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A Guide To Becoming A Girly Girl free porn video
What you are about to read is not a story nor is it fiction; it is
advice for the male who wants to appear to the world as female. The
intended audience is men who possess significant feminine
characteristics and tendencies. Men who clearly know that the want to
be "girly girls" which, by definition are individuals who wholeheartedly
embrace their femininity, truly enjoy being a girl and work hard at it
every day.
I am a woman in her late 30s; therefore I believe this gives me
credibility in authoring this piece of writing. Additionally, I am a
professionally licensed hairstylist and cosmetologist. I have by no
means "seen or done it all". However, during my career I've had the
opportunity to makeover a few boys into girls by request. Nearly all of
these makeovers were given to men who were easily passable; their
motivations varied. I was recently asked by a colleague if I've ever
helped a guy become a Girly Girl; she's recently been approached by a
guy who came to her salon and asked if she'd consider making him over.
I smiled and asker her to define what she meant by "girly girl" to see
if we were on the same page. Of course we were. In reflecting upon her
question I said that there have been two prior experiences involving
guys who wanted help assuming an identity, appearance and lifestyle that
was decided "girly girl". I mentioned this conversation to one of my
cross dressing clients who told me about a few websites that host
fiction stories he said guys like him enjoy reading. Curiously, I
decided to research these sites reading a few stories that were similar
in theme and all based around the obvious fantasies of the readers.
Several weeks later I ran into my client who asked me if I ever looked
into the websites he had told me about. I said I did, mentioning I
found some stories intriguing while others rather implausible. Then I
added that it's too bad the guys who really wanted to take their
dressing to an extreme did not have some help from a genuine woman who
had subjected a few men to the experience many others presumably think
about through fantasizing. He smiled and said, "Why don"t you write
one"? We talked further. I asked what I'd write about. His reply was,
"Sort of an Introduction to Becoming a Girly Girl 101 Handbook". I was
surprised at his response and flattered he felt I was capable of
constructing this so-called "handbook" in a way that might be useful to
the men who have the desire to expunge all aspects of their masculinity.
After a few weeks of deliberating I accepted the challenge and began
writing.
There is one caveat I need to express before you read further. I do not
think that most guys can perfect the "girly girl" look in a way that is
unequivocally convincing. However, there are some effeminate guys who
can and for those of you reading on I strongly advocate that you follow
the advice I am offering. This process takes commitment, planning,
organization, hard work and desire. Confide in a woman you trust to
help you because for most of us this is a lifestyle we've experienced.
If the woman you find to help is supportive and understanding she will
mentor you through this process making your journey more effective and
efficient than if you try to achieve these results on your own without
guidance.
Okay guys there's a lot to share and I truly hope the following
information is informative and useful. Take from it whatever you find
of value.
The first presumption is that you want to be a Girly Girl. If this is
so, lets begin with clothes and style:
The main color should be pink, or baby blue, or any pastel color if you
really want to be girly. Of course, you are your own person, but this is
just for the girly girls. Have flouncy little skirts and vest tops
teamed with short-sleeved floral blouses in summer, as well as little
colored pumps. Another good summer look is short shorts in spunky,
bright colors. For winter, invest in cuddly, knitted items in paler
colors, preferably grey, blue and silvery colors. On Christmas day wear
something red or green, really pretty and cute. For autumn, browns, reds
and autumn-leaves colors look pretty and summer style is the same as
spring. For sleepwear, go for cute PJs like Cookie Monster ones, or
really girly ones with PJ shorts (Forever 21 is good) and colored,
patterned camisoles and vests. For colder nights, go for cuddly-warm
button-ups with long trousers and long sleeves. Go for a pink knee-
length silk bathrobe, too, and fluffy mule slippers or velvets. For the
Strawberries and Milkshake theme, go for strawberry-printed, pink
things.
Have a sense of style. Being fashionable is important. Try to read more
fashion magazines to learn what kinds of clothing go well together. Try
mixing and matching the clothes in your closet. The results may not
always be great, but you're bound to discover new and cute combinations.
Be sure to create your own fashion and have your own style, because
it's
not right to wear something that just isn't you. It's often better to
have a basic personal style than to always be chasing the latest "fad"
look. You could waste hundreds of dollars on clothes just for them to go
out of style a few weeks later. When buying clothes to set up your
wardrobe, buy the girly girl basics.
