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Al Helford was getting worn down by his girlfriend Lisa Willner always bringing up wanting an open relationship. Each time Lisa talked about wanting the open relationship Al became more open to the idea. The point of him not being able to meet all of her desires in the bedroom was making more sense each time the man heard it. Al wanted her to be as happy as she could be' and this would help him reach the goal. Al hearing her out was so sweet to Lisa and that was one of the reason he was her Sweet Thing. Sweet Thing might one day agree to his Baby's wants for their relationship, but he would not partake in using the new status. Al would never be able to see other people, even if it was just for casual sex. He was a one woman man. Even if Sweet Thing believed anyone could always detach emotions from sex, he still would not be active in the open part of the relationship. If wanting to see other people was not enough, Lisa had a caveat which was the open relationship was only with people of the same sex. This provision was to Baby's advantage. Lisa was bisexual and Al was not. Lisa's rational on only being able to see people of the same sex was that they could offer something in the bedroom which either Al or herself could not. Her man could never satisfy Lisa when she craved the a woman's touch. The relationship would not be fair if all of his sexual desires were met as hers were not. Lisa also saw it as both of them having the same freedom. Al not taking advantage of the situation of being able to see other people was of his own accord. Each time Lisa brought up the open relationship Al was less repressed with talking about the subject. Now he was even comfortable enough to bring it up to a couple of their mutual friends. Before he would be so embarrassed even thinking of the conversation with others. Al still could not bring talk about the idea of open relationship to everyone. The man who was mulling over doing what was best for the other still blushed thinking of telling people if it was just idle chat. Getting more information so he could come to the right conclusion was the only reason why Al could think of broaching the personal subject with others. Al knew he should talk to those people who he could share Lisa's idea with. He picked Cenk Unck and Jill Kasparian as who to share his dilemma. Cenk and Jill were also bisexuals.Those two could help Sweet Thing see Lisa's point of view better. Al could not emphasize with not having all his sexual needs met and hearing how others who had that issue would help him come to the right decision for his relationship. Cenk and Jill were each thrilled that Al called them about getting together without Lisa. They knew that their friendship with Lisa's boyfriend has become closer. Al saw them as his friends instead of friends he got from his girlfriend. This also meant that Al was becoming more comfortable intermingling with the LGBT community. It was easy for people to have a gay friend around in normal social settings. The person was in a place well within their comfort zone. Going to a social setting where they were the minority was different. They were not used to be the outliner. Al was at a point where being the one who was different made no difference in how comfortable he was in the social situation. Those three went out for dinner. After catching up on what was new with Cenk and Jill then ordering their meal Al brought up the topic he wanted to discuss. It was not the first order of business to him. That would have been rude and made the meal not a social event. Also, Al waited to share what was on his mind because he wanted to know how his friends were doing. Al went into the topic the best way, by being straight forward. "Cenk and Jill, I did not invite you out just to hang out. I do have something on my mind which I think you two could help figure out." Jill said, "Go ahead dear." Al said, "Lisa wants our relationship to be open." "That is personal dear and we can't help you make the decision." "Jill I know I have to make the decision on my own. I need your perspective on dating. Jill wants our relationship to be open because there are some things a woman can offer her which I cannot." "It is simple, if you want to see other women then say yes. If not say no." Before Al could tell those two the stipulation, Cenk spoke up instead of waiting for more information. This was out of character for Cenk. He was usually the cautious type when giving advice. Too often people who were asking for guidance was looking for someone to take the blame if they made the wrong choice. If not that then it is just them wanting to be told the decision they made was right. "Al there are somethings which one man cannot offer which another man can in the bedroom to a woman. So don't base your decision on not being able to give Lisa everything she wants in the bedroom." "Oh Jill, Cenk, Lisa would only be able to see other women and I would only be able to see other men." Jill was happy that her friend was opening his sexual experience."I got the perfect man for you Al. He is smart, charming and cute. I