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Title: Femme Your Hubby FAQ #5
Author: A. K. Remenko
Preface to FAQ #5
Some email has been received about feminization issues relating
to minors. Please be advised that such issues are NOT a part of
this discussion. ANY email received containing ANY content
relating to minors will not be reproduced or answered. The
author is confident that readers will understand why this policy
is necessary.
To the mail:
30. I am considering femming my hubby and have begun to do some
research on the web. In addition to other things, I have been
spending a lot of time looking at TGurl profiles and monitoring
chat rooms (I set up a male profile for this so I wouldn't be
bothered with IM's.) There are a couple of things that have
aroused my curiosity. First, I see chat rooms and quite a few
profiles and/or websites where the theme is TGurls for women
(GG). Based upon my research it seems as if the number of TGurls
interested in this far (far, far, far author) exceeds the
number of women interested. It would seem to me that this
apparent imbalance would result in a lot of disappointed TGurls.
The second thing is if I femme my hubby is he, sorry, is "she"
going to be one of these? The last thing I want is my femmed
hubby looking around for women interested in this.
Answer: The author is impressed by the writer's quest for
knowledge and powers of observation. Proper preparation before
commencing the process is vital if the effort is to succeed and
the writer clearly understands this. As to the writer's first
point, she is "right on" both with the observation and the
conclusion. One of the supreme ironies of the whole business is
that "self made" TGurls who profess to want GG partners rarely
tell wives/SO's before establishing a relationship of the
duality of their personality. Yet these are the women who have
already expressed a deep personal interest in the gurl and
therefore have a higher probability of acceptance! The number of
extant TGurls in search of a simpatico GG significantly exceeds
the supply of interested GG's to the extent that for most gurls
it is a forlorn hope. Still, one must admire their commitment to
the effort and hope for the future. A second point here is don't
believe everything you read in profiles or websites. Some gurls
have "in the know" wives/SO's for whom an interest by their gurl
in men would be most distasteful. Admitting such an interest in
a profile or website the wife could find would be figuratively
suicidal. Therefore these gurls place the "only interested in
women" type disclaimer in their profiles to placate their
partner. Therefore the APPARENT number of gurls only interested
in GG's is overstated. Sadly this impacts gurls who TRULY
believe they are only interested in GG's. Why? Lifestyle
veterans are aware of the disingenuous disclaimers and figure if
a gurl is otherwise attractive they are "worth a shot".
Therefore gurls whose profiles contain the "no men" disclaimer
STILL get approached by "admirers" and can't understand why it
happens when their profile literally screams "no interest".
(It's easy to spot these victims, as their profiles can get very
blunt to the point of being nasty because their disclaimers have
been repeatedly ignored. And, let's face it: a not insignificant
number of "admirers" are very heavy handed.)
As to the writer's concern over her femmed hubby's possibility
of pursuing other women the probability of this is of a very low
order of magnitude unless of course the wife desires it. (Hard
to imagine, though anything is possible.) Skillful wives
thoroughly grounded in the fundamentals can achieve just about
any result they wish. Once firmly under control the femmed
hubby's destiny is in the wife's hands. Indeed one of the
principle reasons some wives orient their gurls to dating men is
precisely to pre-empt an interest by their gurl in other genetic
females, although this is not a requirement. There are plenty of
femmed hubbies who are celibate or are limited to
self-stimulation, sissy milking and the like.
31. I started my gurl a few months ago and in the beginning it
went very well, all according to plan. The first thing (panties)
was easy but everything I've added since, and it hasn't been
much, was tougher. What's worse is it's getting progressively
tougher. I know "slow and steady" is the recommended approach
but it's getting so slow it's almost stopped. At the rate I'm
going now it's not going to take 6-9 months it's going to take
6-9 years! Mine is young (early twenties) and would be so cute
as a gurl it just drives me crazy that I can't accomplish more
with her sooner. Sometimes she really gets excited by femming
and other times she just seems bored with it. I've tried
everything I could think of or that was in your paper and I
still can't find a way to break through and get real progression
established. I don't mind investing the time or doing the work
but I'm making so little progress it's frankly getting me
depressed. Any help you can provide would be greatly
appreciated.
