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Male Chastity for the over 60’s.
It’s interesting that all you read on Male Chastity seems to be for those in the years just after they have married and sex is getting a little dull for them so they want to spice it up a bit.
My husband and I are not young he is 68 and I am 63, we have been married for some 21 years having met late in life compared to many. We have had a wonderful sex life until a couple of years ago when Ron developed Erectile Dysfunction. He had the tests, was psychoanalysed and all they said was ‘you are getting old and men your age ‘often’ suffer with ED’. After checking his heart they told him to take Viagra and helped him on his way.
Its true that around 50% of men in their 60’s suffer from ED and so we tried out the Viagra. It has its drawbacks as it needs to be taken around 30 mins before you indulge in Sexual Intercourse but that did give us a lot of fun with foreplay as I love my breasts and nipples played with. Mmmmmmm.
The problem started about a year later when we noticed that Ron was not getting as hard with Viagra anymore. We did not know what to put it down too. He even told me that when he masturbated he did not get really hard and he did not enjoy cumming with a ‘limp dick’. We wondered if it was the end of sexual intercourse between us.
As he does, Ron turned to the internet to see if there was anyone else in our situation. Many folks mentioned penis pumps to get the blood flowing back into the penis and the viagra should do the job of keeping the veins open to let the blood in. That worked for a short period of time even though we needed to use a cock ring at the base of the cock to stop the blood leaving its wanted home. But Ron still found it difficult to maintain a full hard erection.
However, 6 months ago something happened that brought us to where we are now. They say that nature has a way of telling us things. Well my email started to play up and I started getting sex emails from people I never met. Emails with pictures of hard cocks of different colours and men wanting to take me out. I showed them to Ron who spoke with our email provider and they admitted that their filtering system had been hacked and the emails that were supposed to be going into Junk/spam folders were in fact being put into my inbox. They told us all would be right soon. They were right, within 24 hours we were back to normal. I had never visited my junk box before but as this had happened it made me curious to see what else was in there. ‘You have won’ emails, ‘Female sex d**gs’ emails, ‘Men who wanted me’ emails, ‘Gambling emails’ and a host of ‘sex shop’ emails. One of the last ones caught my eye as it advertised a large life-like dildo and curiosity got the better of me. The website showed different sections from toys ‘Women’s toys’, ‘Mens toys’, ‘BDSM equipment’ to ‘BDSM Clothing’ which was subdivided into ‘Leather’ and ‘Rubber’. In for a penny in for a pound I looked at mens toys. There were Flashlights (rubber vaginas), Cock rings, Handcuffs, Ropes, Gags etc and a section on something called cock cages. This last point was very enlightening. I showed it to Ron who was instantly intrigued.
Ron ran with this. He researched the internet and showed me numerous articles. Some were obviously fantasy and some (written by women) were very interesting.
Ron was suddenly consumed with this idea. Male Chastity was something he wanted and he wanted me to be his keyholder. I must admit I did not know what to think. I know I was the one who put him onto this but for me to take control of his orgasms and basically his entire sex life needed some special thinking time. I told him I would think about it.
I re-read all the material he had printed and did quite a bit of research myself on both Male Chastity and Female Led Relationships. Ron, remember, is 68 and retired. Could I, should I do this to him? What would he really get out of it. What would I get out of it. It was time for a long loving chat.
The following Saturday night we opened a bottle of wine and I led the conversation. “What are you hoping to get out of this?” This was his response:
“I have loved you ever since we met and we have had a wonderful, fulfilling life together. You still look incredibly beautiful even at the lovely young age of 63 and many men half my age would fall at your feet. But you know as well as I do that our sex life has not been up to much recently. It’s not because of you but because of my ED issue. I want you to be happy and I know that I can become excellent at cunnilingus and analingus with a little direction from you. I would also like to be able to get hard again so that I could have proper intercourse with you, and wearing a cock cage might just do that if we do the Male Chastity thing properly. I read that the Male testosterone level increases to 145% in young men after they have been in chastity for a week and they have been teased, denied and tormented during that time by their other halves. I know it would take longer for an older man but if I could be hard every other week or even just once a month so that I could make proper love to you then I would be satisfied.”
