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Title: Femme Your Hubby Installment #3
Author: A. K. Remenko
Preface: I have been privileged to learn a few things by being
permitted to observe the work of some very accomplished
individuals. For what it's worth, I'll share what I've learned or
at least THINK I have learned. A FAQ section is being prepared.
Questions should be e-mailed to [email protected]. Flames
and the like will be ignored and cheerfully deleted. Not for
dissemination to minors under any circumstance(s).
Phase V. Finishing school
At this point a pause for both self and subject assessment seems
judicious. Those tempted to plunge ahead should instead take stock
of their personal situation in light of the goals they have set.
Embarking on the fifth phase without have clearly defined
attainable objectives is tantamount to clearing a minefield by
walking through it. It will be a short walk.
While timing and other MINOR changes are to be expected, severe
alterations in the charted course during this fifth phase are
fraught with danger. Perhaps brief checklists are in order, first
for the subject:
1. Subject under (firm) control?
2. Unresolved resistance issues cleared up?
3. All male underwear (briefs and/or boxers) discarded?
4. Sufficient skill with makeup and properly depilated?
5. In femme mode on a regular (preferably frequent) basis
voluntarily?
6. Some practical experience in going out as a gurl?
7. Some evidence (even modest) that the gurl has "the mores"?
8. D(0), R and A determined to reasonable levels of accuracy?
9. Evidence of a more docile and submissive demeanor?
10. Realistic and achievable goals set for the subject?
The above is an "all or nothing" checklist. If the wife cannot
answer CONFIDENTLY in the affirmative to all ten items something
has not been done or not done correctly. If that is the case the
offending element(s) should be rectified completely before
proceeding.
For the wife:
1. Do you really, really want to do this?
2. Do you really, really want to do this?
3. Are you confident that you will be absolutely content with a
fully feminized hubby?
4. Do you have a high level of dedication and tireless work
ethic vis-?-vis the task?
5. Have the changes exhibited by the subject to this point been
acceptable and fulfilling for you?
6. Have you thoroughly mastered ALL the techniques and concepts
covered?
This is also a list that MUST be answered solidly in the
affirmative for each item. The wife properly equipped has no
excuse; "it's a poor workman that blames his tools." (With
apologies for the gender specific quotation.)
The first discussion will center on getting her out en femme. Even
if she is to "entertain" only at home she still should have that
level of feminization that would enable her to go out if that were
possible or desired. For the balance of the discussion it will be
presumed the gurl as achieved at least minimum acceptable (to the
wife) levels of appearance, mannerisms and skills for venturing
forth.
The first step in this portion of the process is to insure that
she has (preferably purchases herself) a purse or handbag
(shoulder types being most prevalent). This item carries symbolic
significance far beyond what one might at first assume.
The purse is of course a feminine accessory but the salient point
is its PURPOSE. It exists solely to contain those things essential
when leaving the domicile, therefore by DEFINITION "going out."
The gurl who purchases one on her own (i.e. with no prompting) is
already making the statement (consciously or unconsciously) that
she expects and/or wants to go out as a gurl! This is an
unequivocal sign to the wife that her gurl is ready to venture
forth and the wife can continue with real confidence along that
path.
If the gurl has not made such a purchase then the wife must do it
for her. In this second case the METHOD of presentation is far,
far more important than with many other items. For example, the
wife doesn't merely present the purse as a gift or reward without
concurrently conditioning the subject to its significance in terms
of an ACTIVITY. One will recall the symbolism of the first bra
that related to the subject's condition or STATUS (femme); the
purse is symbolic of ACTION rather than status. (If the reader
resisted the temptation to think about a purse earlier on in the
process the reader is magna cum laude material.)
Obviously the example to be given will be one where the TGurl is
somewhat resistant to going out and has not obtained a purse of
her own volition. For this example the author is indebted to
"Beverly" of Texas, USA. A brief recapitulation of Bev's situation
may prove beneficial. Bev feminized a cheating husband; worse, the
object of the husband's misplaced affection was a close personal
friend of Bev's. Hell hath no fury, etc.