Answer: This is another example of an astute wife. The writer
well understands that establishing progression is the real key
and she also understands that she has been unable to do that,
probably through no fault of her own. Some gurls are just "tough
cases" and this gurl sounds like one of them. It is also
possible that the subject is a "real man" with an extremely low
level of predisposition that portends a low probability of
success. The author does not mean to discourage the writer;
rather the author is just "telling it like it is". The author
presumes that by "a few months" the writer means three or four
months. Since the usual elapsed time is on the order of six to
nine months this in itself is not cause for concern. There are
a number of other possibilities. Some gurls resist progression
because they understand where it leads. Some gurls also require
a period of acclimating to the concept in general before real
progression is established. This is precisely why the author
cautions against pushing too hard too soon. At this point the
best strategy would be to be patient and to be satisfied with
whatever small progress can be made. It's far too soon to give
up or to try desperate measures in an effort to accelerate the
process. The author realizes how difficult and how frustrating
this situation can be; the writer is reminded that the ultimate
result is well worth bearing up under difficult circumstances.
Hang in there and please give us an update or two when you can.
(Late update. Just before sending this for editing the author
had a conversation with a different wife in which that wife
indicated the process took her THREE YEARS and was completed
approximately 6 months earlier. While far in excess of the
normal time span, it does illustrate that some subjects require
special handling and that while norms exist they are by no means
inviolable. The wife in question had never seen the material
published here during the process. However when questioned by
the author it was determined that the techniques she employed
were very similar to those presented here with the added factor
of almost unbelievable patience and commitment to the task. She
indicated that though she had experienced many episodes of
frustration and had briefly even toyed with the idea of giving
up, the results achieved were well worth the effort. Given this
wife's description of her management of the process, it is the
author's opinion that it probably could not have been
appreciably shortened. Heretofore the author's longest attested
elapsed time was something on the order of eighteen months.)
32. I started this email several times but stopped because I am
very nervous about this. However it is something I have been
thinking about more and more and I have come to the point where
I must make a decision. I am a female, twenty-three years of age
and a graduate student. My boyfriend is 21 and will complete
work on his undergraduate degree shortly. We attend the same
school and "sort of" live together. We each have our own
apartment but are together at one place or another. I am
bisexual but have never told my boyfriend about that facet of my
personality. I have been completely faithful to him but must
admit there are times when I miss women a great deal. My
boyfriend is, to my knowledge, completely straight and I believe
he has also been faithful to me. My curiosity in this topic has
been aroused because of my bi nature and my boyfriend's
appearance. He is very attractive but not what I would call
"handsome"; the word I would use (and I know this sounds weird)
would be "lovely". He is of average height and in pretty good
shape. He is not a "hard body" however, rather more soft and
what you might call "round". He has very soft skin and longish
hair. If all this makes him sound effeminate let me assure you
he is not. He is a wonderful companion, good friend and a
competent lover. However, I keep imagining what he would look
like if feminized and I find that prospect very exciting. He has
the kind of skin that would take makeup just beautifully and I
have come very close in the past to asking him to wear some for
me but have stopped myself each time. I have not done it because
I am not sure what his reaction would be.
I am very, very tempted to start "femming" him but have a number
of concerns. I am NOT concerned about being able to do it. I am
confident I could. Of the two of us, I have the more assertive
personality (he even jokes about this) possibly due to the fact
I am somewhat older than he is. My concerns are in the area of
what may happen if I do feminize him. I am not concerned that he
would become bi; in fact that would almost be welcome, as it
would get me off the hook about not telling him that I was bi.
