Dr Zaaijer Family Therapist Role Reversal Part 11
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Chapter two.
Joanne had already broached the subject with Steven. Steven didn't think
he had anything to lose by going along with Joanne and said 'Yes'
immediately. But now was the time to ask her mother. She didn't know if
asking her mother would be harder or easier than asking her boyfriend but
Joanne had to do something. If she didn't, eventually she would have to
choose between the two of them and that was a decision that she just
didn't want to make.
"Mom," Joanne started tentatively, "I have to ask you something."
"Yes, dear." Joanne could always talk to her mom. But before Joanne could
ask what she wanted to all sorts of troubling things went through
Adelaide's head. She was worried that Joanne had decided to marry Steven
and they were engaged. Then she worried that it was worse than that,
Joanne might be pregnant. The fear started to show on Adelaide's face.
Joanne wasn't looking directly at her so she didn't see it.
"Mom," she repeated, "I want you to come to family therapy with me and
Steven. I want us to be a family...or if not a family I want to see if
you can get over this hate you have for him."
Adelaide was relieved that it wasn't as serious as she thought, but family
therapy wasn't anything she had ever thought about. "Family therapy?"
"Yes, lots of people go to a therapist when they are having trouble. I
think we should too."
"What gave you this idea?"
"Ummm someone I know's dad was going to one. So it sort of came up."
Joanne didn't want to bring her dad into the discussion. Joanne wasn't
sure if mom hated dad more than Steven. But it was close. There was no
reason to sour mom's opinion by bringing up dad.
"Who?"
"I don't want to say."
"Was it Steven's dad?"
"No it wasn't!" Joanne said indignantly.
"I don't know."
Just come and if you don't like it you can leave at any time."
After a little more persuasion, Adelaide gave into her daughter's request.
Dr. Zaaijer had a good reputation in the community. He even took the
insurance that Adelaide had and would wave all co-payments and
deductibles. The appointment was made for next Thursday.
The three arrived at the doctor's office together. Adelaide and Steven
didn't say a word to each other the entire trip.
"Hello," Joanne said to Dr. Zaaijer's receptionist, "we are here for the
10:30 appointment.
"Great, Dr. Zaaijer has been expecting you. He wants to see you one at a
time at first. The doctor wants to hear each of you without any influence
from the others. Joanne you can go in now. When Joanne turned to see
Steven and her mom before entering the office she saw that each had taken
a seat as far away from each other as possible. Neither was saying
anything, but she could still feel the tension in the room.
"How is it going?" Dr. Zaaijer asked once Joanne was situated in his outer
office.
"It's not going well. They hate each other. In the car ride over here
they didn't say two words to each other. But even with the lack of any
conversation, I could tell they would be at each other's throats if they
could. I don't know how you are going to help me. But I have confidence
in you."
"I have been thinking about your problem since we last spoke. I think I
have come up with a solution. They hate each other because they don't
know each other. If they could see how the other one thinks and feels
then they would gain understanding. First comes understanding."
"That's all well and good, but how will you do that."
"I'll suggest that they swap roles for a month or so. Then they will
learn about each other. It'll start with understanding, next there will
be acceptance, soon they will learn to respect each other and finally they
will become like close family. Well that is my hope."
"I don't think they will go for it."
"They are stubborn people. I'll appeal to that. I'll tell them if they
love you they will try. If they can't do it, then the other is the
'better' person. They will do their best just to prove the other one
wrong."
"When you say role reversal what does that mean? Steven will start
cleaning the house and mom will go to Steven's job at Walmart?"
"No much more than that. Steven will become Adelaide Rios in every
respect and your mom will become Steven Carmer. They will not only do
what each other does, but also wear each other's clothes and socialize
with each other's friends. I'll propose that for the first week, they
spend that time together learning about one another. Then for the next
month they will be each other full time IN EVERY WAY." Dr. Zaaijer
emphasized those last three words.
"And you think they will just do it?"
"Oh they will do it. I'll appeal to their egos. Neither will be able to
back down. In the end, Steven will know more about your mom than you ever
did and vice versa."
"OK you're the doctor. You must know best."
"You can wait in the waiting room, send in your mother."
Joanne left the doctors office. She saw her mom and Steven still sitting
on opposite ends of the room trying to ignore one another. Adelaide was
reading one of her 'trashy romance novels' between sips of coffee. Steven
likewise was reading. But he was reading one of the Sports Illustrated
while drinking a soda.
