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Femme Your Husband - FAQ # 6 free porn video
Title: Femme Your Hubby - FAQ #6
Author: A. K. Remenko
38. If a guy admits that he has the inclination to dress but
steadfastly refuses to do so how does one go about getting him
to follow through on those urges? I am a female who works with
a guy who used to CD but no longer does so. The nature of our
job is such that we have a lot of time for uninterrupted
conversation (the work is boring). The subject came up as a
result of a talk show about transsexuals we were recently
watching on television at work (We have a lot of time on our
hands.) My co-worker admitted he's had the urge to be a TGurl
from an early age and did CD until about six years ago (he's
twenty-nine now). He said he stopped because of the possibility
of a negative impact on his financial and spiritual well-being.
He claims he doesn't even own a pair of panties now! He has
admitted he has a makeup fetish and he has to force himself to
look away when he sees women applying makeup. (I catch him
pretending not to look when I touch mine up.) I asked him if
he'd like to try some of my lipstick and his reply was "Let's
not open Pandora's box". He said if he let me do it once he'd
just want to do it more and more and he doesn't want to go
there. I would really like him to start dressing again and would
love to take him out to the gay bars as a gurl. (The writer
mentioned her motivations for wanting to do this; however, they
do not impact the process and are omitted for reasons of
brevity.) How can I accomplish this? (The writer did not state
the subject was unmarried but the author infers this as the
writer mentioned she had contact information for the subject's
immediate family, parents, siblings, etc. but did not mention a
spouse or SO. The writer evidently did this to make the author
aware that she has the potential for some "leverage" should the
need arise.)
Answer: This is an EXTREMELY complex case. Typically the woman
doing the femming is a wife/SO who can control the process from
a personal perspective. Doing it solely via the workplace would
present a real challenge. The subject is under thirty and has
exhibited almost unbelievable will power and self-control (note
the subject's reference to "spiritual well-being".) The subject
would appear to be a "recovering TGurl" analogous to a
"recovering" substance abuser. Many of the "recovery programs"
(of the "twelve step" variety) advise subjects to focus on the
"one day at a time" approach. E.g. it's not that they're never
going to drink again, they're just not going to do it TODAY.
This gurl has clearly subscribed to that approach and has been
very successful in employing it. On the other occasions the
author has encountered this, the subjects had a high rate of
right drift and foreswore being TGurls because they "saw the
handwriting on the wall" relative to dating men and felt that
continued TGurl activity might lead to a situation they would
rather not confront. The "spiritual" reference leads the author
to believe that the subject has strong religious beliefs that
would cause enormous internal personal conflict should she
proceed down a path that she (quite rightly) perceives to be
inevitable if she resumes TG activity. (Remember, that right
drift continues to grind away EVEN if the subject is inactive.)
Femming this gurl would be not unlike buying a recovering
alcoholic a fifth of bourbon for a birthday gift. The thought of
what may happen (if one assumes six years of pent up right
drifting) if this gurl starts going out as a gurl makes the
author shudder.
The author mentioned in the paper the "dark side" of the
process, namely the personal responsibility one must bear for
willfully and materially altering another person's life
irrespective of that person's wishes. The writer impressed the
author as being intelligent and knowledgeable about the paper so
the author presumes this will not present the writer with any
insurmountable ethical obstruction. Since the writer appears
committed to the process, a certain quote from a motion picture
would seem to apply here. To quote "Calvera" (the character
portrayed by Eli Wallach in the 1960 film "The Magnificent
Seven"; director, John Sturges; screenplay by William Roberts,
probably Robert's best work and certainly his best known):
"If God did not want them sheared he would not have made them
sheep."
(Calvera speaks this line, in reference to poor Mexican farmers
whose village has been regularly pillaged by Calvera's bandit
gang, to the leader of a group of gunfighters defending the
farmers. The author finds it hard to believe anyone has NOT seen
this film, a "westernized" version of Akira Kurosawa's
critically acclaimed "The Seven Samurai" [1954 - the Editor].
This explanation is probably therefore unnecessary but the
author is, if nothing else, thorough. As an aside the author
also recommends Kurosawa's "Rashomon", 1951 [sorry: 1950 - the
Editor] and "Ran" the date of which escapes the author at
present [1985 - the Editor]. Both are excellent films, with
dialogue in Kurosawa's native Japanese complemented by English
subtitles.)