Bev, in accordance with the principals outlined earlier, did not
let on that she knew of husband's (Brenda) transgression. (Such
knowledge was simply a powerful motivating factor in commencing
the process along with providing a hefty husband guilt load.)
Brenda was a younger looking early thirties and physically
suitable for high-level femming in both height and weight. Bev had
goals other than getting her gurl out (care to guess?) but they
are of no significance here.
Brenda progressed steadily albeit slowly and had volunteered the
information that she was anxious about going out. Bev's tactic was
to present the purse as a special gift and she did not present it
empty. It contained a ladies wallet (which in turn contained $100
US in cash), cosmetics, a very nice ladies cigarette lighter,
ladies' brand cigarettes and assorted other femme items.
Bev anticipated resistance to going out and knew that given time
to think it over, even with the purse, her gurl would likely
demonstrate resistance to any outing planned that she had advance
knowledge of. Having previously scouted a Tfriendly club she knew
it to have a smaller crowd on Thursdays (though with some gurls a
high concentration of TGurl "sisters" may be more re-assuring).
After having gotten her gurl all dolled up to try on a recently
purchased new outfit ("Let's see how it looks with everything.")
Bev went to work. With Brenda standing there, looking gorgeous,
Bev presented the new purse, gift-wrapped.
Bev: Here, since you're such a cutie I got you something
special.
Brenda: What's this?
Bev: Open it and see!
Brenda opened the package and removed the purse looking a tad
nonplused.
Bev: Look inside your purse. (Note: "YOUR purse", not "the
purse")
Brenda dutifully examined the contents and was noticeably
impressed by the cash.
Brenda: $100! Thank you, but what's that for?
Bev: Well, I kind of hoped you 'd at least take me out for a
drink!
Brenda: Uh, now?
Bev: Why not? You look terrific and you have everything you
need. (!!!) I found out about a place where you'll be
just fine; it won't be too crowded. (Grabbing her keys
and jacket and heading for the door.) C'mon, let's go
it'll be fun.
The purse was not a trigger here (though they can be) because it
didn't produce a nearly involuntary action in and of itself.
Rather Bev used it in conjunction with response conditioning and a
combination of factors that made resistance very difficult. The
purse's symbolic power however was undeniable as Brenda had IN HER
HAND the very evidence that she did indeed have everything she
needed to go out. (While not part of the example the reader may be
interested to learn that some time later Brenda mowed the lawn
wearing a halter, white terry cloth shorts, sandals and a visible
panty line, much to the glee of the wife next door. To demonstrate
that even the most capable wives occasionally become blinded by
emotion, Bev had briefly toyed with one name for her gurl that is
of the "no-no" variety. While the name "Goldie Showers" certainly
possessed poetic ?lan it may have unduly alerted the recipient to
a specific goal.)
There are of course other ways to get a gurl out (e.g. Halloween
in the US), but she's not going "out" anywhere without a purse.
Once out with her gurl the wife may have a few issues to deal
with. If she's done the scouting on her own the fact that she has
will in all probability become known to her gurl, sooner or later.
TGurls are very talkative and since the subject will be the envy
of many others for having such a supportive wife, she's going to
hear it all. If later queried by the subject on her preliminary
visit(s) the wife need only say something to the effect of, 'Oh, I
knew you wanted to go out and I wanted it to be someplace"
(pleasant, or safe or what have you) and "you do enjoy going out
after all, DON"T YOU?" (Question in caps for reader ease in
recognizing a controlling question.)
Q.E.D.
The second, though no less important step, is to insure that SHE
has the requisite confidence in her appearance, mannerisms and
fundamental skills. This can be accomplished by having her closely
observe women in social settings taking careful note of what she
sees. She should then practice until confident she can properly
emulate them. A video camera is a worthwhile addition if at all
possible. Recording and critiquing rehearsal sessions shortens the
learning curve remarkably. Practicing actions such as sitting or
entering and exiting automobiles are easily accomplished at home.
Managing zippers with long nails is likewise important (more for
some than others given goals selected by the wife).