"Mom the doctor wants to see you now," Joanne called out to her. Adelaide
uncrossed her legs, got up, then walked to the office door. She quickly
went in and closed the door behind her.
"What did the doctor say?" Steven inquired.
"Not too much, he just asked me about myself and why we are here." Joanne
didn't want either Steven nor her mother to know that she had ever seen
the doctor before this appointment.
"Oh. That sounds OK, I suppose."
"Steven, I just want you to do one thing when you are in there?"
"What's that?"
"I want you to keep an open mind."
"So he told you something?"
"No, I just know how you can be when it comes to mother. I want this to
work out."
"I'll do anything for you. You know that."
Under her breath Joanne said, "I hope that is true."
A short while later, Adelaide returned to the waiting room and Steven went
in to see the doctor.
"Well what did you think?" Joanne asked anxiously.
"It wasn't as bad as I had thought. The doctor asked me a few simple
questions. We talked a little about my life and other things. You are
right, Dr. Zaaijer seems to know what he is doing." Her mom's comment
relieved Joanne's stress dramatically, but she still didn't know how her
mom (or Steven) would react when the doctor told them of his plans.
A short time later, the trio was sitting together in Dr. Zaaijer's office.
Joanne was sitting between her mother on the left and Steven on the right.
Everyone in the room while suspicious of each other completely trusted the
doctor.
"Adelaide tell Steven how you feel about him" the doctor told her.
"I told you in the private session. He knows how I feel."
"Tell him anyway."
"OK, Steven I don't like you. I don't trust you. I think you aren't good
for my daughter." Adelaide told Steven, she tried to hold back the
venomous tone from her voice for the doctor and Joanne's sake. But she
shouldn't have bothered. Joanne knew that Adelaide didn't just not like
Steven, she hated him. She loathed him. She despised him.
"Good, now Steven you tell Adelaide how you feel about her."
"I think you are controlling and manipulative. You want to control Joanne
in every way you can. You don't think that any boy is good enough for
her. You want Joanne all to yourself. You never want her to LEAVE YOU!"
"That isn't true."
"Yes it is."
"Excuse me!" Dr. Zaaijer shouted to regain control. "Adelaide, Steven
didn't say anything when you were talking about him. You must give him
the same respect. Continue Steven."
"I think that is about it," Steven said.
"Fine, I have been thinking about this and I think I have a solution for
you, but you all have to take it seriously." Dr. Zaaijer waited a moment
for the trio to assent. When they didn't say anything he continued, "do I
have all of your assurances that you will do what I ask?"
"We don't know what it is," Adelaide said. What if I don't like it?"
"I assure you what I will propose is a common technique. It is perfectly
safe, but you have to commit to it or it won't work."
"OK, I'll do as you ask," Adelaide stated. Joanne and Steven voiced their
agreement too.
"Now once this is started you have to see it through. It'll take a lot of
commitment from Adelaide and Steven, but some from you too Joanne. If you
do what I suggest in the end you will all be happier people and you will
either get along or if you can't follow through, it'll prove that the
other person is more committed and is right. The one who can't follow
through to the end will just have to admit defeat and do what the other
person says."
"You mean if Steven doesn't do as you suggest I can tell him to leave
Joanne forever and he'll have to do it?" Adelaide inquired.
"Yes, that is exactly what I mean."
"And if she doesn't, then I can make her leave me and Joanne alone?"
Steven countered.
"Yes."
"What if we both go to the end and nothing has changed," Adelaide inquired
again.
"I'm telling you, by the end everything will have changed. Just believe
me. I have been doing this for a long time," Dr. Zaaijer reassured.
Everyone trusted Dr. Zaaijer so they let him dictate his plan.
"What I propose is for Adelaide and Steven to preform a role reversal."
"What?"
"Role reversals are a real psychological technique. Not like how you see
it portrayed on sitcoms. For the next month or so, Adelaide will act like
Steven and Steven will act like Adelaide.
"You mean for the next month I'll do nothing but read romance novels,
watch soaps and boss around Joanne?" Steven said sarcastically.
"Well you are partially right. You will be doing all the things that
Adelaide likes. But you will also have all of her responsibilities too."