I must admit I was not expecting that. He then asked me what I would want out of it, this is what I said “I want you to be happy too, if wearing the cage with me teasing you and denying you can get us to have penetrative sex again then I am for it”.
He said based on what he had read (and my research also agreed with) once we go down this route the wife tends to enjoy the power she has been given and gets even more enjoyment out of it as she has control that she never had before.
We carried on talking and became more open about our feeling and our wants. He told me “I have always wanted you to be more dominant in the bedroom, I liked the times where I tied you up and had my way with you but I enjoyed it even more when the roles were reversed”. I smiled at that as I had always enjoyed both being tied down but even enjoyed the times where I had him at my will tied spreadeagled to the bed in a blindfold so he did not know what was going to happen next.
I told him that if this was to work then we would probably need to take heed of what a number of the websites had mentioned. Take it slow at first, get the right size cock cage, make hygiene the number one concern, but above all make it fun and enjoyable and even treat it as a game.
I told him that life would be a little different with me in charge and I wanted lots of loving, lots massages, lots of caressing, lots of being being pampered, lots of hugs and kisses and lots of him saying ‘yes’ instead of ‘no’ when I want something.
We considered some of the other things that we had read on the web such as corporate punishment, contracts and sissyfication and even cuckolding but agreed that these were a little far off track for what we wanted. We both agreed however, if the Male Chastity life was successful that we would consider other options in future.
We purchased a couple of cock cages as we did not know what Ron could handle. The first one was a plastic cage that was see through and come in many different parts. Just putting it together caused us to laugh but once it was on and the click of the padlock occurred then we knew the fun was really about to start.
I aimed to leave Ron in the cage for three days and then do an hygiene check but by the second day Ron was complaining about the device getting caught in his pubic hairs causing them to be pulled and creating discomfort. I had read that this could be a problem and the best solution was to remove all the hair on and around the genitals. I asked Ron to suffer it another day and I would do something about it on day 3. He agreed.
A big part of the Chastity game is the teasing and denial that hubby should/must receive to make the Chastity game work for him. Remember one of our goals was to get him to a point, at least once a month, where he could penetrate me and have ‘hard’ cock enjoyable intercourse. This meant that his Testosterone level needed to be increased. On day 1, after he was locked, I started to play with his balls, he liked this. I also made it a plan in my head to give him some verbals such as ‘Your cock is now my cock - don’t forget that’ ‘my toy looks smaller than usual today - does it want to come out and play?’ knowing full well I was not going to let it out. NB I had a lot of fun coming up with ideas for verbal teasing that would torment him and believe me it all helped in the end.
On the second night I got home from work after I had been thinking about Rons predicament all day, I was feeling very horny and remembered something I had read. I asked hubby to pour me a glass of wine and deliver it to me in the lounge. Whilst hubby was getting the wine I went to the lounge, removed my panties and made myself comfortable in our big comfortable armchair that Ron had basically claimed his own. His face was a picture when he saw me sitting in ‘his’ chair with my skirt hiked up to my waist and my legs spread apart. I said, ‘Come here hubby, give me my wine, get on your knees and worship my pussy till I cum’. I must say he obeyed immediately and I almost spilt my wine as he made me cum for the first time. I was so turned on by this, once I came down a little from my high I said to him ‘now do that again, there’s a good boy’ and he did. Now it was not perfect as he spent a little to long on just my clit but for a first try (after a very long time - months) he did well. I sent him away. He told me that dinner would be ready in 5 mins (he does a lot of the cooking since he retired). The meal was lovely, we washed the dishes and sat down for an evening in front of the tv.