Another key issue is of course the admirer crowd. The first
situation to be addressed is the wife who does NOT want her gurl
"dating" men. In this situation the wife needs to place her gurl
and herself in the company of other "non-dating" type gurls (the
wife should know who they are) and stick close by her gurl. The
wife should make it clear to the group present during normal
conversation (and smoothly please!) that her gurl has no interest
in guys and that wife is very comfortable with her gurl CD'ing and
finds the lifestyle intriguing. This sets up the peer group as
chaperones of a sort when the wife isn't around. The group
identifies with the wife, the TGurl and the non-dating philosophy.
This is standard practice to reduce or minimize the rate (R) of
right drift.
The wife won't be going out with her gurl every time, but she
should go out periodically to reinforce this if for no other
reason. Even a "tempted" well femmed, right-drifter will find it
hard to slip if she knows the wife will be returning and that the
peer group knows the wife's posture. Hardly rocket science; this
tactic is still overlooked by many. Right drift being a persistent
fact is must be persistently controlled. Wardrobe control is also
key; the "hotter" she dresses the more attention of the wrong sort
she gets. Go for pretty but stylish.
The opposite case requires different methods. Find the TGurls
companions who like men, trick the gurl out like a hooker when the
fleet is in, and set sail. On first outings BOTH should dress
sexy, though the wife should not upstage the TGurl insofar as is
possible. Why? Many of the admirer crowd likes GG's as well as
TGurls; the more honey in evidence the more bees attracted. But
it's the gurl that the wife wants the companionship for. If an
admirer offers THE WIFE a drink (and initially she'll be near her
gurl) the wife simply says, "Why thank you we'd love one wouldn't
we (use her femme name here so the guy gets it)"? (As an aside
it's also a good way to separate the non-players and/or
cheapskates.)
If one of the guys starts chatting the gurl up, the wife should
move discretely away, perhaps to speak with someone at another
table, where she can still observe what happens. After the event
(e.g. the drive home), praise any conquests the gurl makes even if
minor. Comment on the drinks purchased for the gurl, the fact that
men found her attractive and etc.
One could digress to numerous examples of ego bolstering and
encouragement but with wives that would be a waste of time, they
already know. Just do what one would do if one were out with a
good GG friend at a singles bar. If dancing is one of the offered
activities (and it usually is) by all means get the gurl up. If
nothing else she gets to walk around a bit and strut her stuff,
give the guys a chance to check her out. The capable wife in this
situation will also NOT go out as often with her gurl; in fact
many increase the interval between joint outings rapidly to give
the gurl as much "operating space" as possible.
Given a gurl with reasonable right offset and/or right shift and a
typical A point over time it's, as they say, "all over but the
shoutin'." How long that takes is of course directly dependant on
the magnitudes of D(0) and R and the location of A. If these
factors in combination portend too long a wait for the wife to
tolerate she's going to have to take overt action to move the
process along. The techniques to be used will be the same as used
previously, they'll just be used to different ends (pardon the
pun).
One should recall that the point was made earlier that right drift
with low orders of magnitude is "sticky", i.e. hard to increase.
This is another example of why setting reasonable goals is
critical. If one's goals included getting the gurl to date and one
knew D(0) and R were low and the gurl was well away from her A
point, one has "barked up the wrong tree."
If the values are reasonably large enough to expect eventual
success, but small enough that allowing events to proceed unaided
will take longer than the wife wishes, overt action is clearly
required, indeed it's the only choice. This goal, i.e. being femme
with men sexually, has a shorter name; it's called getting the
gurl "bitched."
It's tough work, no use pretending it's not. The wife must send
every signal she can to her gurl that she approves of this.
Download some nasty pictures from the web and leave them where
they'll be found. Add toys to sex play that provide some role
reversal (strap-ons are best) both for oral use by the TGurl and
other more "expanding" activities. (Getting the gurl to orgasm
strictly from "Tpussy" penetration is a big plus.) Use all the
techniques at hand. Remember use a slow, steady, progressive
approach.