Adelaide smiled at this. "You will be doing all the house cleaning,
buying the groceries, cooking the meals. What you call bossing Joanne
around is actually parenting. You won't boss around Joanne you will
parent her. When you are with Joanne, you will act with her like her
mother not her boyfriend."
"Awww," Steven said again still sarcastically.
"But that isn't just it, you have to do not only all she does, you have to
do it the way she does it. That means you will also be wearing her
clothes and her..."
Steven cut in, "You mean I'll we wearing dresses and skirts all the time?"
"Adelaide isn't wearing a dress nor a skirt now. You don't have to limit
yourself to skirts and dresses, but you do have to wear only her clothes;
and her makeup too. Not only that you will have to walk like her and talk
like her and socialize like her. You will be spending time with her
friends not yours." Adelaide was smiling throughout Dr. Zaaijer's
explanation. "But that doesn't mean you will be getting off easy either,
Adelaide. You will be doing what Steven does. You will wear his clothes,
work at his job, hang out with his friends, go on a date with Joanne."
"A date with Joanne?"
"Yes, you know take her out to dinner and a movie, that sort of stuff."
Adelaide and Steven were stunned into silence. "Also," Dr. Zaaijer
continued, "Steven you are going to have to move into Adelaide's home. If
you are going to make the beds you should sleep in them too."
"What about me? Will I have to move in with Steven's parents?" Adelaide
inquired.
"No, we will make one exception, you can move into the guestroom of your
house, but you will be Steven, a guest, while you are there. It won't be
your house it'll be 'Adelaide's'. Besides, for the first week you two
will be spending a lot of time together. You have to teach each other how
to be yourself. Adelaide, you will teach Steven how to do the house work,
what to wear, who your friends are, how to walk and sit properly
everything about yourself. And Steven you will have to teach Adelaide
everything about yourself too. You will have to teach her how to do your
job, the rules of baseball, who your friends are, how to not move like a
'queer'. In a week, Steven you will be Adelaide and Adelaide you will be
Steven. Not that you both won't be continuing to learn more and more
about each other. In the end, you will know each other so well you won't
be able to not like each other."
"I don't know if I can do it."
"You promised. If you give up now you lose. You know what you said."
"OK, I'll do it!" Adelaide stated. Steven said the same.
"Let's start with this, Adelaide give Steven you purse and Steven give
Adelaide you wallet." They did as requested. "Now Steven, there's a
romance novel in there. I expect you to have completed it and a dozen
more by this time next month. Adelaide you can borrow my Sports
Illustrated from the waiting room." Then at if he had just remembered,
Dr. Zaaijer told Steven and Adelaide, "Remember, you can't have any
secrets from each other. How can either of you act like the other would
if you don't know everything you need to know."
It was decided that Steven would get hair extensions and color his hair to
match Adelaide's. (Hair care was part of Adelaide's routine.) Adelaide
didn't have to cut her hair, but she had to tie it up in a hair net and
always have it under a baseball cap so it wouldn't show. Adelaide also
didn't have to be intimate with Joanne on her dates, but other than that
she had to be Steven.
The trio left the doctor's office looking pretty much the same as they had
when they entered. The only difference was that Steven was carrying
Adelaide's purse. They went to the car and Steven headed for the driver's
seat.
"Hey, what are you doing?"
"I'm going to drive, it's my car."
Adelaide wanted to argue, but she decided not to. This wouldn't last too
long. Steven wouldn't want to be her for real for any length of time. So
she ate her pride and went into the back seat where Steven had been
sitting when they arrived.
They drove away. Steven was planning on driving them to Adelaide's house.
"Where are you going?" Adelaide asked.
"Home?"
"To whose home?"
"Your home."
"Which is that?"
"You know where Joanne lives."
"This is all so confusing, let's start to get this straight. First we
should start with our names. Since you are carrying the purse, and are
driving the car then from now on you are Adelaide and I am Steven. We
should all start using those names." Adelaide said.
"That makes sense," Steven agreed.
"And you, Adelaide lives at," and she gave her address to Steven.
"Right."
"Now that we got that straight, where are we going?"
"I'm going to my home."
"I think you should drive to my home first. We have to pack a bag so I
can live with you."
"That's a good idea. We'll go there now."
"But you should go in and explain everything to, your...I mean my parents.
Joanne and I will wait in the car."
"Fine, I'll get everything you need and then I'll be right out."
"Don't forget to explain what is happening."