know he would like you. You two would hit it off.The best part is he is not looking for anything serious. He just wants a steady man to hang out with once in a while and enjoy in the bedroom. He hates sleeping around." Al's response to Jill showed how much he grew as a person since getting together with Lisa. Before being with his Baby, if anyone would have suggested hooking him up with another man, Al would have gotten offended and became defensive. "Jill thanks, but if I say yes I would not being seeing anyone. Men just don't do anything to me." Cenk went even more out of character when he asked if Jill knew this. Cenk had to see if his friend was really just trying to find a loophole to cheat on Al. If the answer was yes then Lisa was setting it up that she could have her cake and eat it to as Al could not. Lisa's Sweet Thing's answer was a simple yes. Lisa putting more of an emphasises to get what she wanted without giving the same to Al made Cenk piss at her actions. Then her wanting Al to put up with something she could not made it worse. If Al said yes and actually went out with a man Cenk knew Lisa would be so jealous. He knew Lisa just did not think the situation through enough. He also knew that Lisa justified the arrangement by lying to herself about not being jealous if it was a man. Cenk knew better. Being jealous of someone else being with the person you want was not about their sex. It was about someone having access to something which you want to be exclusive to you. Cenk knew exactly how to solve Al's issue. He made an exception about not butting into other people's business. Cenk trusted that Al would not blame him. His friend was sincere when he responded to Jill about knowing this was his decision to make. "Al you want to say no but are looking for a way to say yes." "Yeah, I want to do what is best for me and Lisa. I love and care for her. I want what we have to last." "Then trust me say yes. After you go out with a man she would want to end the arrangement she came up with." "Cenk, I told Jill I am not going to see anyone. This is about making sure she is happy. I want her desires to be met." "Not all desires can be met. Her biggest desire is to share her life with you. I can tell by how she smiles when your name is brought up. I can tell how she told us to make sure to give you a chance as you got comfortable being the only straight person when we hung out. You two have something special and her wanting the open relationship to be one sided would ruin it. You know that Lisa would be so jealous if you were actually with someone else. You will start to get jealous also. I know you would fight it, but sooner or later you just would not be able to stand her seeing other people. You would start to worry if she saw the same girl too often that they were getting serious. So you can either put your foot down and say no to make sure it is not brought up again or say yes." "I do not find men attractive. I can't go out with one, even if I wanted to see other people." Cenk pulled out his phone and showed Al a picture. As Al looked at the picture he started to admire the beauty he saw. The lady in the picture was as stunning as the twist of The Crying Game. That was not the only thing she shared with the movie. Like Jaye Davidson from the movie she was all man. Cenk said, "What do you think of her?" Blushing a little was the confirmation which Al gave to this lady earning his seal of approval. He was confused on why he was shown the picture and asked. With a devilish grin on his face Cenk said in an over the top fake British accent, "She's a man, baby!" Al started to blush even more. He knew Cenk's plan. Even with in theory the suggestion of him just having a date with that man being a great solution to his problem, in reality Al did not like it. There were too many bad outcomes which could come from it. If Cenk and him was wrong him about Lisa getting jealous right away then the relationship would stay open. Al would not just keep on seeing men until Lisa became envious of nothing. Having an open relationship could lead to either him or Lisa being so jealous after the first date the other had that the relationship would end. The input did help Al come to what he saw was as the out. , "Jill, Cenk thanks for the help. I'm just going to tell her no and not to bring it up anymore." After thanking those two they went back to just enjoying each other company. The night did come with something positive, Al knew that he had those two as friends. That they were not friends with the rider of him being with Lisa anymore. Their bond was about how close they were as a people. ************* Al waited until Lisa brought up the open relationship again to tell her his definite answer. He believed how firm he was going to say no that Lisa would know it was his final answer. With Al giving his reasoning to support why the subject should be closed only made Lisa think that her Sweet Thing needed to be more confident that a little carnal pleasure from someone else would not lessen the great relationship they had. In fact, her seeing other women would make it stronger. She would have