When she's ready it may be necessary to bring her first guy home
for her. For some it's the only way. The wife's mere presence at
this time provides implied approval and reassurance. Most wives'
boyfriends will not be interested in helping (and most wives
wouldn't want them to anyway) so the wife may have to look around
for an appropriate participant. If the wife on the other hand has
a female companion, rather than a "boyfriend" in mind, these women
are often VERY eager to help the wife get this done. Indeed, the
husband may come to view the wife as a "savior" from the typically
rigorous and humiliating treatment meted out by wives'
"girlfriends." (Sounds like a TANSTAAFL opportunity again.)
Once the TGurl has been properly bitched and dating men the wife
is certainly free to date as well. Previous discussions about
separate bedrooms and the like need not be repeated. Wives who
choose to start their gurl on hormones (given an appropriate
subject) can do that once the subject is solidly Phase V
irrespective of whether or not she dates men or will in future.
Piercing is popular with some wives. In particular piercing of the
TGurl "clitty" (to prevent it being put in places it doesn't
belong) is popular with wives whose gurls have been unfaithful in
their former "boy mode". A larger ring used in this manner is also
useful in helping the gurl "tuck" her "equipment" by making it
easy to tie back. (Snug skirts with noticeable "bumps" on the
front are d?class?.) This device is also useful for wives seeking
to avoid the rigors of the "usual" (physical) marital relations.
(Femmed husbands with these piercings report a significant decline
in both the number and severity of their wives' headaches; a
health benefit!)
We have arrived at the conclusion of Phase V thus completing the
basic process. Part II and the FAQ section follow (the FAQ
somewhat later to allow time to accumulate a broad enough spectrum
of questions) wherein ancillary information may be found. The
capable reader is by now in possession of a unique and potent set
of tools that will become even more powerful with use and "rusty"
with disuse. (Practice makes perfect.) After femming her husband
the reader will doubtless receive profuse compliments from female
acquaintances of the "I wish MY husband were more like YOURS"
variety. (Be kind and spare these women a glimpse of the hunky new
boyfriend. They'll be envious enough as it is.) The author leaves
it to the discretion of the reader as to whether or not a referral
to this work is appropriate. (Although, please note Part II.B.)
The author wishes to thank the many wives and female SO's that
have shared their experiences and without whose assistance this
work would certainly be much the poorer. While only an
infinitesimal fraction of case histories gathered over decades
were used as examples, the un-cited multitude helped incalculably
in framing the underlying thesis. Though these women shall forever
remain anonymous, they are owed a collective debt of gratitude
beyond measure. They have succeeded in beginning the conversion of
the world to a kinder, gentler place.
The also author wishes to thank those wives, and female SO's
(final number yet unknown) who will further assist by virtue of
their participation in submitting questions for the FAQ section.
For they not only help their own process, they smooth the way for
those who without such examples might have otherwise failed.
(Sincere apologies to those who have had to resubmit e-mails that
were rejected because the authors email box filled so rapidly.)
The final quotation is again from the a motion picture (cinema):
From "The Alamo", 1960 (John Wayne, dir.)
Scene description: Two of the "Tennessee volunteer" defenders of
the Alamo lie (mortally?) wounded in the breached defensive works
faced with the coup de grace about to be administered by a dozen
bayonet tipped muskets wielded by their Mexican Army adversaries:
Volunteer #1 to Volunteer #2: "Do this mean what I think it do?"
Volunteer #2 in response: "It do"
Part II. Reference and technical data
The second part will provide the reader with additional items
omitted from Part I. for reasons of readability and brevity. Part
I. was intended to be a reasonably concise primer that can enable
a wife to conceptualize the process and get started in relatively
short order if that is her desire. In Part II. certain technical
data and reference material will be provided to assist the wife in
overcoming the inevitable "speed bumps" encountered in the
process. While some wives may find it unnecessary some may find
what follows of value and/or interest. The order in which these
are presented has no significance whatever.