Slowly add special pieces to your wardrobe that will accentuate your
look. Pink is a typical girl color, but don't shy away from blacks and
blues, as they can also look very cute!
Your wardrobe should contain:
Light-wash and dark-wash denim skirts
Light-wash and dark-wash shorts
Two pairs of dark-wash skinny jeans.
Six plain tank-tops in the colors: pink, peach, black, blue, lavender,
and white. These will be good for layering or a weekend casual look when
paired with shorts or jeans.
Cute panties. (No one will see them, of course. But they will make you
feel cute, nonetheless.)
At least three comfortable pairs of shoes: one pair of workout sneakers
(a girly girl is never to be seen outside the gym with sneakers), and a
couple of pairs of cute shoes (heels, moccasins, flats, sandals, take
your pick). Ultimately, a girly girl can never have too many shoes!
Three cute dresses. When shopping for dresses, remember: short or tight,
chose only one. Do not pair them both. Go for neutral colors that can
be
matched with other things for fancy occasions, but also buy colorful and
cute sundresses for the summer time!
Use mostly pastel colors, but neutrals go with everything. Have enough
clothes in both types of colors to mix and match.
Wear clothing that fits. Don't wear low cut jeans if you don't feel
comfortable, but make sure your jeans fit you and are not tight or
baggy. A belt is okay, but the fit says it all. Try on lots of brands,
styles, cuts, and sizes. Not every size jean will fit the same,
depending on the brand. The same goes with shirts. Not tight, not baggy.
If your shirt is so tight you can see your bra or you have trouble
getting your shirt off of your back, then it's too tight. To see if the
shirt is too small, raise your arms up. If your stomach shows when you
do this, then the shirt is excessively short! Things like camisoles are
supposed to fit tight.
Remember, you don't have to buy brand name clothing. Brands are just
social signifiers meant to make people feel superior. Don't get caught
up in that behavior.
Good stores to buy girly clothes are:
Forever 21 (trendy clothes and accessories for women and men)
Rue 21 (casual apparel for both women and men)
Wet Seal (moderately priced clothes and accessories for young women)
Charlotte Russe (clothing and accessories for teenage girls and young
women)
Alloy (clothes for teens and college students)
Dillard's (a wide variety of clothes for women and men)
Ardene (affordable clothing for young women)
Justice (clothes and lifestyle products for young girls)
Victoria's Secret (fashionable outer and under wear for women)
On To Your Behavior:
Be graceful. Substitute clumsiness and jerky movements with graceful and
fluid actions. True girly girls appear like they're floating. Put your
shoulders back and chin up. This is a difficult step, but also a crucial
one. Being graceful doesn't mean you have to hate sports and walk on
tiptoe. Just make sure you walk with your head up, shoulders rolled back
and your back straight. Don't swagger, or swing your hips. It looks
exaggerated and weird. Don't swing your arms either - keep them by your
side.
Have a bright personality, bubbly and happy. Don't giggle all the time,
because people will find that annoying. Instead, make other people
laugh, and be cute. Don't take yourself too seriously.
Always be nice and generous. Having a selfish and nasty attitude toward
others will drag you far away from being ladylike. Always have a smile
on your face, and be willing to let people borrow things from you. Be
nice to everyone, even people who you think are losers, because nobody
is a loser and everyone is a human being with feelings. Everyone
deserves a chance. Don't exclude people from games, gifts, etc. keep
your promises and don't gossip. Don't be mean or hot headed-always keep
your cool.
Don't let anyone mess with you. If someone is bullying you in any
matter, you don't have to put up with it. Don't let anyone walk all over
you. This is the time to calmly tell someone who is mistaking your
niceness and generosity for weakness that you will no longer be
associating with them. Do not "unleash the nasty" as this will cause
people to think that you are a fake person.
Have a few comments prepared if someone is insulting you. But always be
nice. There are no exceptions.
Be romantic. Girliness is also associated with romance. Be sure to read
romance novels and develop a keen interest in poetry. You can also make
this your music style by listening to love songs.