everything her heart desired and that would only make her love for Al truer. A couple of months went by and Al thought that Lisa would never bring up the open relationship again. Then one night Al's Baby tried to be sweeter than her sweet thing. Lisa gave him a special treat in the bedroom, she swallowed his load. Al loved it when a blow job in a woman's mouth. The pleasure came from him just being able to sit back and enjoy. Al did not have to worry about telling Lisa he was close to climax. As they were soaking up the afterglow the shadow of the real reason Al got something his heart desired descended upon him. "Sweet Thing, you really enjoyed me swallowing your load." "Oh yes." "I did that for you. I am able to meet all your sexual desire." "Oh yes." "You want all your sexual desire met right." "Oh yes." "Then you should see why I need to be with a woman once in a while. Can we talk about it now?" Right then Lisa showing her being sweet was as artificial as saccharin made Al know that this would always be brought up until he said yes or they were no more. This subject would dangle over them. Al knew he had to say yes. He also knew that if stayed long term they would be over. Al was a one woman man and he deserved to be with a one man woman. Al was hoping that the all of the advice which Cenk gave at their diner was true. "You really want this relationship to be open so yes I would give it a try. I might like seeing other people." "You know you can only see men. This is not just us seeing anyone." "I know. You and your friends say don't knock it until you try it. So if I have the chance and know that it will not break us up I should see if I would enjoy being with another man." Lisa knew Al was bullshitting. He was a one woman man and never showed intrest in men before right now. She called his bluff. "Good then it is settle. This is all about being honest, you know to tell me beforehand if you ever see another man." "I will." "Also there would be no talking about what we did with the other person. We will not even know who it is." "I understand." "Just making sure. I don't want us to get into a fight about this." "I know. I do not want to know the details." ************* Even with having a her eyes on a baby lesbian, a newbie to the LGBT community, Lisa was going to wait a couple of weeks to ask her out. She knew that Al would not like her having a date so soon. Al's Baby did not want her Sweet Thing to think that she has been planning for when he gave into her desires. Lisa knew that even with Al saying yes he needed to know that she was not going straight on the prowl. That the open relationship was just a spice in the meal of her life, not one of the courses. Being with a lady new to exploring this part of her sexuality was so enticing to Lisa. The idea of helping this lady find out all the pleasures a woman can give another was just so thrilling to her. Being that ingrained into someone's memory just drove Lisa crazy. She was going to be the gold standard which that lady would hold all her lovers to from now on. Lisa loved setting that standard high. Al set his plan right into motion. He wanted this over with. Being dishonest about the date just did not feel right. If for one moment he did not believe that Lisa was not looking at the big picture he would not have went through with setting up the date. That would have been just delaying the inevitable and not fair to all the parties involved. Cenk was prepared for this day to come. He already asked his friend Amanda Love to help Al. Amanda was more than happy to. She was always game for any excuse to go out in public as Amanda. Plus, there was a great meal involved and if Cenk was only half honest about Al then that man was going to be great company. He would treat her like the lady she was and Mandy loved how that made her feel. Lastly, she knew that it was going to help a couple stay together. Mandy was as romantic as a man taking his woman to where their first date was to propose to her. Just thinking about being a small part of Al and Lisa's love story made her all gooey inside. After Al and Mandy hashed out their plans, he was ready for the next phase. Telling Lisa about the date. On Tuesday night as they were watching television Al brought up the plans for the weekend. "Baby, you should hang out with Erin and Tiffany on Friday." "I will, what are your plans?" "I have a date." "Yeah right." "I do." "With who?" "I can't tell you." "Al, this will not work. You are just trying to make me jealous. If you are not ready for us to be open just say so. I will not bring it up for a while." "I do have a date. I would not lie to you just to make you jealous." Lisa knew that was true. "Sorry Sweet Thing. I just thought that you would not jump in with being with a man so soon. This date is with a man?" "Yes, it is with a man. I would not cheat on you or our agreement." "What do you like about him." "We are not going to talk about it. If you can't hold that end of the agreement up then maybe we should not have an open relationship." Al was trying to get Lisa to say no to the date and she knew it. There was no way she would say