A. Estimating the target population and economic impact
(subjective)
The calculation will cite rough US estimates; however the same
principles can be readily applied to any national population with
applicable adjustments for societal differences therein:
Rough US population (millions) 300
Percentage of males 50%
Adult population (over 18 years of age, conservative) 65%
Target population (millions) 97
Threshold percentage 10%
Threshold population (millions) 9
Women represent more than 50% of the population. However the
excess over 50% is concentrated in the oldest ages groups wherein
surviving female spouses heavily predominate and hubby femming is
problematical at best.. For wives in the oldest age groups whose
husbands still survive (and who have intolerable habits) the
author recommends that wives obtain for such husbands nineteen
year old sexually athletic girlfriends and/or sky diving lessons;
these should prove very cost and time effective.
The threshold population is defined as those males who are either
practicing TGurls to one extent or another (i.e. already active
CD, TV, TS, TG either frequent or rare practitioners, full and/or
limited activity in terms of items of apparel and/or accessories)
PLUS those very near the threshold of such activity given even
light encouragement. Most contemporary estimates put the ACTIVE TG
population in the five to ten percent range. The rate thus assumed
for the combination of actives AND "near-threshold" (ten percent
in total) may be materially understated.
Another ten to twenty percent can conservatively be estimated to
be within striking distance of the threshold ("Candidates") to one
extent or another given reasonably diligent and capable effort.
Split the difference as a workable compromise.
Candidate percentage (conservative) 15%
Candidate population (millions) 14
Threshold and candidate population (millions) 23
Or in other words there are likely a minimum of approximately 23
MILLION US males over age 18 that could be feminized within say
nine to twelve months to one degree or another! (Of the 23
million, 9 million would require very little effort and would on
average take only a few months, maybe as little as weeks to
finish.) The resulting windfall to the women's fashion, cosmetic,
service and etc. economic sectors would clearly be staggering.
(The admirer population would do well to note that if only 10% are
really physically prime specimens for feminization that still
equals 2.3 million "hotties" added to the mix.)
This would quite naturally require the concurrent effort of
millions of US women as well, although somewhat fewer than 23
million as some women find the process extremely enjoyable and
could handle more than one subject at a time or sequentially. An
explosion in "cottage industry" consulting businesses to serve
this market is not impossible. (Experienced wives may be in real
demand!)
Economic sectors likely to be adversely affected would include
(but not be limited to):
Cigars, baseball caps, retail automotive aftermarket (auto parts),
bowling establishments, men's magazines (i.e. "nudie" type), go-go
(lap dance) emporiums, and of course manufacture of urinals
(mitigated by expansion of existing ladies' restroom facilities
and larger ladies' rooms in planned new construction). Not many
women would bemoan the downsizing of these sectors.
Dislocations in the economy would be of short duration and would
likely be more than offset by a stupendous surge in retail sales
and employment opportunities in the retail sector (aka the
"shopping factor". Alas, too late for K-Mart).
Astute female investors, even if not involved directly in the
process, should be on the lookout for an expansion of the femming
phenomenon. The resultant opportunity for profitable long
positions in the stock of firms in the economic sectors benefitted
and short sales in those to be adversely effected (e.g. cigars)
will present superior profit potential. (One would hope a word to
the wise to be sufficient.)
B. Geopolitical perspectives
While Part II. A. immediately above cited for purposes of example
US effects, it is intuitively obvious that global extension of the
process would have significant impact on worldwide geopolitical
issues.
The reader likely thought straight away of the impact on both the
summer and winter Olympic games. However focusing on these events
overlooks far weightier issues.
For example, internal (domestic) political debate worldwide would
take place in a far more polite and conciliatory manner. (Except
in the UK of course where there seems to be no difference based on
gender. The author having watched numerous televised UK House of
Commons sessions considers that many British subjects may have
opted to reside in North America to avoid hearing damage.). Thus
prompted, the reader is left to develop the self-evident further
examples (and she should remember she is thinking for two now).
The point here is that not only is the process beneficial for the
subject, it will also benefit the "global village." One should
never overlook one's responsibility to both the present and
posterity.
End of Installment #3
(Part II. to be continued followed by the FAQ)
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