My mind kept wondering to articles I had read, I turned to Ron and said, ‘We are going to have some more fun’. I looked him straight in the eye and said ‘are you ready for me to be a little more dominant’? He looked me in the eye and said, ‘Oh yes please’. I told him that from now on when we are playing the Chastity game he would call me his Goddess. He agreed immediately. I told him that his Goddess wanted a bath and that once it was done she would want a body massage. He said, ‘Yes Goddess, I will see to that right away’. He was gone and 10 mins later he called for his Goddess. The bubbles were fab, the water just the right temperature - I knew I could get used to this.
The massage he gave me was not his best but again as we had just started this journey I knew that I could shape him to give better massages. That night in bed, I played with his balls and asked him how it felt to be in chastity? He said it felt odd but loved being teased. I caressed his balls softly (this became a nightly occurrence as it teased him no end as he could not get hard in the cage) and told him he had been a good boy and we would do a hygiene check the following night.
By day 3 I also started dressing more sexily in his company. It’s amazing what you can do when you have some tight tops, short skirts and don’t wear a bra or panties. He looks at you almost salivating at the mouth, is gobsmacked and does not know what to do unless you tell him…
Day 3 also turned out to be a Friday and I decided to make Friday nights hygiene nights. I remember reading that in the early days (and for many man even later on) as soon as you took the cock cage off they wanted to play with themselves. Its easy to stop this by binding his hands behind his back but if you want to do your inspection laying him on the bed, its uncomfortable with his hands behind his back so I spread eagle him with ties at each corner of the bed (I made him put them there for this purpose). This gives you a free hand knowing he is at your mercy. I take the cage off and make sure he does not have any chaffing, redness, sores and I give him a good wash with soap and flannel. As Ron had complained about the hairs being caught in the cage I decided on day 3 that he would have to be completely shaved. He was not sure about it but I told him as I was in charge ‘A naked pubic area was what it was going to be’. I got his shaving brush and lather stick and lathered him up. Put a new blade in his razor and started to shave every hair from his waist down to the top of his legs taking very special care with his balls. I then used baby oil on the whole area.
Now baby oil is great and now at each hygiene session not only do I undertake a hygiene check, wash and shave him I also take the opportunity to edge him. Over the last couple of months he has become very good at telling me when he is close to cumming ‘Goddess I am near to cumming’ and I tell him he must not cum and get him to let me know when he is on the edge. He does, and I let the edge subside and then start all over again. I do this some 5 - 10 times (depending how I feel). The first time we did it was not very successful but the more we ‘practiced’ the better we both got. We have had a couple of accidents where he came (and suffered afterwards), but on the whole he is thoroughly frustrated by the time I stop and put him back in his cage - he loves it (and secretly so do I). If he had an accident then I make him suffer by keeping on rubbing his little dick till he is literally begging me to stop (or some time after that). I then tell him the lock up period till he is next allowed to cum has been extended 7 days. This always gets a groan.
I must admit that the power of controlling Rons penis is exhilarating and I got to a point where I wanted to see how far I/we could go. Most nights I got Ron to give my feet a massage as my feet always ached after a hard day at work, then I got him to massage my shoulders and neck. He has never objected. Baths are becoming a regular occurrence and I even get him to wash me and dry me (he often try’s to grope but I tell him if he does his lock-up period will be extended (Bathing me turns out to be a great tease for him)).
I also did not want to go without sex so I got him to go down on me nearly every other night and sometimes as soon as I got home. Again he never objected and with my direction he is getting better all the time.
I must admit there were times before the first month was up I wanted to take his cage off and have him make love to me but as ‘we’ were not sure if it would work and he would stay hard (though I guessed it would bearing in mind the edging sessions we had) I decided that a dildo would have to do. I got Ron to buy an assortment of dildos and vibrators online and they arrived in a couple of days. I must say the dildos were very lifelike and I teased Ron by telling him that his puny little dick could not compare to even the smallest dildo. It made him go red.
I had purchased toy cleaner and used it on every one of the toys (always do - its better to be safe than sorry especially as they were going inside me). Over the next couple of weeks I got Ron to use all the dildos on me The smallest being 6 inches and a girth of 1.15 inches (more Rons size) through the Mighty Black One that was 10 inches long and 2.5 inches wide and was painful to use - This was a little too large for me (or so I thought - see later).