no. If she said no then the pathway to open relationship would be closed forever. She was not going to call him out on it. In fact, this worked to her advantage. Him having a date first would make it so Al could never try to change how the relationship would be from now on. "Sorry, I am just intrigued in what my man likes in another man." "It will stay a mystery. We are not sharing that part of our lives with each other. I do not know what you like about being with a woman for you said it was for the best." The coy response was all that Lisa needed to hear to confirm that Al was bluffing her again. "Good, maybe instead of hanging out with Erin and Tiffany. I will go clubbing with a couple of my singles friends and find a girl to be with that night." "That is great Lisa. Just remember you can't do anything with her until we talk about you having a date." "Hold on! You have a date on Friday. I can." "No, you made it clear we needed to know beforehand. That was so we would be emotionally prepare to deal with it." "There is a chance you would do something so why can't I have also." "Like you said. We need to be open about when we are with other people because of trust. We cannot be thinking that the other might be with someone else every time we are not together." "Fine, I will find a date for Saturday on Friday." "Good! then if my date goes good, I will just see that man on Saturday also." For a moment Lisa almost called off the open relationship. She did not like how she felt about Al dating a man. Then she remembered that Al was a one woman man. The date would not go well. Al needed to have this date so he felt good about her seeing other women. "How about Sunday?" The question was Lisa's insecurities showing. Right then Al came close to calling off the open relationship. To see the little pain which his Baby was in was too much for him to take. He did not care if she ended their relationship right then. Al much rather them not be together because he could not give her all her heart desired than being the cause of Lisa being in discomfort. Then he remembered if they stayed together after he called off the date it would to the same situation in a couple of months. This issue about an open relationship needed to be resolved once and for all."What about it?" "We will see each other on Sunday?" "Yes, why not? We always have brunch on Sunday. I love you and want to see you. It is just we will be seeing a lot less of each other with how busy the open part of our relationship is going to be." ***************** Friday came and Al and Lisa's night were as opposite as their true desires and them wanting open relationship. Al's night went as smooth as the silk dress Mandy had on and Lisa's went as rough as the crepe lace on her dress. Neither truly wanted an open relationship. Each of them wanted to spend the rest of their life with the other. That was how they could optimize their happiness. Lisa just thought that having a woman's touch in her life would add to her happiness. She never took into account she would not want to pay the price of sharing her man with anyone else. How great Al and Mandy hit it off was uncanny to him. He knew he was going to treat the night as two friends spending time together. He did not like how friendly he was being with his dinner companion. To be more accurate he did not like how much he was enjoying being that friendly with her. Even with knowing that Mandy's real first name was the same as his, Albert, Al could not help but see her as a woman. A couple of times he found himself thinking that if somehow this date would not bring the end of his open relationship he could so be with Mandy. Meanwhile as Al and his date were becoming friends, Lisa was off of her game. First the lady she has been eyeing up was not at the club when she arrived. Then when that newbie came in she was holding hands with someone else. Lisa now had to go on the prowl for a lady to see tomorrow. Trying to find that special lady to be with was hard. Lisa might have been physically at the club, but her mind was somewhere else. The worst part was she had no idea where her mind was. This was because Lisa was only thinking of Al and what he was doing and she had no idea. Then when Lisa finally got herself together enough to find another newbie, she could not finish the deal of getting a date. The reason why was Lisa could not even get to giving the opening poropstion of them just enjoying a drink to get to know each other. Lisa came off as desperate as someone who brought into a pyramid scheme and that made the newbie run away. Being blown off and not knowing what her Sweet Thing was doing made her give up on finding anyone. After coming to terms with his feelings being natural for Mandy and that nothing would happen between them Al became even more comfortable around her. This made them linger at the table an hour after their meal was finished. They only left after the waitress came for the fourth time asking if they were ready for the bill. Al felt so bad and wanted to make it up to their server. Her service was great.He knew she depended on tips to make a living and left one which