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Advice For Men Dating Transgender And CDs free porn video
So I decided to write a few things about transgender and crossdressing females that is mostly focused toward guys since I see so many comments on videos that tells me they need to step up their game and learn. These comments are based on my experience as a straight guy dating genetic females and then ‘transitioning’ (pardon the pun) to trans women. I have dated a handful of mtf trans girls (one for an extended period of time) and have had a few casual encounters with crossdressers (CDs) who would fit the category of ‘sissies’ as people call them here. The trans women I have dated were all in their late 20s and early 30s and the CDs were all between the ages of 19-24. All of these girls were Hispanic due primarily to where I live.
Some people would consider my orientation as “Bi” but I disagree as I am not attracted to men and I don’t consider a trans/CD to be a man….we can disagree on that but that’s how I see it. I don’t claim to know everything or claim to be an expert but I do have experience so if you have read this far, perhaps you are a man interested in transgender/transexual relationships or you might be a trans woman or CD yourself and can add some ideas in the comments section. In any event, here goes.
Guys - a few things you need to know if you are going to date or have experienced with trans and CDs.
1. Don’t refer to her in person as a shemale or tranny…that’s a big no-no and while some won’t be offended, many more will be so just refer to her in the female sense.
2. Remember the above rule when thinking about making that first move.
3. Trans women, like men, love sex but just like gg girls, many feel offended if you are too pushy as they need to emotionally ‘connect’ just like a woman.
4. Although it can be awkward bringing this up, try and find a respectful way to bring up HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) and see if she is taking them. This will sometimes have an effect on certain things such as her emotional state/mood swings, her sexual functioning (erection and sperm load), and with some girls, even her orientation (top/bottom/versatile).
5. Understand that (in sex) while you may have this fantasy to do things you can never do with a regular woman, don’t automatically assume she wants that. Everyone loves respect, hugs, kissing, and passionate sex but don’t automatically assume she wants you slobbering on her cock (think of it as her clit). For some, they will love it and encourage you on, but for others, it offends their sense of being a ‘woman’…remember, most have this internal feeling of being a woman.
6. Many trans women have gorgeous bootties and as men, we are wired to notice and adore them. It doesn’t mean you should just dive in and start eating it like female pussy. In my experience, most love it as it confirms their sense of femininity but some are self conscious about that or have never been rimmed. Start out slow and assess the situation. Obviously, if you are in 69 with her and she begins inching back on your face, you know she is game but some are not. On the positive side, get it out of your head that you might be going down on something ‘dirty’…not going to happen as trans girls are very ‘self aware’ of their bodies and cleanliness. If she is not squeaky clean, she won’t let you get near it.
7. Trans women and sissies alike love giving oral so just go with it and enjoy. In my experience, cis women don’t have anything on a trans in this department and its very likely you will find that a trans gives better head than any woman you have ever been with.
Special notes about ‘sissies.’
1. Sissies are Crossdressers with fantasies about being a woman. They don’t live their life as a woman full-time like a trans does. Some do but most don’t which means they transform into the female form. I have been lucky enough to have experienced a few so far (all under 25) and they were all magical in their own way.
2. So get the idea out of your head that you are with a man….actually this goes equal for CDs and Trans but especially for a CD. It might be more challenging with a CD because for some of them, they have to ‘dress’ in the hotel or place you meet them. This means that its possible you might initially see them in their male form but rest assured, they know how to dress and transform.
3. CDs can be slightly different than a full-time trans woman in how they feel and approach sex. One thing is for sure, they want to be the woman so its highly doubtful they will be asking to top you. They want to be a woman totally and like more domination than full time trans girls. I am not saying they want to be abused, far from it, they are exposing their vulnerability and sexual confusion so treat it with respect. They just want to be a girl and so no beta male action here, take control and be that man they want. Sissies definitely love sucking cock and they work really hard for that creamy ending so be prepared and again, be that man they are wanting to be with.