I got a kick out of Ron using them on me especially as even the smallest one made me cum knowing the he was getting hard in his cage and could do nothing about it. I played with him a little by reminding him that these cocks could have me anytime I want them but his would have to wait till I was ready to release it, it always made him groan. Mind you seeing him use the dildos with his hands did not feel like I was being made love to so I got him to correct that by ordering a harness online. The day it came I had a medium size dildo fitted to it and got Ron to make love to me. It was funny seeing this largish dildo sticking out of the harness and Rons caged cock hanging and leaking precum below it. That night was wonderful as I felt Rons weight on me as I took the medium size dildo with plenty of lubrication into my pussy and cum like I never had before.
On another night, I used the vibrator on myself and made Ron stand at the end of the bed with his hands tied behind his back watching me. I maintained eye contact with him and started telling him that the vibrator was doing a much better job of making me cum than him and that his little cock was becoming useless for my needs. It made him blush again but he loved it as it tried to get hard and leaked even more precum. I used the vibrator on a number of days in the month even when Ron was not around. I was really enjoying sex again.
The month was up and it was time to see if the experiment had worked. I had been teasing Ron all day with tight clothes and no bra or panties and even had him on the floor of the lounge with my skirt high and had him lick me to orgasm. By bedtime Ron was already wired!!!! I made him strip (Yes Goddess) and tied him spreadeagled to the bed. I made him take a viagra (no harm in that) then I took his cage off and started to edge him with baby oil. He kept pleading that I should stop but I kept playing with him, getting him close to an edge then letting him quite down. I eventually started to strip off my remaining clothes and started to play with my very wet clit so that he could see. I was very horny. Eventually I straddled him and took his semi-hard cock in my hands and started to rub the head against my clit. He responded immediately and his cock became rock hard. It was not long before it was deep inside me and I was riding a wonderful husbands cock. He exploded in what he told me was his best ever orgasm just as I exploded into one of mine. The experiment seemed to have worked.
After long cuddles with him still tied to the bed I went and got a flannel and wiped him down, cleaned him and oiled him and reapplied the cage which also brought about a groan. But why would I want it to end as it had achieved what we both wanted and he to agreed that we would try again in a month. We cuddled all night and both of us had smiles on our faces.
The following month seemed to fly past and we had success again. This became wonderful news.
Over the next few months we found that Ron really did enjoy his ‘once a month orgasms’. I say once a month. Some were longer when he was a naughty boy and some less when I needed him inside me. All in all I think we found a way of solving Rons ED issue.
Footnote 1: I eventually tried the large dildo again with Ron having it clipped to his harness. It looked huge but with plenty of lubrication Ron used it on me and I must confess, I have never had an orgasm like it. I wonder if there are men out there with dicks that big?
Footnote 2: At the start of the second month Ron was not as receptive to my wishes as he should have been. I sat him down to discuss this and we agreed that if it happened again then we would start punishment sessions. It did happen and now we do have punishment sessions with Ron being spreadeagled facedown on the bed with his cage in place and me using a purchased paddle on his behind till it is ‘red’. This seems to work for a while but sometimes needs to be readdressed. I get him on the bed by telling him if he does not then his Chastity time will be extended. This always works.
Footnote 3: After I did some more reading I felt it better that we build a contract which Ron agreed with. It covered what each of us should do and our obligations to each other with the added clause that I could add anything or change anything at any time without Rons permission but he could not. We both signed and dated it and the contract would last a year when we could discuss it and roll it over or take a break if we wished.
Footnote 4. During one of our punishment sessions I decided to give Ron anal with one of the dildos. He was not a fan at first but I persisted. He admitted that it felt strange at first but found it somewhat pleasurable. I plan to keep on using it till I find a way to make him cum with it or use even bigger ones to see if they have better effect.
I hope other over 60’s who have ED issues try something like this as I does work for us.
