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Femme Your Hubby - FAQ # 2 free porn video
Title: Femme Your Hubby - FAQ #2
Author: A. K. Remenko
Questions should be e-mailed to [email protected]. Flames
and the like will be ignored and cheerfully deleted. Questions
don't necessarily reach the list predicated on frequency only,
those that are especially illuminating or illustrate basic
concepts well or are of special academic interest will move to the
head of the class. Not for dissemination to minors under any
circumstance(s).
Preface to FAQ #2: The author wishes to thank those who wrote for
their patience during the author's absence. Since a fair amount of
time has elapsed since the publication of the first installments,
the volume of email has slowed sufficiently that the author trusts
no mail was returned due to a full email box. On to the mail!
11. I'm a single female, (twenty something) years old. There's a
guy in my development (apartment, neighborhood) that I think might
be a TG. I've seen him shopping at the store (through the window,
late at night). I find the whole TG thing fascinating and I think
I might want to try to help him (learn more, get involved), but I
don't know how to go about it. What's a good way to start
(approach him, find out if he's interested)?
Note: A number of letters from interested GG's was received. These
letters fell into several distinct groups (with some exceptions of
course) of which this is the first. In general the number of
letters received was inversely proportional to age, that is
younger women expressing interest more often than older ones and
the number of respondents declining as age increased (hardly a
surprise).
This letter represents the first group, younger, unattached, not
personally acquainted with the subject, interested but not active
in the lifestyle, inexperienced (i.e. no prior knowledge of the TG
world via family, friends and etc.) and unsure about how to go
about it ("Rookies" if one will). In addition, some were
"borderline" relative to their desire to become involved. Many
expressed having discovered the lifestyle via the web and were
startled to discover its scope. Some stated they found FM from
TGurl profiles. This group in particular indicated that interest
was limited to TGurls of approximately the same age as the
respondent and single or "unattached" TGurls. Most were rather
vehement in stating that they had no interest in "older" persons
of any bent (readers of a certain age may remember the "never
trust anyone over thirty" mantra of years back). This is also
unsurprising; in this society attractiveness is most often equated
with youth most notably by the relatively young themselves. A
number stated they were actively bi or bi-curious.
Answer: The author could make a fortune on referrals with you
girls! (Just kidding, strictly academic here.) Well, first meet
the guy (you know how to do that the author trusts) and first
chance you get mention that you think the TGurl thing is really,
really cool. It may take a little repetition because beginner
and/or closet TGurls are notoriously paranoid about being
discovered. Many in fact will say that - if hypothetically a
friend or acquaintance admitted to them that the friend was T -
the TGurl would not reciprocate and also confess, even to a
"sister"! No reason to be shy or invest a lot of time if you're
looking for a guy to femme; young women, especially attractive
ones, can get away with murder. If the gurl you have your eye on
is made to feel comfortable that you're being honest and open
about your interest, it shouldn't take long. If not you probably
erred in your judgment and should look for a more suitable
candidate.
12. I want my gurl to eventually do a little hooking. I think it
would be fun and on top of that this whole business has cost more
than I thought with clothes, salons and the rest of it. How do I
go about it? What if she gets busted?
Answer: The author neither condones nor advocates prostitution as
it is with rare exceptions illegal. However should one elect to
get into the "business" here are a few thoughts. Get her a legal
change of name and different legal address. If she does get busted
the wife isn't going to want to be associated in any documentation
however innocently. Generally the more masculine appearing the
gurl. the better they do either street walking or working out of
bars. The real beauties usually stick to outcall and agency work
as the money is better for them there. There are standards
required however and you'd better be thinking hormones etc. if she
goes the latter route. Grab the telephone directory; find the
escort services and dial for dollars. Otherwise find the bars
where the "working gurls" go and put her to work. Make sure she's
got plenty of condoms, etc. Hit the courthouse and find the names
of attorneys who do defense work in this arena, just in case. If
you go through an agency, they'll know whom to call. If you're
tempted to find a pimp for her on the theory that you'll get a
"percentage" and the pimp will handle the "business end", don't.
They will keep ALL the money irrespective of what they tell you,
nothing personal that's just their job.
12. I finally got my gurl interested in men. She is Caucasian and
I was somewhat surprised to learn that she's most interested in
African-American men. What's up with this? Is this unusual?
Answer: It's not unusual. The reasons are pretty straightforward.
Not coincidentally they're the same reasons many married white
females are also attracted to men of African-American ancestry.
Simply put these men are the last bastions of the truly and
overtly male image in western society. None of the quiche-eating,
"Mr. Sensitive" aura for these guys has been detected by anyone
that the author is aware of. FFF. Find 'em. Fuck 'em. Forget 'em.