"You should tell them. Well I think we should tell the people we know. I
mean you telling my friends that you are me won't go well." Steven opened
the car door and was about to get out.
"Aren't you forgetting something?" Adelaide asked.
"No I don't think so."
Adelaide picked up her, now Steven's purse. "Take this, you never go
anywhere without it."
Steven took the purse. He then carried it loosely in his hand. Adelaide
was about to call out that he should sling it over his shoulder, but
decided she could tell him when he got back.
While Steven was out getting his things and talking to his parents, Joanne
and Adelaide waited in the car and had a conversation of their own.
"Mom are you really going to follow through with this role reversal
thing?" Joanne asked.
"Of course I am Honey. Besides it won't last too long. I know Steven, he
won't be able to keep his agreement very long. He might not even last the
day."
"I think you are underestimating him. He can be very persistent when he
puts his mind to it." (Adelaide thought for a moment, I know that is how
he got your virginity.) Continuing Joanne said, "and he really loves me.
He'll do anything to keep me."
"So you say, but I don't think so." With little more to say, the two fell
silent. Adelaide wanted to read her book, but it was in her (well
Steven's, well Adelaide's...this was getting confusing she thought) purse.
Sitting next to her was the Sports Illustrated she had gotten from the
doctor's office. She didn't want to read that so she took the time to
think. Then an idea came to her. "Joanne give me your phone," she
demanded. Adelaide's phone was in her purse and Steven still carried his
phone in his back pocket.
Joanne handed Adelaide the phone. Adelaide knew the phone number by heart
and called it.
"Hello, I want to make an appointment can you fit me in today?
What do I want done??? I need my hair to be colored and extensions put in
my hair.
Yes, it should be 'Baby Blonde' and the extensions to take my hair down to
about three inches past my shoulders.
As for the style, I want it to be a mid-length style as I said three
inches below the shoulders. It must have soft ends and long face-framing
layers. Then add a few random soft layers through the crown to add
movement and texture. Make sure there is a lot of fullness to the style.
I can be there at that time, make the appointment for Adelaide Rios.
No. Thank you!" she said and then hung up the phone.
"There that'll do it," Adelaide said to herself as much as to Joanne.
"When his hair gets colored and extensions are about to be put in, it'll
all become real to him. Then he'll quit for sure!"
Joanne thought maybe her mother was right, but she didn't know how
powerful Dr. Zaaijer's control was on the family.
Sometime later, Steven returned from his house. He was carrying a large
suitcase and a backpack.
"How did it go?"
"Well mom and dad didn't understand it. But I am over eighteen and was
moving out. There was nothing they could do about it. Maybe they didn't
believe me when I told them. Anyhow I am all set."
"Good," Adelaide said with a huge smile. "I made an appointment for you at
the beauty salon. It's time to get you some pretty hair."
"Um I thought that could wait until later. Besides I have to unpack."
"Nonsense. They could fit you in today, but we have to hurry. Plus it's
not you who has to unpack, I am the one. While you are in the stylist
chair, Joanne and I will be setting up the guestroom for me. We'll pick
you up when you are done."
"But I don't want to..."
"Are you giving up so soon?"
"NO!!!"
"Then it's all set. The appointment is for Adelaide Rios and I already
told them what you need done. All you have to do is just sit there and
they'll do the rest, I was very specific. When we pick you up you will
have hair just like mine."
"Whatever."
"Oh, it'll take a lot of time to do it. I usually spend the time reading
a good book and I know you have a great one in your purse. It is so
engrossing that time should fly and in no time it'll be done."
Adelaide gave directions to the salon and Steven got out. She reminded
him to take his purse again. "And don't forget you sling it over your
shoulders when you carry it. Don't want a purse thief to get it."
Steven would need it this time he had to pay for the services. Once
Steven had entered the salon and Adelaide and Joanne could see him talking
to the stylist, Adelaide got out of the car, she was in the back seat.
She tried to get into the driver's seat, but Joanne was already in front
of the wheel.
"Hey, I'm driving," Adelaide demanded.
"This is mom's car and I don't think she would want you to drive it
STEVEN."
"But..."
"No buts, are you giving up so soon?" Joanne mocked her mother's statement
to Steven from a few minutes ago. Defeated, Adelaide got into the
passenger seat.
"Home?"
"No I want to make a quick stop first."
"To Carolyn's house." Carolyn Andrews was Adelaide's best friend.
"Why there?"