Julie.
It’s interesting that all you read on Male Chastity seems to be for those in the years just after they have married and sex is getting a little dull for them so they want to spice it up a bit.
My husband and I are not young he is 68 and I am 63, we have been married for some 21 years having met late in life compared to many. We have had a wonderful sex life until a couple of years ago when Ron developed Erectile Dysfunction. He had the tests, was psychoanalysed and all they said was ‘you are getting old and men your age ‘often’ suffer with ED’. After checking his heart they told him to take Viagra and helped him on his way.
Its true that around 50% of men in their 60’s suffer from ED and so we tried out the Viagra. It has its drawbacks as it needs to be taken around 30 mins before you indulge in Sexual Intercourse but that did give us a lot of fun with foreplay as I love my breasts and nipples played with. Mmmmmmm.
The problem started about a year later when we noticed that Ron was not getting as hard with Viagra anymore. We did not know what to put it down too. He even told me that when he masturbated he did not get really hard and he did not enjoy cumming with a ‘limp dick’. We wondered if it was the end of sexual intercourse between us.
As he does, Ron turned to the internet to see if there was anyone else in our situation. Many folks mentioned penis pumps to get the blood flowing back into the penis and the viagra should do the job of keeping the veins open to let the blood in. That worked for a short period of time even though we needed to use a cock ring at the base of the cock to stop the blood leaving its wanted home. But Ron still found it difficult to maintain a full hard erection.
However, 6 months ago something happened that brought us to where we are now. They say that nature has a way of telling us things. Well my email started to play up and I started getting sex emails from people I never met. Emails with pictures of hard cocks of different colours and men wanting to take me out. I showed them to Ron who spoke with our email provider and they admitted that their filtering system had been hacked and the emails that were supposed to be going into Junk/spam folders were in fact being put into my inbox. They told us all would be right soon. They were right, within 24 hours we were back to normal. I had never visited my junk box before but as this had happened it made me curious to see what else was in there. ‘You have won’ emails, ‘Female sex d**gs’ emails, ‘Men who wanted me’ emails, ‘Gambling emails’ and a host of ‘sex shop’ emails. One of the last ones caught my eye as it advertised a large life-like dildo and curiosity got the better of me. The website showed different sections from toys ‘Women’s toys’, ‘Mens toys’, ‘BDSM equipment’ to ‘BDSM Clothing’ which was subdivided into ‘Leather’ and ‘Rubber’. In for a penny in for a pound I looked at mens toys. There were Flashlights (rubber vaginas), Cock rings, Handcuffs, Ropes, Gags etc and a section on something called cock cages. This last point was very enlightening. I showed it to Ron who was instantly intrigued.
Ron ran with this. He researched the internet and showed me numerous articles. Some were obviously fantasy and some (written by women) were very interesting.
Ron was suddenly consumed with this idea. Male Chastity was something he wanted and he wanted me to be his keyholder. I must admit I did not know what to think. I know I was the one who put him onto this but for me to take control of his orgasms and basically his entire sex life needed some special thinking time. I told him I would think about it.
I re-read all the material he had printed and did quite a bit of research myself on both Male Chastity and Female Led Relationships. Ron, remember, is 68 and retired. Could I, should I do this to him? What would he really get out of it. What would I get out of it. It was time for a long loving chat.
The following Saturday night we opened a bottle of wine and I led the conversation. “What are you hoping to get out of this?” This was his response:
“I have loved you ever since we met and we have had a wonderful, fulfilling life together. You still look incredibly beautiful even at the lovely young age of 63 and many men half my age would fall at your feet. But you know as well as I do that our sex life has not been up to much recently. It’s not because of you but because of my ED issue. I want you to be happy and I know that I can become excellent at cunnilingus and analingus with a little direction from you. I would also like to be able to get hard again so that I could have proper intercourse with you, and wearing a cock cage might just do that if we do the Male Chastity thing properly. I read that the Male testosterone level increases to 145% in young men after they have been in chastity for a week and they have been teased, denied and tormented during that time by their other halves. I know it would take longer for an older man but if I could be hard every other week or even just once a month so that I could make proper love to you then I would be satisfied.”