I am concerned that if feminized he may become attracted ONLY to
men in which case I might lose him. I am also concerned that
there might come a time where he would resent the fact that I
turned him into a TGurl. (I would never want him to have a "sex
change operation" but the thought of him with real breasts, even
small ones, makes me quiver.) We plan to get an apartment
together after he graduates and gets a job. I'll be in school
another year or two so I'd have the opportunity to do this over
time. What are the chances he'll resent me later if I do this?
What are the chances he'll get "hooked" on guys and lose
interest in women in general, and me in particular? I'd like him
to be feminine but I don't want him to be a "sissy" if you know
what I mean. Is there anything special I can do to prevent these
things from occurring? I am so tempted to do this that, in a
moment of weakness, I purchased some lingerie for him; this even
though I haven't definitely decided to femme him. The things I
purchased would never fit me as they are too large. Any advice
or information you could provide would be appreciated.
Answer: The author understands your uncertainty and your
concerns. You are quite correct in not embarking on this course
of action without being absolutely sure that you are able to
control the outcome and willing to accept the consequences if
things don't turn out exactly as you wish. Despite any wife's
(here SO) best efforts there are certain elements of risk in the
endeavor and you have mentioned a few of them. Given your
physical description of your gurl it sounds as if you have an
extraordinarily good candidate in that regard. This is helpful
because she will be very pretty as a gurl and, ego being what it
is, that will work to reduce any resentment she might feel once
the process is complete. The author's experience and knowledge
is that TGurls almost never resent this being done AFTER they
have become acclimated to being gurls. In fact, even those that
resist (in some cases vehemently) initially eventually admit
they are happier after being femmed. There exists in each
candidate, even those not predisposed, the potential for
something the author calls the "latent sissy". Some gurls have
it and some don't but if present and if the gurl is femmed,
repressing it is next to impossible. There is no method to
determine in advance whether or not this factor exists in one's
gurl absent her making it apparent in the first place; the gurl
may even be unaware it exist! Given the writer's superior
academic background the author assumes (something the author
does not do lightly) that the writer has read the entire paper
and has a firm grasp of the principles involved. The writer
therefore is equipped to handle the issue of her gurl's interest
in men with the addition of one factor. Be VERY careful that
your gurl doesn't fall into the hands of a man who is highly
skilled in developing TGurl sexuality with men. Some of these
characters are very good indeed and have the, in your case
nasty, habit of turning gurls into real cock hounds. You should
therefore monitor her choice of companionship most carefully.
Your inclination to start the process is very strong as is
evidenced by the fact you've already made purchases for your
gurl. The author thinks it highly likely you ARE going to do
this. Besides, no use "wasting" the purchases you've already
made. The author would recommend that when you do begin the
process you do it gently and slowly making careful note of your
gurl's reactions. These reactions can provide a great deal of
insight into her potential as a TGurl. Best of luck.
33. I found your paper only recently. I've been femming my gurl
for two years and I'm still not finished. She has resisted
consistently and each forward step has been hard won. I am
honestly getting exhausted by the effort and have come close on
a number of occasions to just giving it up. Every time though I
told myself the results will be worth the effort. Anything you
could tell me to buoy my spirits would be greatly appreciated
Answer: Read FAR 31 above.
34. I'm a male twenty-eight years old and I now realize (after
finding this series of articles) that my wife is femming me. My
guess is she has also found your stuff because the things she's
doing are very similar to what I've read here. I don't want to
be a feminized sissy. Is there anything I can do to prevent it?
Answer: Probably not. (As an a aside the author expresses
gratitude to the writer for his avoidance of berating the author
for assisting wives in this work. Also she may not have found
this work; some women are just innately good at this.)
35. I go out with my gurl once in a while and have noticed
something I find curious. TGurls seem to be much less
competitive and/or jealous when it comes to guys than GG's seem
to be. I don't see the petty nonsense some women engage in. For
example, a guy can date one TGurl for a while and then another
and nobody seems to get bent out of shape about it. The gurls
are still very friendly to one another. Am I correct? What's the
reason for this?