"The doctor said we should tell all our friends about what is happening.
Carolyn is my best friend. I have to tell her. I was supposed to go
shopping with her tomorrow. She'll be shopping with Steven instead."
Carolyn was on the way to their house anyway. Joanne parked the car in
Carolyn's driveway as she had seen her mom do many times before. Joanne
hopped out and Joanne who didn't want to wait in the car followed right
behind.
Adelaide rang the door bell and in no time Carolyn let the pair in.
"Addie, well how did it go?" Carolyn asked.
"It wasn't as bad as I had feared. The doctor was professional and very
nice. This will work out better than I had hoped."
Everyone found a comfortable place on the chairs and couch in the living
room and then Carolyn inquired "Tell me everything that happened."
"Well he talked to all of us separately. He asked me a bunch of questions
and I told him everything that I had thought. I didn't hold back a bit.
Why should I?"
"I can imagine what you told him," Carolyn said. Joanne roller her eyes
at what her mother must have told the doctor. She had heard it all
before.
"Anyway, when it was all done, the doctor said that the problem was that
me and Steven didn't understand each other."
"uh huh"
"Like I don't understand a BOY like Steven. But then he told us what to
do and this is so perfect."
"What did he say?"
"He said that me and Steven should swap places for a month. I'll be
Steven and he'll be me. And here is the kicker, if either of us can't
follow through then that proves the other one was right and he'll have
to...how did he put it??? I don't remember exactly, but if Steven can't
be me for a month, then I can tell him to leave and never come back."
"Really?"
"Yes, there is no way he'll be able to do all the house cleaning, cooking,
grocery shopping and all the things I do. Not to mention he'll have to do
it like I would wearing my clothes and acting like a grown woman."
"He's going to have to spend a month in drag??? I don't believe it."
"Believe it. Right now he's at my stylist getting extensions put in his
hair and coloring it my shade of blonde. He must be going nuts. The
whole thing might be over today."
"Hey don't forget you have to act like he does for the month too." Joanne
interjected.
"I can put up with acting like a little boy for a month. I only hope that
what he cooks doesn't kill us. I guess I can eat out although I suppose
I'll have to be eating a lot of fast food to be like Steven. I'll have to
go on a diet when this is all over."
"I can't wait to see it," Carolyn said excitedly.
"Well you won't have to wait too long. Tomorrow we are supposed to going
to go shopping. Well it won't be me who shows up at your door, it'll be
him."
"No kidding?"
Nope, and I want you to treat him exactly like you would me. Call him
Addie like you do me. If you see me on the street and want to talk to me,
call me Steven. Well there isn't a reason for you to talk to me until
this is done. I suppose if you phone the house and I answer, call me
Steven then.
Do everything you do with me with him and vice versa. If he isn't acting
like me then tell him. If he doesn't shape up then tell me. I want to be
fair. It'll be his first day, but if he isn't willing to do it right then
I need to know.
"Sounds like fun. Where should we shop?"
"Well I have been thinking. He should be able to get into my clothes,
well some of them, they are stretchy and I probably need to lose a few
pounds, but he can't fit into my shoes. So take him shoe shopping. Don't
let him just buy the first pair he sees. Make a day of it. Make sure he
tries on scores of pairs. He mustn't just try the shoes on, he should
walk a few steps in each to see how they feel. You know like I would.
He should own at least a dozen shoes by the time he gets back, and no
sneakers at all."
"I can do that," Carolyn said with a smile.
"One other thing, make sure he has his ears pierced. I wear earrings all
the time, he should too."
"OK, I know where to go."
"Well if Steven hasn't quit by tomorrow then he'll be here. If not you
and I will celebrate instead."
"Until tomorrow then."
"But I have to go. I have to unpack Steven's stuff at my house. Steven
will be staying with us until this is done."
"I thought you said he would be wearing your clothes. He will, Steven's
stuff is for me. Steven will be in my bedroom and I'll be sleeping in the
guest bedroom."
"Sounds like you have a plan."
"Boy do I."
"Well bye for now, Add...I mean Steven."
"Bye Mrs. Andrews."
Joanne didn't know if her mom was right. Could her boyfriend stand being
treated and acting like a woman for an entire month? Joanne trusted Dr.
Zaaijer so she was sure it would all work out for the best. The goal was
not for mom or Steven to win against each other, but for them to learn to
respect and live with each other.
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