I must admit I was not expecting that. He then asked me what I would want out of it, this is what I said “I want you to be happy too, if wearing the cage with me teasing you and denying you can get us to have penetrative sex again then I am for it”.
He said based on what he had read (and my research also agreed with) once we go down this route the wife tends to enjoy the power she has been given and gets even more enjoyment out of it as she has control that she never had before.
We carried on talking and became more open about our feeling and our wants. He told me “I have always wanted you to be more dominant in the bedroom, I liked the times where I tied you up and had my way with you but I enjoyed it even more when the roles were reversed”. I smiled at that as I had always enjoyed both being tied down but even enjoyed the times where I had him at my will tied spreadeagled to the bed in a blindfold so he did not know what was going to happen next.
I told him that if this was to work then we would probably need to take heed of what a number of the websites had mentioned. Take it slow at first, get the right size cock cage, make hygiene the number one concern, but above all make it fun and enjoyable and even treat it as a game.
I told him that life would be a little different with me in charge and I wanted lots of loving, lots massages, lots of caressing, lots of being being pampered, lots of hugs and kisses and lots of him saying ‘yes’ instead of ‘no’ when I want something.
We considered some of the other things that we had read on the web such as corporate punishment, contracts and sissyfication and even cuckolding but agreed that these were a little far off track for what we wanted. We both agreed however, if the Male Chastity life was successful that we would consider other options in future.
We purchased a couple of cock cages as we did not know what Ron could handle. The first one was a plastic cage that was see through and come in many different parts. Just putting it together caused us to laugh but once it was on and the click of the padlock occurred then we knew the fun was really about to start.
I aimed to leave Ron in the cage for three days and then do an hygiene check but by the second day Ron was complaining about the device getting caught in his pubic hairs causing them to be pulled and creating discomfort. I had read that this could be a problem and the best solution was to remove all the hair on and around the genitals. I asked Ron to suffer it another day and I would do something about it on day 3. He agreed.
A big part of the Chastity game is the teasing and denial that hubby should/must receive to make the Chastity game work for him. Remember one of our goals was to get him to a point, at least once a month, where he could penetrate me and have ‘hard’ cock enjoyable intercourse. This meant that his Testosterone level needed to be increased. On day 1, after he was locked, I started to play with his balls, he liked this. I also made it a plan in my head to give him some verbals such as ‘Your cock is now my cock - don’t forget that’ ‘my toy looks smaller than usual today - does it want to come out and play?’ knowing full well I was not going to let it out. NB I had a lot of fun coming up with ideas for verbal teasing that would torment him and believe me it all helped in the end.
On the second night I got home from work after I had been thinking about Rons predicament all day, I was feeling very horny and remembered something I had read. I asked hubby to pour me a glass of wine and deliver it to me in the lounge. Whilst hubby was getting the wine I went to the lounge, removed my panties and made myself comfortable in our big comfortable armchair that Ron had basically claimed his own. His face was a picture when he saw me sitting in ‘his’ chair with my skirt hiked up to my waist and my legs spread apart. I said, ‘Come here hubby, give me my wine, get on your knees and worship my pussy till I cum’. I must say he obeyed immediately and I almost spilt my wine as he made me cum for the first time. I was so turned on by this, once I came down a little from my high I said to him ‘now do that again, there’s a good boy’ and he did. Now it was not perfect as he spent a little to long on just my clit but for a first try (after a very long time - months) he did well. I sent him away. He told me that dinner would be ready in 5 mins (he does a lot of the cooking since he retired). The meal was lovely, we washed the dishes and sat down for an evening in front of the tv.
