male with a strong feminine side, but my innate honesty took over. So I
moved back through the categories, back to probable Transsexual. I
finally admitted to myself that is what I was. After I became
comfortable with that, I took the test again, and scored as a
Transsexual.
I am now working on finding a therapist. Hopefully he or she will
confirm this diagnosis. I will then have to make a decision where to go
then. I trust that God and my feelings will guide me to make the right
decision. I finally feel great that I don't have to try to act like what
I am not.
I did start therapy and will be starting on hormones in the next month
or so. I did finally start dating and I am in a long-term relationship
with a wonderful guy.
As a result of this I have started to assemble my first female outfits.
I now how several skirts, blouses and my boyfriend is sewing me a dress.
He had to learn how to sew growing up. He is a female to male
Transsexual. I will not really describe him, as he is not out to his
work. I also several pairs of shoes and panty hose and a few pairs of
padded bras. Can't wait until I don't need the padding anymore.
It was a real experience for me the first time I put a pair of panty
hose on. I have learned that it is easier for me to lie on the bathroom
floor and get them on. I am on the small side when I am not erect, and
with the panty hose flattening it out, I can achieve a feminine front.
Another good tip is the panty hose that develop runs are great for
stuffing a bra. They really fill up a C cup padded bra wonderfully.
I have left all my female clothes at his home and the minute I arrive
there I get into them. I enjoy wearing them and dread when I have to get
back into my boy clothes. I am starting to get comfortable with putting
on my make-up. A good book to get is Kevyn Aucoin's Making Faces. There
are two photos of beautiful women who is really the same male.
There are just a few more things and behaviors that I want to acquire
before I try to go out in public dressed as a woman. Thank God, I am
only 5'7", small-framed. And no Adam's Apple either, my voice never
changed.
It is my hope that my story can help somebody who is currently
struggling with these issues realize that they are not alone and to get
help. Do not ignore these issues it can only bring unnecessary
suffering.
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