Stop swearing. Swearing or talking loudly is most definitely
unattractive, and not ladylike. It may be hard to stop, but swearing is
one of the worst things you could do if you're trying to be girly.
Try making a deal with your friends about not swearing for a day. Prove
to yourself that you can control the things that come out of your mouth.
Try saying things like, "Oh, poop" and "Darn it." Try not to use
hurtful
words like "idiot" or "moron." They're not okay. Try to make calm and
civil comebacks, not the regular harsh insulting words. It'll take
practice, but it's a huge step toward being ladylike and girly.
Learn to talk well. Talking well is quite an art. Find a good tone so
that people can hear you without straining their eardrums or covering
their ears. A medium tone is best. If you enunciate your words in a
strong accent, not many will understand you.
Don't stuff your face with food. Instead, chew your food and don't make
any noises or gulp it down. Don't take huge bites either - just normal
ones. To look normal as possible when eating take a bite and count to 20
in your head while chewing then swallow. Avoid eating anything that
could get messy and sticky.
Don't slouch when you're sitting in a chair - press up against the back
of the chair and plant your feet firmly on the floor. Avoid folding your
arms too - it gives off a "get lost" vibe, and can make you look unsure
about who you are and where you stand. Try not to put your hands in
your
pockets too much either, -just practice keeping them by your sides. It
feels awkward, but actually looks completely normal.
Hang out with gal pals. Girls love the mall, shopping, and almost
anything associated with beauty. Get a group of friends and have a
shopping spree, makeovers, a sleepover, a bake sale or any girl-related
activity.
Keep a diary. Write down whatever motivated you throughout the course of
the day or anything that was interesting.
Be organized. If you are organized, you'll always be able to find the
things you're looking for. Being disorganized is unladylike.
Make sure your belongings are neat. Make sure you label and cover all of
your binders, folders, and textbooks. Try covering them with clear
contact paper - it looks a lot neater. If you like patterned contact
paper, try the metallic looking varieties that come in red, silver, blue
and gold. Label your things and look after them to make sure they don't
get lost or damaged. Buy some nice pencils and pens. Make sure you
always have enough of everything - constantly asking to borrow things
isn't ladylike. When buying a school bag, go for light and neutral
colors and posh brands - stuff that's good quality. Don't buy anything
in dark colors like navy blue or black.
Concentrate in school. It's important to be intelligent at school. Don't
say "like" at all, unless you are using the actual word in a
grammatically correct sentence or simile. Try hard in every subject and
class you take, and always hand in homework on time. Don't talk during
class - you have loads of time for that later. Don't pass notes either
its embarrassing if you're caught. Ask questions and participate in
class discussions. Try to get involved with the school and its
activities too. Reading up on background information about a topic
you're studying is good, and can actually be interesting. Help others if
they're struggling, and don't suck up to your teachers.
Read Magazines. Magazines are a great way to help you get caught up on
everything going on in Hollywood and in the fashion world. The most
popular magazines are gossip and fashion, but you can read anything you
like. Lots of fashion magazines give you lifestyle tips that come in
handy all the time. The gossip magazines keep you updated on what's
going on with celebrities.
Tips:
A true girly girl knows that a purse is essential. Big or small, your
purse should have the basics: mints/gum, perfume, a nail file, makeup,
hairbrush, fashion tape, pens and notebooks, nail polish, and any other
stuff you need to look amazing
Don't wear too much makeup. Stick with the basics: lip gloss, mascara,
and eye shadow (but not too much. If you resemble a clown while wearing
it, you've overdone it).
A girly girl should not have too much hair on her legs (a little is
okay), but no hair on underarms.
Get some lipgloss and cute jewelry that suits you, but don't go over the
top.
If you want, you can wear both lipstick and lipgloss. First, add a base
coat of lipstick and then add some good smelling and sparkly lipgloss to
help it shine!
Make sure your hair is neat all the time. Set it in a different
hairstyle every day, to make everyone dazzled. Don't always leave your
hair open. Braid it. Curl it. Straighten it.
Make sure you don't pass gas or burp or pick your nose in public. It's
very unlady like, and will turn people off. You always want good manners
when you are in a public area.
When at school, always have an organized locker and desk.
Wear little pink clips in your hair and mainly bright colored stuff.