was half of the bill. He hoped the generous tip more than made up for her losing a table. The smile on her face when she saw the money on the table assured Al he hope came true. Mandy knew she had no chance with Al, but did not care. This was for she also knew she better not care if she had a chance. The time with her companion for the evening was not a date. All which matter was how Al treated her and it was great. He treated her like a lady and was just a delight to be around. She found it cute that he was getting a crush on her. She found it cuter that even with him getting that crush they would only be friends. Al would never act on it; he was a one woman man. The night was marvous. Mandy wanted more people like Al in her life and tonight brought one into her life. People who stuck to their principles. She knew that him being on a fake date and holding to being a one woman man was ironic. She could see past how the night was a contradiction and he was doing it to end any chance of Al having freedom to date others. *************** It was Saturday afternoon when the time was right for Lisa to go over to see her Sweet Thing. If it was sooner the unexpected visit would have came off as she had a bad night, and if it was any later Lisa would have sent the wrong message about how important Al was to her. Her Sweet Thing was the most important person she had in her life and that was she wanted to see to the rest of the day them just spending time together. Just hanging out with him was so much better than being with a woman. Lisa wanted to be as honest as she could. At the same time she could not let Al know about how bad she did in the ladies department last night. That could lead to him knowing she was having doubts about the open relationship. Lisa needed for Al to think that everything was going exactly how she wanted, so she could enjoy being with women again. Al was pleasantly surprise when he opened the door and it was Lisa there. Even with her not saying it, Al knew his Baby was jealous and upset about him having a date last night. He held the door open for Lisa to come in. Lisa could not wait to hear what her man wanted to do tonight. She was under the assumption his date went bad and they were both free. "So what is the agenda tonight my love?" "We both have dates." "No we don't." "Then I have a date and you are free to do what you want." "You did not have a good time last night!" "Baby, I did and I am looking forward to spending more time with him." "You're getting too attached to that man." "No I am not. I just enjoyed his company and I'm looking forward to it again. My heart only belongs to you." "I don't think it is a good idea you seeing him so soon after just having a date with him.I am saying this for your own good, Sweet Thing. You will get attached to him. Cancel the date and we can do that thing you like in the bedroom which I don't." "Who knows he could and I will not feel guilty about you doing something you don't want." "You let him suck your dick." "I did not say that. You know how you said that there are some things a woman give you that a man cannot. He can give me something which you cannot." "I can swallow your load." "Yes but not willing and I can tell he is. I want the person taking the load to desire it." "Fine, have your date. I wanted to spend time with you. I thought that would be more important than being with him." "So you want it that we can cancel the others date if we want to spend time with each other?" Hearing Al's words calmed Lisa down. She knew exactly what he was doing. Trying to make her end the open relationship. "No. I might be having a lot of dates soon and just wanted to make sure you know not to try to stop me." "I would never dream of it. I will be busy also. It looks like I will be having many dates also. Like I said yesterday, we are going to be spending a lot less time together now." Lisa got up. That coy remark got to her. Her Sweet Thing was just trying to make her jealous. Al was a one woman man and he would not be able to play the field. "See you tomorrow." Saturday night went even better than Friday night for Al and Mandy. Subconsciously Al was becoming more open to having a little fun with Mandy in the bedroom. Being around so many gay and lesbian couples made Al see past the hangup society has about a person's sex. If you enjoy being around someone and they made you feel special, it was fine to want to make them feel special also. Plus this lady was hot and had a great personality. Mandy was better looking and better company than most of his friends' wives and girlfriends. Amanda knew that Al becoming more open to be with her. She also knew there was nothing to worry or get excited about. Even with Al being able to that did not mean he was even close to be willing. As long as that one woman man had someone, he was going to be faithful to her. Amanda was happy that she had a new friend, someone who was worth finding time to be around. She also was happy that if this worked out, how Al wanted, then she got to play a part in keeping a couple together. As Mandy excused herself to use the restroom Al made a huge mistake. He