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I sit writing this story with my cock locked in a cage and my wife out for the evening with the key on her keychain. I thought I would write down a few things about why, how, and what not from my perspective. The first thing is that I have no intention of wearing a chastity device to follow anyone elses path or reasons, I enjoy reading why others have taken the leap and how it affects their daily lives though. Mainly for me there is a difference between stories of a dominant woman and a male in chastity that I would masturbate to that are very different than the reasons I would put one on myself.
I have a submissive side that I enjoy exploring in fantasy while surfing around here, but in the real world the power difference is not something that I enjoy in my long term relationships. It is fun on a short term basis, but for me there are seeds of imbalance that I can't fully work around. I am lucky enough to have an awesome wife who is very down to earth and adventurous, just with no desire for power play. The idea of chastity play and a cock cage came from playing on tumblr and seeing them pop up on my dashboard from time to time... and as I liked a few or those posters for other things along came more exposure to guys in cages. The other key part was finding off knock offs from the internet for a fraction of the cost of name brand ones I could buy locally. There is no way I could spend over a hundred dollars for a cock cage to see what the wife thought of it. Those the outside factors that planted the seed and moved me to order a cheap on from China, there were a few internal factors that finally aligned.
The main one I have to assume is present for most guys. I love to masturbate. If I have the day to myself I can chat here and watch porn and play for a few hours at a go. I do not think of it as a problem, but do acknowledge how my power the want has over my day. In the last few years my wife and I have 1 day our days off overlap and it happens to fall directly after my day I get to spend alone. Needless to say I would always masturbate the day before we would then have time to relax in bed and enjoy ourselves. I have always enjoyed being able to have my cock act on demand for the most part and although I am more of a fan of being creative, it has been a reliable part of sex. I have found that getting a little older now my penis does not respond on demand as it once did. Those three ideas started to play in my head while I saw those cock cages passing by on tumblr.... What would my day look like home alone if I wasn't able to play with myself? How strange would my wife find it if I got a cock cage and gave her the key?
Without having a clear answer to what it would look like I checked online and found a cheap one for 15$. I figured it would be curious to see so ordered it... Then I thought I should tell my wife. I told her there were two ideas that I thought would be fun for us to explore. the first is that I adore her pleasure and would enjoy being in a cock cage as a way for her to get used to delving as deeply into her joy without the idea of having to reciprocate. The second it the idea of my cock being on call for her when she wants it... or if she does not want it she has a key hidden in the house and can phone me from work on my day off so I can masturbate on my own and be locked back up when she gets home and she does not have to think of me on our day off.
We also covered the two areas we did not seek to go. We did not want my cock being caged to be about power over me. She could not hold my cock captive for chores or behaviour. She could hold my cock in chastity longer if she thought it would be a turn on to do so. It was vital for her that it was only about sexual fun. The other part for her was that it was not long term chastity. I have thrown out that I would like to go two weeks locked up when we have a block of time to ourselves just to get used to the guilt she naturally has not pleasing me when she feels pleasure.
It is just one week into our play since the cage arrived last week, but right now we have a rough base to start from. Thursday and Sunday are the two days of the week I will get released, unless she lets me free to deal with myself on Saturday. Those are the two days for some deep scrubbing and cleaning at minimum. It is up to her what happens sexually. The one request I made is that she does not just give me the key, but removes the cage herself. For me it makes a big difference that she is an active part of it, not just throwing me the key.
In the very short experience so far I am surprised how much more built up my arousal is after a few days locked up. Some days are a breeze and I don't think about it while other times can become very frustrating. To go one step further on the word frustrating. There is a strange spiraling effect that I have already run into. It was not just a little frustration, it was a cycle of frustration that was self looping. I have two experiences with a similar feeling: traveling in India with incredible heat and humidity, and SCUBA diving. In both cases there is that uncomfortable inescapable situation that you simply have to endure by staying as calm as you can.