At school, keep some lipgloss with you at all times, and maybe a small
tin of face moisturizer. You never know, you might just get a pimple, or
even worse, a spot during the day.
Be friends with everyone. Girly girls are popular girls, and being
popular means being friends with everyone.
Don't do anything to get you in trouble. Try not to break too many
serious rules, and always think about the consequences of your actions
before you actually carry them out. You never know - it might just save
you an unladylike detention.
When buying a phone then get a girly color like lime green pink, baby
blue, etc. However, if you already have a phone that is not a girly
color, you can always buy a cute protective cover for it.
All girly girls play sports. In fact, most girly girls are competitive
and that is why they play sports. Soccer, volleyball, softball, figure
skating, dance, cheerleading and gymnastics are the ideal girly sports.
Gymnastics especially. Just don't get too dirty.
Don't be obnoxious. Don't say the same thing repeatedly and don't act to
fake or too happy.
A girly girl has always got attitude with a hint of polite and innocent.
Express yourself and let out your true feelings. Don't try to be someone
your not. No one likes a poser.
Respect your parents or your guardian.
Overall, just bring out that girly part of you and don't just hide
yourself. Be confident, be a strong woman, be you. Don't be afraid to
get caught in the rain or eat a chocolate bar every once in a while,
just try to be yourself and show off your potential and who you really
are! Don't forget to wear pink and another dark color with it
Don't be shy. Being a girly girl means you've got personality plus.
Don't be afraid to show off.
Write with pretty floral/pink notepaper. It looks really cute if you dot
your 'i's with little hearts. If you can't get the paper, just work
with
what you've got.
Always stay calm around boys, and never be scared to talk to them.
Be intelligent. A girly girl should be a great conversationalist.
Therefore, it is essential to study things that you find interesting and
important for life. Read books and improve your vocabulary. People will
admire you because you're smart and have confidence.
If you have any good skill or kind of talent, such as drawing, or
dancing, singing or playing any musical instrument, don't hide it; work
it. Let people see how good you are by sharing your artwork, or maybe
playing a musical instrument. If you're good at acting, look for a part
in any play at theater.
Warnings:
If you are naturally a tomboy and are trying to impress someone, think
twice before you try to be a girly girl. The guy you are trying to
impress should not expect you to change for him. It is better to have a
boyfriend who loves you the way you are.
Don't get dirty or muddy. This just ruins your shoes and your outfit.
Try to be a good person because you don't want to be disliked.
Never bite your nails. This can cause damage to your nails and then you
can't paint them and they will be jagged and dirty.
Some people may dislike you or call you stuck-up or nerdy. If you know
you've done nothing wrong or nasty, simply ignore them. They're trying
to bring you down, so don't let them.
Think twice about getting tattoos and body piercings. People tend to
judge others by the way they look. Also keep in mind that although
tattoos and piercings are individual expressions, they can be permanent
or difficult (even costly) to remove if you change your mind in the
future. If you are in doubt how tattoos and piercings may affect you in
the future, forget about getting them and find other ways to express
yourself, such as creating works of art, poetry, hobbies, etc.
Nevertheless, ear piercings are all ways great for a girly girl. Belly
button and clit piercings are more of a bad girl type of thing; you want
to be good and girly.
Don't always hang out with boys; you will start to copy their ways.
Instead, hang out with lots of girly girls and try to copy things they
do: the catchphrases they say (Omigosh! OMG! Yah!), what they eat (Don't
eat exactly the same things they eat, just don't stuff your face with
food!), and hairstyles (if they do their hair cute one day you could try
it! However, if it doesn't suit you then try a different hairstyle!).
If you're going to copy some aspects of the other girls, don't copy
everything they do, say, or wear as they will soon find it annoying and
will not want you to hang around with them. They might call you a
wannabe if you copy too much.
If you are doing this in the middle of the school year, you might want
to take small steps and change little by little. If you normally wear a
hoodie and sweats everyday, it won't fly over to well with everyone if
one day you come in a miniskirt and heels.