4. Again, always refer to them in the female sense and watch them light up and be so happy.
That’s all for now….will post some additional stories re above but wanted to lay some groundwork first. Lastly, if you have issues with manhood and guys being in CD and trans relationships, I respect that but don’t bash me for my lifestyle and choices. Everyone is different. I am confident in my manhood and just like marching to a slightly different beat. Peace out.
Some people would consider my orientation as “Bi” but I disagree as I am not attracted to men and I don’t consider a trans/CD to be a man….we can disagree on that but that’s how I see it. I don’t claim to know everything or claim to be an expert but I do have experience so if you have read this far, perhaps you are a man interested in transgender/transexual relationships or you might be a trans woman or CD yourself and can add some ideas in the comments section. In any event, here goes.
Guys - a few things you need to know if you are going to date or have experienced with trans and CDs.
1. Don’t refer to her in person as a shemale or tranny…that’s a big no-no and while some won’t be offended, many more will be so just refer to her in the female sense.
2. Remember the above rule when thinking about making that first move.
3. Trans women, like men, love sex but just like gg girls, many feel offended if you are too pushy as they need to emotionally ‘connect’ just like a woman.
4. Although it can be awkward bringing this up, try and find a respectful way to bring up HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) and see if she is taking them. This will sometimes have an effect on certain things such as her emotional state/mood swings, her sexual functioning (erection and sperm load), and with some girls, even her orientation (top/bottom/versatile).
5. Understand that (in sex) while you may have this fantasy to do things you can never do with a regular woman, don’t automatically assume she wants that. Everyone loves respect, hugs, kissing, and passionate sex but don’t automatically assume she wants you slobbering on her cock (think of it as her clit). For some, they will love it and encourage you on, but for others, it offends their sense of being a ‘woman’…remember, most have this internal feeling of being a woman.
6. Many trans women have gorgeous bootties and as men, we are wired to notice and adore them. It doesn’t mean you should just dive in and start eating it like female pussy. In my experience, most love it as it confirms their sense of femininity but some are self conscious about that or have never been rimmed. Start out slow and assess the situation. Obviously, if you are in 69 with her and she begins inching back on your face, you know she is game but some are not. On the positive side, get it out of your head that you might be going down on something ‘dirty’…not going to happen as trans girls are very ‘self aware’ of their bodies and cleanliness. If she is not squeaky clean, she won’t let you get near it.
7. Trans women and sissies alike love giving oral so just go with it and enjoy. In my experience, cis women don’t have anything on a trans in this department and its very likely you will find that a trans gives better head than any woman you have ever been with.
Special notes about ‘sissies.’
1. Sissies are Crossdressers with fantasies about being a woman. They don’t live their life as a woman full-time like a trans does. Some do but most don’t which means they transform into the female form. I have been lucky enough to have experienced a few so far (all under 25) and they were all magical in their own way.
2. So get the idea out of your head that you are with a man….actually this goes equal for CDs and Trans but especially for a CD. It might be more challenging with a CD because for some of them, they have to ‘dress’ in the hotel or place you meet them. This means that its possible you might initially see them in their male form but rest assured, they know how to dress and transform.
3. CDs can be slightly different than a full-time trans woman in how they feel and approach sex. One thing is for sure, they want to be the woman so its highly doubtful they will be asking to top you. They want to be a woman totally and like more domination than full time trans girls. I am not saying they want to be abused, far from it, they are exposing their vulnerability and sexual confusion so treat it with respect. They just want to be a girl and so no beta male action here, take control and be that man they want. Sissies definitely love sucking cock and they work really hard for that creamy ending so be prepared and again, be that man they are wanting to be with.
4. Again, always refer to them in the female sense and watch them light up and be so happy.
That’s all for now….will post some additional stories re above but wanted to lay some groundwork first. Lastly, if you have issues with manhood and guys being in CD and trans relationships, I respect that but don’t bash me for my lifestyle and choices. Everyone is different. I am confident in my manhood and just like marching to a slightly different beat. Peace out.
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