You must take control; control now clearly rests in the hands of
this very strong-willed gurl. This will be a test of strength
and endurance. Sadly the outcome is problematic as the gurl can
avoid succumbing to temptation by merely changing jobs and
therefore removing herself from your sphere of influence
(precisely why wives have such a distinct relative advantage).
The author perceives that you are also a strong, willful person
so, since making you stronger is probably not going to have the
requisite impact, the gurl's resistance must be weakened. Start
buying her gifts, just little things like perfume, lipstick,
etc. so if the whole project "heads south" rapidly you will not
have made a major cash investment. Flatter and encourage her and
be content with very small steps to start with. Study her
reactions carefully and reinforce success and shun things that
put her off. Don't tell her you want to take her out, rather
something like expressing curiosity about how she looks as a
gurl might work. Study the paper carefully as you will need to
be very aware, proactive as well as reactive and will need ALL
the tools at your disposal. The author finds it difficult to
believe that the threat of exposure of her past CD'ing activity
to her family will avail you much. She'll simply deny it and
given the fact she's been inactive for so long there's nothing
extant to contradict her denial. If you pull this off, you will
be admitted by acclamation to the "Femme Your Hubby Hall of
Fame."
39. My husband has long blonde hair, over 36 inches long. He was
born with Klinefelter syndrome, having what's known as "47 XXY",
so genetically he is more "she" than "he". Due to his butt, hips
and thighs he has great difficulty finding men's clothing that
fits properly and in addition wears a bra due to breast
development. He thinks and acts like a woman; he says he uses
the female side of his brain because that's the side that is
always right. On the downside, he has more of a "guy face" and
therefore would have trouble passing as a girl. My poor husband
is trapped between being female and yet having society view him
as male. What can I do to make him happy?
Answer: [This is without doubt the nicest letter the author has
yet received. The author is inundated with mail from wives who
want to turn their hubbies into cock sucking sissies for all
sorts of reasons almost universally relating to promoting the
wives' self interest. This wife however is genuinely concerned
about her husband's welfare and asks instead how she can make
her HUSBAND rather than herself happy. The author's acquired
cynicism has been ratcheted down several notches by this letter.
(As an aside, the author at first thought that this letter was
a hoax designed to "tweak the author's nose" so to speak, the
author never having before encountered such selflessness on the
part of a wife.) The author is far from expert on Klinefelter
syndrome in general and the 47 XXY factor in particular (there
being only so many hours in a day). The author seems to recall
that this chromosomal variation is more recently detected
earlier in life (in some cases prenatal detection) and treated
with male hormones (typically testosterone) clearly not the case
here. However, it's the author's guess that this wife knows
more, probably much more, than the author.]
The answer to your question is a straightforward one. You have
the perfect tool at your disposal, simply ASK your husband what
she feels would be the best outcome from her perspective. Then
commit yourself to making that a reality to the best of your
ability within the constraints provided. Depending on the course
selected there are myriad options that may be pursued (e.g.
cosmetic surgery) and competent medical and psychological
consultation would be high on the author's list of recommended
actions. The author cannot find words of praise and admiration
sufficient to adequately express the lofty esteem in which the
author holds this writer.
40. My husband and I are both in our mid thirties. The problem
I have with him is that his sex drive is far stronger than mine.
To be honest when it comes to sex, if we never "did it" again it
would be OK with me. Unfortunately he is after me all the time;
his idea of "enough" is twice a day, seven days a week. I get a
little relief by telling him my period has started before it
really has and by telling him it has ended after it has (he's
REALLY put off by that thank God), but I think he's getting
suspicious. He's a good husband otherwise and a good provider.
A woman I work with knows a couple of TGurls who "like" men,
pretty much every chance they get. I know this is a bit off
topic, but is there anyway to get a married guy interested in
dating TGurls? I would absolutely NOT tolerate my husband seeing
another woman, however since TGurls aren't "real" women in the
generally accepted sense I think I could handle that. Weekends
are the worst since he's around all day and getting him out
would be a godsend.
Answer: Your query is somewhat off topic but not egregiously so.