Important Things You Need:
1. Shiny lip gloss
2. Black Mascara for everyday wear
3. Girly accessories
4. Foundation, powder, blush, eye shadow, and concealer
5. Appropriate dresses and denim miniskirts
6. Nice girly smelling perfumes
7. Flat irons, hot rollers, Barrel curlers, ringlet curlers, and
crimpers
8. Gum, breath mints, a small bottle of hand sanitizer, and a travel-
size bottle of lotion
9. Handheld mirror
10. Fold up brush for those bad hair days
11. A purse filled with face powder, mascara, and lip gloss
12. Travel-size body spray for when you forget to put it on or need a
touch-up
13. Personal girl stuff like tampons, pads, etc. Friends (for support)
14. Cute gym outfit. Try not to get to attractive because people will
call you a wannabe
If You Don't Want To Look Dull You Should:
1. Wash your face with warm water in the morning before going to school
to look fresh. Apply moisturizer to keep it from getting dry (you don't
want dry skin).
2. Wear different hairstyles every day to look cute and girly. Wear
elegant and stylish hairstyles. Comb your hair with a comb, or a plain
hairbrush. If you have hair straighteners, or curlers, or hair dryers,
use them to style your hair. If you want to have shiny hair, wash it
with cold water after shampooing (your hair will look polished
afterward. Also to add some finished touches use a bow in your hair or
flowers. (cute)
3. Wear little or no makeup. Makeup is for girly girls, but since you
are going to school, you can't wear too much makeup. So, just wear lip
balm to prevent your lips from chapping, and then lip gloss...to add
that glossy and shiny look to your lips.
4. If you have boots (ankle boots, knee-high boots, boots!) wear them!
They will look great with a skirt, or you can tuck your pants inside of
your boots. Wear ballet flats to look elegant in school. Maybe even
slippers! Yes, slippers! It definitely matches with a skirt. Guys, I
can't think of any more information to share with you for the time
being.
5. Accessorize girl! It's time to bling things up! Wear bright, bold,
or colorful earrings, some bracelets...don't just wear one...you want to
be a girly girl, more fashion! More bling! Wear 2 or more bracelets
(but
not too). If your bag looks boring, bling bling bling! Put cute badges,
and key chains to it or sew stuff of flowers and stuff!
6. Dazzle up your nails. French style if you want! Add colorful
stripes! Put some sparkle in your nails.
Finally, Here Are 20 Really Important Tips To Consider:
?????nstead of laughing properly, and like, loudly and everything, do a
small cute sweet little giggle.
2. Curl your hair every morning, in loose curls. It's so cute! Try hair
accessories like headbands, barrettes etc...
3. Wear cute little ballet pumps to school, and walk daintily in them
4. Giggle when anyone tries to be funny, even if it is not, it is cute
and polite.
5. Be as neat as your personality
6. As soon as winter hits, wear a cute, fluffy, white or pink scarf,
hat and gloves
7. Instead of buying normal tissues, buy pretty pink swirl ones, or any
bright color!
8. Always keep Vaseline, lip gloss, a mini comb and a hand mirror with
you at all times. And, -just in case - keep a spare Vaseline, in case it
runs out!
9. Wear pretty silver jewelry under your school clothes, and have a
special bracelet, that you are not allowed to take off!
10. Try to avoid wearing trousers. Jeans are ok, but try to stick with
skirts and dresses!
11. Keep a large supply of pink or white hair bobbles on your wrist!
12. Always have perfectly manicured nails, and never ever bite them,
even if you are tempted. If you are not allowed nail varnish at your
school, wear a clear one with a hint of glitter, or wear a pearly
colored one close to your nail color.
13. Dress really well and always look cute 24/7. Take care of yourself
and have very good hygiene.14.
14. For makeup, try a foundation that matches your skin tone, neutral
smoky eye, eyeliner, blush, mascara and lip gloss.
15. Be polite say 'thank you' and 'please' manners make you look even
sweeter and more innocent.
16. Always have a planner with you, to keep u organized
17. Have your own special pen that you always use. E.g. A pink personal
gel pen that you ALWAYS use-That's super cute!!
18. Love others as much as you love yourself. Care for others :)
19. Be a good listener, show them that you really care.
20. Always have a purse with you and try to keep it organized.
Guys, I can't think of any more information to share with you for the
time being. If I missed anything please let me know. Follow these
guidelines to the best of your ability and I am confident you'll be
pleased with the results.
Jenni
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