Answer: Your observation is correct. There are exceptions of
course but generally speaking TGurls (especially those that go
out regularly) are very supportive of one another. It's the
author's opinion that this is a result of being a member of a
societal group that perceives itself (and rightly so) to be the
subject of unethical or unfair or discriminatory treatment by
society in general. The same phenomenon can be observed in
various racial and/or ethnic groups. As relates to men
specifically, there just aren't enough quality men attracted to
the lifestyle and TGurls have therefore acclimated to the
concept of "sharing." A number of GG's have also adopted this
strategy with respect to more traditional male/female
relationships.
36. I busted my gurl CDing a while back and I exploded. I really
gave her hell; I threatened her with divorce and exposure and
anything else I could think of. To the best of my knowledge she
stopped completely and neither of us has mentioned the episode
again. Due to recent developments, I would like her to start
being a gurl again and to start going out and making new
friends. Given the way I reacted before I'm not sure the regular
femming method(s) would work. How do I go about getting it done?
Answer: Does "act in haste, repent at leisure" sound familiar?
The author's experience with this situation is limited to one
specific motivation. The author interprets "recent developments"
as interest in another man/woman or men/women on your part. The
other possibility is you are seeking leverage of some sort over
your gurl, for other purposes, which would be provided if she
were femmed. (Readers should note that while the writer reacted
in an extremely hostile manner on discovering her hubby was a
gurl, the writer still refers to her hubby as "her" rather than
"he".) At this point anything you try is going to be viewed by
your gurl in a very suspicious manner. You are probably hoping
she's going to be so thrilled with the "new you" that she's not
going to stop to consider what's really going on. Think again.
In a manner of speaking you have "cornered" or "caged" your
gurl. What's worse is you did it through the medium of fear. You
are going to have to take a relatively long time to allow her to
perceive a gradual change in your posture and further you must
provide an excellent rationale for such change. This is not
going to be easy. You might consider enlisting the aid of
another wife and her gurl presenting them as "friends" who have
brought the light of reason to your eyes and educated you on the
lifestyle. Be warned; your gurl is going to watch you like a
hawk for some clue as to why you've exhibited such a dramatic
change. You're going to have to walk on the figurative eggs here
and for quite some time. The author hopes your boyfriend is a
patient man. (Note: This should serve as a valuable lesson for
wives who are tempted to "go off the deep end" on discovering
hubby is a TGurl. "Never" is a long time.)
37. My wife recently started femming me much to my delight. I
have always been a TGurl but she doesn't know that! ("Oh happy
day" author) She's doing pretty well, but I want her to go
faster as I am just DYING to go out as a gurl. How do I get her
to speed the process up, hopefully a lot? Should I confess I was
already a gurl? Should I show her the few things I already have?
Answer: You must be living right. DO NOT tell her about your
status. You will only empower her further and you might not want
to surrender any more control in the event points of difference
arise later. (E.g. if you want to date men you can always ensure
she'll feel responsible for that because this process was "her
idea".) By all means IMMEDIATELY discard EVERYTHING you already
have. Any sign of wear at all and she's going to tumble to
what's been going on. You're getting all new things in return!
Just be the best, most enthusiastic subject you can be and
follow her lead. Don't overdo it of course; a little "token
resistance" will play very well. Try to determine in a
circumspect manner what her goals are so if they differ with
yours you manage the process indirectly (via your reactions,
etc.) to meet your needs as best you can. You should be
thoroughly familiar with all the concepts in the paper so you
are aware of her plans to the fullest extent possible. One word
of caution though: you say she doesn't know about your status.
That may or may not be true! All you know for sure is that she
hasn't TOLD you she knows. A shrewd wife would never let such
power-conferring information be known.
End of FAR #5
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