went on his phone to check Facebook and replied to a post from one of his friends. The mistake was that his smart phone was dumb and automatically tag where the reply came from. Reading the post led to Lisa making a mistake and going to see what that man of hers see in another man. Even with Pegasus, the nightclub Al and Mandy were at, being as crowded as a restroom during halftime being undetected was going to be hard for Lisa. She knew too many people there and they would stop her to chat. Lisa was lucky and before anyone saw her she got the information she wanted. She knew she was not going to like it, but having the bad disposition did not prepare her for seeing what she saw. Al was with a woman. The last thing Lisa wanted was to confront that lying cheating man right then. That would make a scene and be undo drama in her life. Also doing so in public would deny Lisa the time she wanted to make sure that her Sweet Thing knew he messed up. That she was able to handle being in an open relationship and he was not. That him not being able to keep the arrangement was no reason she could not continue with it. Now the biggest decision was if Lisa was going to hit another nightclub and find some lucky lady for next week or wait outside Al's house for him to come home. She would always be able to find a lady, but this justified anger would die down. So she pulled up to Al's street and parked her car a couple houses down from his. The stakeout did not feel as long as she thought it would. The time past as quickly as Al messed up. Lisa was enjoying finding the right words to say. Al pulled up to his street and laughed to himself when he saw Lisa's car. He knew she was trying to make it so he did not know she was there. How could he not, he knew her car. After getting out of his car Al walked down and knocked on Lisa's window. Al's Baby was caught off guard. She was lost in how sweet being able to see other women was going to be. "Hey there Baby come on let's get into the house." Lisa could not believe that her busted man was was playing it off as nothing was wrong. "Don't Baby me, Al." "OK, Lisa we will get in the house and talk about tonight." "Oh yes, that is why I am here." As soon as Al closed the door he was about to offer to make some coffee. Before he could be a good host Lisa said, "You cannot see anyone else." "Good you are done with wanting an open relationship." "No, you went back on your word. The open relationship is still on for me. I am able to handle the stipulations which we agreed to. You were with a woman tonight. I saw you at Pegasus. I can offer you everything which she can. You knew you could only see men." Al's temper was raising, but he quickly remembered he deliberately was the person who caused Lisa to become this jealous. Al quickly calmed down. He was not going to bring up Lisa spying on him. That would just get away from the point he was trying to make. Al corrected Lisa, "She's a man, Baby." "Sorry Sweet Thing. From now on you cannot go out with crossdressers. The men you can date can only be manly men." "No, no, no. You don't get to change the rules when you do not like who I am seeing on the side. Plus, you should not even have known. How did you even know I was at Pegasus?" "I didn't. I just happen to go there with a couple of friends." "Who?" "I don't have to tell you." "True, but you should. Not mentioning who the open relationship is with was to protect the other person from knowing too much. Which friends you were hanging out with will not hurt me. Or is it, from now on, our lives when we are not together is going to be off limits. That will not be good for us. " "One of them could have been my date." "So you lied when you said you had no date tonight?" "No. I am saying I could have been on a date with another lady." "No, you could not. That would mean you did not tell me about the date." Lisa came clean. She knew it was the right thing to do. Not telling him would led to their trust becoming weaker. This little mistake of snooping on Al would be look over by her man. He would not use it to end the open relationship. "I saw you were there on Facebook and went there to see what you liked in a man. I am happy that I did because we have to talk about crossdressers. They are too close to women for you to see. You cannot see that man again." "Then, no more open relationship." "We are not ending this. You only went out with that crossdresser to have me end it. We are just going to hammer out the agreement so we are both happy." "Lisa there is no way we will both be happy in an open relationship. You want to be able to see other people, yet do not want the same for me. You might say that you do, but how jealous you are acting tells me otherwise. You say that you were being fair in saying we can only see people of the same sex. You even believe it. I know you do. Yet, that stipulation made it so me seeing someone else would be impossible. Deep down, you thought that I would never date a man. Even when I told you I had a date, you didn't believe me at first. Now me seeing a loophole out of your loophole is making you want to close it." "Sweet Thing, I