My mind kept wondering to articles I had read, I turned to Ron and said, ‘We are going to have some more fun’. I looked him straight in the eye and said ‘are you ready for me to be a little more dominant’? He looked me in the eye and said, ‘Oh yes please’. I told him that from now on when we are playing the Chastity game he would call me his Goddess. He agreed immediately. I told him that his Goddess wanted a bath and that once it was done she would want a body massage. He said, ‘Yes Goddess, I will see to that right away’. He was gone and 10 mins later he called for his Goddess. The bubbles were fab, the water just the right temperature - I knew I could get used to this.
The massage he gave me was not his best but again as we had just started this journey I knew that I could shape him to give better massages. That night in bed, I played with his balls and asked him how it felt to be in chastity? He said it felt odd but loved being teased. I caressed his balls softly (this became a nightly occurrence as it teased him no end as he could not get hard in the cage) and told him he had been a good boy and we would do a hygiene check the following night.
By day 3 I also started dressing more sexily in his company. It’s amazing what you can do when you have some tight tops, short skirts and don’t wear a bra or panties. He looks at you almost salivating at the mouth, is gobsmacked and does not know what to do unless you tell him…
Day 3 also turned out to be a Friday and I decided to make Friday nights hygiene nights. I remember reading that in the early days (and for many man even later on) as soon as you took the cock cage off they wanted to play with themselves. Its easy to stop this by binding his hands behind his back but if you want to do your inspection laying him on the bed, its uncomfortable with his hands behind his back so I spread eagle him with ties at each corner of the bed (I made him put them there for this purpose). This gives you a free hand knowing he is at your mercy. I take the cage off and make sure he does not have any chaffing, redness, sores and I give him a good wash with soap and flannel. As Ron had complained about the hairs being caught in the cage I decided on day 3 that he would have to be completely shaved. He was not sure about it but I told him as I was in charge ‘A naked pubic area was what it was going to be’. I got his shaving brush and lather stick and lathered him up. Put a new blade in his razor and started to shave every hair from his waist down to the top of his legs taking very special care with his balls. I then used baby oil on the whole area.
Now baby oil is great and now at each hygiene session not only do I undertake a hygiene check, wash and shave him I also take the opportunity to edge him. Over the last couple of months he has become very good at telling me when he is close to cumming ‘Goddess I am near to cumming’ and I tell him he must not cum and get him to let me know when he is on the edge. He does, and I let the edge subside and then start all over again. I do this some 5 - 10 times (depending how I feel). The first time we did it was not very successful but the more we ‘practiced’ the better we both got. We have had a couple of accidents where he came (and suffered afterwards), but on the whole he is thoroughly frustrated by the time I stop and put him back in his cage - he loves it (and secretly so do I). If he had an accident then I make him suffer by keeping on rubbing his little dick till he is literally begging me to stop (or some time after that). I then tell him the lock up period till he is next allowed to cum has been extended 7 days. This always gets a groan.
I must admit that the power of controlling Rons penis is exhilarating and I got to a point where I wanted to see how far I/we could go. Most nights I got Ron to give my feet a massage as my feet always ached after a hard day at work, then I got him to massage my shoulders and neck. He has never objected. Baths are becoming a regular occurrence and I even get him to wash me and dry me (he often try’s to grope but I tell him if he does his lock-up period will be extended (Bathing me turns out to be a great tease for him)).
I also did not want to go without sex so I got him to go down on me nearly every other night and sometimes as soon as I got home. Again he never objected and with my direction he is getting better all the time.
I must admit there were times before the first month was up I wanted to take his cage off and have him make love to me but as ‘we’ were not sure if it would work and he would stay hard (though I guessed it would bearing in mind the edging sessions we had) I decided that a dildo would have to do. I got Ron to buy an assortment of dildos and vibrators online and they arrived in a couple of days. I must say the dildos were very lifelike and I teased Ron by telling him that his puny little dick could not compare to even the smallest dildo. It made him go red.
I had purchased toy cleaner and used it on every one of the toys (always do - its better to be safe than sorry especially as they were going inside me). Over the next couple of weeks I got Ron to use all the dildos on me The smallest being 6 inches and a girth of 1.15 inches (more Rons size) through the Mighty Black One that was 10 inches long and 2.5 inches wide and was painful to use - This was a little too large for me (or so I thought - see later).