Mostly I wanted to write this to get down my experience so far and to hopefully get across to someone some day, that chastity does not have to be a part of BDSM. I think there can be a thousand unique places two creative people can find to use one if there was less stigma attached to it being an extreme fetish act.
I have a submissive side that I enjoy exploring in fantasy while surfing around here, but in the real world the power difference is not something that I enjoy in my long term relationships. It is fun on a short term basis, but for me there are seeds of imbalance that I can't fully work around. I am lucky enough to have an awesome wife who is very down to earth and adventurous, just with no desire for power play. The idea of chastity play and a cock cage came from playing on tumblr and seeing them pop up on my dashboard from time to time... and as I liked a few or those posters for other things along came more exposure to guys in cages. The other key part was finding off knock offs from the internet for a fraction of the cost of name brand ones I could buy locally. There is no way I could spend over a hundred dollars for a cock cage to see what the wife thought of it. Those the outside factors that planted the seed and moved me to order a cheap on from China, there were a few internal factors that finally aligned.
The main one I have to assume is present for most guys. I love to masturbate. If I have the day to myself I can chat here and watch porn and play for a few hours at a go. I do not think of it as a problem, but do acknowledge how my power the want has over my day. In the last few years my wife and I have 1 day our days off overlap and it happens to fall directly after my day I get to spend alone. Needless to say I would always masturbate the day before we would then have time to relax in bed and enjoy ourselves. I have always enjoyed being able to have my cock act on demand for the most part and although I am more of a fan of being creative, it has been a reliable part of sex. I have found that getting a little older now my penis does not respond on demand as it once did. Those three ideas started to play in my head while I saw those cock cages passing by on tumblr.... What would my day look like home alone if I wasn't able to play with myself? How strange would my wife find it if I got a cock cage and gave her the key?
Without having a clear answer to what it would look like I checked online and found a cheap one for 15$. I figured it would be curious to see so ordered it... Then I thought I should tell my wife. I told her there were two ideas that I thought would be fun for us to explore. the first is that I adore her pleasure and would enjoy being in a cock cage as a way for her to get used to delving as deeply into her joy without the idea of having to reciprocate. The second it the idea of my cock being on call for her when she wants it... or if she does not want it she has a key hidden in the house and can phone me from work on my day off so I can masturbate on my own and be locked back up when she gets home and she does not have to think of me on our day off.
We also covered the two areas we did not seek to go. We did not want my cock being caged to be about power over me. She could not hold my cock captive for chores or behaviour. She could hold my cock in chastity longer if she thought it would be a turn on to do so. It was vital for her that it was only about sexual fun. The other part for her was that it was not long term chastity. I have thrown out that I would like to go two weeks locked up when we have a block of time to ourselves just to get used to the guilt she naturally has not pleasing me when she feels pleasure.
It is just one week into our play since the cage arrived last week, but right now we have a rough base to start from. Thursday and Sunday are the two days of the week I will get released, unless she lets me free to deal with myself on Saturday. Those are the two days for some deep scrubbing and cleaning at minimum. It is up to her what happens sexually. The one request I made is that she does not just give me the key, but removes the cage herself. For me it makes a big difference that she is an active part of it, not just throwing me the key.
In the very short experience so far I am surprised how much more built up my arousal is after a few days locked up. Some days are a breeze and I don't think about it while other times can become very frustrating. To go one step further on the word frustrating. There is a strange spiraling effect that I have already run into. It was not just a little frustration, it was a cycle of frustration that was self looping. I have two experiences with a similar feeling: traveling in India with incredible heat and humidity, and SCUBA diving. In both cases there is that uncomfortable inescapable situation that you simply have to endure by staying as calm as you can.
Mostly I wanted to write this to get down my experience so far and to hopefully get across to someone some day, that chastity does not have to be a part of BDSM. I think there can be a thousand unique places two creative people can find to use one if there was less stigma attached to it being an extreme fetish act.
Vicky
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