They treat women like women. White men have either forgotten or
been conditioned to repress the more overt male sexual posture so
they're not in the same league with Blacks when it comes to the
"earthier" appeal to GG's or TG's. MWF's have succeeded in getting
hubbies realigned to more acceptable companionship standards
(caring, compassionate, sensitive, "soft" and etc.) only to
discover they don't have a MAN around any more, good for some
things, not so good for others. Go figure. Additionally, Blacks
have a certain reputation at least concerning the size of their
external reproductive "equipment". The author has no way of
knowing whether this is in fact true. That doesn't matter anyway;
it's what's BELIEVED to be true that counts. If anyone actually
believes that technique means more than size, why are there so
many ads for penile enlargement items/concoctions and all the
really huge toys? It is also observable that, while there are
Black TGurls, they represent a much smaller percentage of their
male population than whites do for theirs. White men can't jump
maybe, but they can sure be femmed more easily. This leads of
course to posing the theory that maybe the T thing is genetic, i.
e. there's a "T-gene" out there so far undiscovered. Since most
gurls admit discovering an interest fairly young, it's food for
thought and research.
13. My gurl is pretty far along and I've started to drop hints or
make references to the fact that it won't be long before she gets
to suck her first cock. Get this: she starts to cry every time the
subject comes up! The last time I saw so much blubbering and runny
mascara it was at a wedding. Is this good or bad? Should I be
concerned?
Answer: At first blush one is likely to construe this as actual
present or likely future resistance. That is almost certainly not
true. Think about it: crying as an emotional outlet is a FEMALE
prerogative. All your gurl is doing is providing evidence that
she's starting to view herself as femme. Voila! You're doing
better work than you thought! If instead she got angry and said
something like, "This is bullshit, I'm a MAN, no way am I giving
anybody a blowjob", then you'd have something to worry about. You
should be aware that she might also cry the first time she's got a
stiff one waggling around in close proximity to her lips, not to
worry. She's lamenting (and therefore implying acceptance!), if
only briefly, her about to be irrevocably lost ("deceased")
manhood, much like guys cry (it's OK then) at funerals. Just be
there to reassure her and get her through that first one, after
that the tears will start to subside and before long she'll
happily slurp away on any stiff one you choose to provide, or she
can find on her own.
14. My gurl is pretty far along (another one! - author) and I'm
getting persistent and not insignificant resistance about her
doing men. However she has admitted that "maybe" another TGurl
would be OK. This is NOT what I had in mind; I want to see her on
her KNEES sucking some GUY. (The writer went on to state a litany
of reasons and motivations for her goal that are omitted here for
the sake of brevity and because they have no bearing on the
questions.) Is it OK to let her start this way? Is she going to
get "stuck" on TGurls? Am I going to have to wait longer to get
what I want?
Answer: This is a pretty tough call, especially from a distance.
Having her start with another gurl could give her the opportunity
for self-perception as a "lesbian" TGurl (i. e. only interested in
GG's or other TG's) and you're right in being concerned she could
get "stuck" there. To the rest of the world, cock sucking is cock
sucking, but not to lesbian TGurls. Since the objects of their
desire look and act femme it is for them somehow "different".
Basically, it all depends on her right drift. (If she had a decent
sized offset you wouldn't be getting such stiff resistance now.)
If the rate of drift is small and isn't increased, you could be
waiting for a long time (read years, decades even). The author
trusts you know her rate of drift (you DID do the exercises didn't
you?) and, if it's small, work to increase it. Sadly, no matter
what course you take, it's likely to be a while before she's doing
men. However there is a trick you MIGHT try to speed things up;
it's worked before but some gurls (i.e. the smarter ones) see
right through it. Get a TGurl accomplice, two or three would be
better, and clue them in to the plan. It's best if your gurl
doesn't already know them, as a friend might "spill the beans".
Put the gurls together for play and over time have your
accomplice(s) dress more and more "butch" every time they get
together. Have them go from skirts to slacks, from heels to flats,
less makeup and etc. Get the idea? Eventually they get the idea
that cocks are cocks no matter what the owner is wearing. Apply
rewards and penalties as appropriate during the process and see if
it takes. Alternatively you could just work on the drift for a
while and see what develops however the author does not perceive
the writer to be a patient person and this course may take
sometime. A lot more information (other than the writer's
motivation, etc.) would be most helpful. (As a personal note, the
author empathizes with the writer's situation and understands the
writer's vehement stance. Not that it matters, but the author has
seen any number of TGurls femmed by the wife where it was purely
the wife's idea. Of that group a certain percentage were done for
the "payback" motivation. The author states categorically and
without reservation if ANY subject ever "had this coming" the
writer's gurl does. Best of luck.)
End of FAQ #2
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