I got a kick out of Ron using them on me especially as even the smallest one made me cum knowing the he was getting hard in his cage and could do nothing about it. I played with him a little by reminding him that these cocks could have me anytime I want them but his would have to wait till I was ready to release it, it always made him groan. Mind you seeing him use the dildos with his hands did not feel like I was being made love to so I got him to correct that by ordering a harness online. The day it came I had a medium size dildo fitted to it and got Ron to make love to me. It was funny seeing this largish dildo sticking out of the harness and Rons caged cock hanging and leaking precum below it. That night was wonderful as I felt Rons weight on me as I took the medium size dildo with plenty of lubrication into my pussy and cum like I never had before.
On another night, I used the vibrator on myself and made Ron stand at the end of the bed with his hands tied behind his back watching me. I maintained eye contact with him and started telling him that the vibrator was doing a much better job of making me cum than him and that his little cock was becoming useless for my needs. It made him blush again but he loved it as it tried to get hard and leaked even more precum. I used the vibrator on a number of days in the month even when Ron was not around. I was really enjoying sex again.
The month was up and it was time to see if the experiment had worked. I had been teasing Ron all day with tight clothes and no bra or panties and even had him on the floor of the lounge with my skirt high and had him lick me to orgasm. By bedtime Ron was already wired!!!! I made him strip (Yes Goddess) and tied him spreadeagled to the bed. I made him take a viagra (no harm in that) then I took his cage off and started to edge him with baby oil. He kept pleading that I should stop but I kept playing with him, getting him close to an edge then letting him quite down. I eventually started to strip off my remaining clothes and started to play with my very wet clit so that he could see. I was very horny. Eventually I straddled him and took his semi-hard cock in my hands and started to rub the head against my clit. He responded immediately and his cock became rock hard. It was not long before it was deep inside me and I was riding a wonderful husbands cock. He exploded in what he told me was his best ever orgasm just as I exploded into one of mine. The experiment seemed to have worked.
After long cuddles with him still tied to the bed I went and got a flannel and wiped him down, cleaned him and oiled him and reapplied the cage which also brought about a groan. But why would I want it to end as it had achieved what we both wanted and he to agreed that we would try again in a month. We cuddled all night and both of us had smiles on our faces.
The following month seemed to fly past and we had success again. This became wonderful news.
Over the next few months we found that Ron really did enjoy his ‘once a month orgasms’. I say once a month. Some were longer when he was a naughty boy and some less when I needed him inside me. All in all I think we found a way of solving Rons ED issue.
Footnote 1: I eventually tried the large dildo again with Ron having it clipped to his harness. It looked huge but with plenty of lubrication Ron used it on me and I must confess, I have never had an orgasm like it. I wonder if there are men out there with dicks that big?
Footnote 2: At the start of the second month Ron was not as receptive to my wishes as he should have been. I sat him down to discuss this and we agreed that if it happened again then we would start punishment sessions. It did happen and now we do have punishment sessions with Ron being spreadeagled facedown on the bed with his cage in place and me using a purchased paddle on his behind till it is ‘red’. This seems to work for a while but sometimes needs to be readdressed. I get him on the bed by telling him if he does not then his Chastity time will be extended. This always works.
Footnote 3: After I did some more reading I felt it better that we build a contract which Ron agreed with. It covered what each of us should do and our obligations to each other with the added clause that I could add anything or change anything at any time without Rons permission but he could not. We both signed and dated it and the contract would last a year when we could discuss it and roll it over or take a break if we wished.
Footnote 4. During one of our punishment sessions I decided to give Ron anal with one of the dildos. He was not a fan at first but I persisted. He admitted that it felt strange at first but found it somewhat pleasurable. I plan to keep on using it till I find a way to make him cum with it or use even bigger ones to see if they have better effect.
I hope other over 60’s who have ED issues try something like this as I does work for us.
Julie.
Emely
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