Given your "romantic disposition" the author won't waste space
or time on the possibility of femming YOUR hubby (those with
hyper active libidos are usually easier) as the author doesn't
see you putting forth the required effort. See if you can get
him out to a drag show at one of the local clubs, a "lark" sort
of thing and see how he reacts. Maybe an advance trip to scout
out any TGurl "hotties" would be appropriate. Some men require
the outlet badly enough to overcome any pre-existing negative
bias. (As evidence, the author recently heard a news item on the
radio while driving that an elderly gentleman, 80's, in the
rural U.S. had been arrested for mounting a bovine acquaintance.
Given his age the authorities were unsure as to how best
proceed. This octogenarian would appear to fall into the "highly
sexually motivated" group as well.)
41. I am a 21 year-old male interested in crossdressing. I need
some guidance or a kick in the panties to look better. Do you
know of any services (hopefully free) that could match me with
a young woman (20-30) who would assist me?
Answer: This letter was selected (and edited slightly) as being
representative of a large number of such missives received by
the author. Would that the author did know of such service(s).
The author knows of no such facility other than the "personals"
type services offered at innumerable websites. Writers of
letters of this type were noticeably reticent about disclosing
their ultimate goals in any detail usually limiting their
discussion, as did this author, by expressing an "interest" in
CD'ing or words to that effect. Given the wide variety of
particular areas of interest within the gender spectrum and the
fact that most persons involved (GG's as well as TG's) don't
openly discuss their interests, getting paired with the "right"
lady for you requires a lot of effort. If your object is simply
to enhance your appearance as a gurl then the many "makeover" or
consulting services (yes, they want money) are the best bet when
one considers the large amount of TIME that will be saved. One
should also consider the many TG support groups that provide
such help or at least information sharing/informal assistance
for their memberships at nominal or no cost. (E.g. makeup
demonstrations by qualified persons, and etc.)
As regards finding a simpatico GG who would be interested in
something on a more personal level, the sooner and younger one
starts, the better. Given this particular writer's age (21) she
has a SIGNIFICANT advantage as women, especially younger ones,
seem more open and accepting of the lifestyle than their elders.
In addition, GG's tend to look more favorably on younger TGurls
than they do on older TGurls. The only way to find them is to
meet as many people as one can and, within the limits of
reasonable discretion, determine their level of interest via
conversation. The author realizes this is much easier said than
done and entails some risk as well as no small amount of
intestinal fortitude. There are many more TG's seeking such GG's
than vice-versa and "the early bird gets the worm". In
particular, bi GG's seem to be more amenable to the concept than
"straight" GG's do. Some wives who have femmed their hubbies
seem to really enjoy doing this work and some may be willing to
assist a new gurl. One might consider asking TGurl friends in
this situation if that would be a possibility. The author
realizes that this is not the hoped for response; it's the best
the author can do. The sooner a gurl gets out the higher the
probability of encountering suitable GG's. Sitting at home by
the computer won't get it done.
42. I am a 26 year-old woman. I recently discovered my younger
(he's 24) brother's wife is femming him (she's a little older
than I am) and she's gotten him pretty far along. I think this
is just terrible; it's just not right. My brother doesn't seem
to be very upset about it or resisting it very much. I told him
if he wanted to leave his wife and get a divorce he could stay
with me 'til he gets his feet on the ground. Is there any advice
you can give me?
Answer: Sure, mind your own business.
43. I am a TGurl and have been going out as a gurl for quite a
few years. Why is it that every guy who buys me a drink tries to
get in my panties?
Answer: A. You're probably good looking. B. They think they can.
(Why can't they all be as easy as 42 and 43? - author)
44. My hubby is a TGurl, which I don't mind too much as long as
I don't have to be confronted with it. I am a non-smoker and so
is my husband EXCEPT when he's a "she". "She" doesn't smoke
around me but she reeks from tobacco when she comes home and I
hate it. I've found these really long menthol cigarettes in her
purse so I know it's not just "second hand smoke". What's up
with this?
Answer: Hmmm, the author is searching the author's mind and
experience for the appropriate symbolic reference. A long
cylindrical object placed in the mouth on which the subject
sucks. Could it be a metaphor of sorts? Hmmm. Gee, I just don't
know. This is a real stumper. Can I get back to you on this?
End of FAQ #6
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