just do not want this open relationship to lead to what happened tonight. Us fighting." "No matter what it will. If I agreed to not seeing crossdressers and somehow get another date with a man you will find a reason for it not to be right. If it is a boi you would say that he is too feminine. You will find one no matter what." "Bois are!" Lisa shook her head. Even with her blue eyes being green at that moment, her love for Al made it so she saw he was right. Bois might act feminine but Lisa knew they were all men."I didn't know I would be so jealous. I know you will feel the same if I had a date. I didn't think of it until now. I really didn't, I was thinking of what I was missing instead of what I have with you, what we have. How could you have agree to this? I mean it took a lot of strength for you to do so." "I agreed to the open relationship because it was the only way I could make you drop the subject. The last time I said no when you brought this up again even with my no being a definite no. I could not have said no any stronger without making it an edict, yet you still brought it up. I knew then the subject was either going to end us or I would have to say yes. I also knew there was a great chance that saying yes could end us also. I had to go with what gave us a chance of still being together.The dates I had were not real dates and were so you saw why being in an open relationship would be bad. I'm sorry, I had to make you jealous. I will make this up to you and please don't lose your trust in me.I was hope you saw how you being with another woman would make me feel when you found out about the date. I shouldn't have tricked you." "I should have grown up and took no for the answer. No one can get everything they desire. With you, I have not only what my heart desires but also what its needs. I can go the rest of my life without a woman's touch if it means I'm the only one who gets your touch and to touch you." "Lisa tell me and maybe I will be able to make my touch more feminine so when you want that I could provide it." "Sweet Thing, the touch is only a little bit of what I like about women. I really like what I can do to them." "Tell me." "I can't. You will say no, or if you say yes you would be forced into doing it." "I will not be forced into doing anything. I want you to be happy. I will do anything I can to make you as satisfied with being only with me as you could be." "You can say no and I will drop it forever. I know you being with me is way more important than me being able to use a strap on on someone." "That's it. We can try it. You know how crazy it makes me when you just touch my anus with your finger. That might drive me even crazier." "Sweet Thing, it is more than just the strap on. I love the look and the scent of a woman. How soft and smooth the skin of a woman is. How she presents herself to me in lingerie. She is like a gift with her most tantalizing parts wrapped in lace with some bows .Her deferring to me as the aggressor, wanting me to unwrap her. It the combination of the act and person it is with. It has to be everything. Not just me with a strap on with a man." Al was processing the information which Lisa just shared with him. Sweet Thing wanted to be able to provide everything which his Baby wanted. Al also knew other than society hang ups what Lisa was asking for was nothing. It was just some clothes and role playing. If his new friend Amanda could have people who had society hang up about gender see her as woman then Al could have an audience of one who would be willing to suspend her disbelieve that he was a man. "Baby, I could be a woman in the bedroom once in a while. I would for you." "Most men would never. I thought you would shoot it down quicker than an open relationship." "When we first started to date I was like other men.I was hung up on what others thought. I would have been worried that you would see me as less of a man. I would have also been worried if I saw myself less of a man. I know now you or I would not if we do that. Now I don't care what others think. Being around you and our friends made me see the truth. It is just me giving the person I love pleasure. I want you to have all the pleasure you can in and out of the bedroom. Just hearing that her man was open the desires Lisa just sahre made her yearning for them weaken. Her Sweet Thing willing to ensure her happiness was the best aphrodisiac Lisa could realistically hope for. Al was not a crossdresser so she could not and would not expect him to go to those extreme just to get her jollies in the bedroom in a certain way. , "You saying you would do so is 1,000 times sexier than any woman. I don't need to be with a woman again as long as I have you. " Lisa and Al stayed up late talking about how to strengthen their relationship. Sweet Thing and Baby learn more about each other and also themselves. That bringing something up was not forcing the other person do it, but bringing it up again and again after many nos was. They found out the best way to solve the issues about getting what they desired was not having an open relationship, but having the relationship more open.